It’s NOT a big f...ing deal, but it IS a big deal


What on earth is this about, I’m sure you’re asking?. I’m only playing on the words of a very high government official heard on open mike a little while back whispering in the ear of yet another very, very high government official that “This is a big f…ing deal”. I, on the other hand, am saying it is just a plain vanilla big deal! Got it? Just trying to get your attention! Now that that is out of the way, here we go.

Time and time again I encounter potential clients at open houses who are ever so reluctant to commit to a Buyer’s Consultation or even the idea of contacting a lender. It is well understood and appreciated that the internet has given buyers a powerful tool towards self sufficiency in the buying process. They are able to do a lot of initial research. They are more informed. They are more in charge; and because of this, they can be somewhat dismissive of a realtor’s offer to assist with the buying process.
I do not want to go too much into the full Buyer’s Consultation in this article. Rather I would like to  focus on the lender approval for now.

Yes, my dear home buyers, especially potential first-time home buyers, it is a big deal, not a big f…..ing deal, to avail yourself of the expertise of a lender before starting your home search.

Clients at desk with Realtor


 
I always wish to know if the house that you are looking at is within your price range. An affirmative answer elicits my congratulatory statement to the effect, “so, you are already pre-approved then” . I’ll get an array of responses –“We’re just beginning to look”. “We don’t know exactly what area we want to be in”. “We have excellent credit”. “That won’t be a problem for us”. Particularly after this answer, I’ll ask if they are cash buyers, which usually they are not.


Now all those answers are fine; however, in the interest of saving time and frustration, it is a good idea to contact a lender first. Yes, it IS a big deal. It is not simply about credit. Yes, you do need to have good credit in this climate of heightened credit standards and tight lending practices. Here are some questions that will enter into the equation for the lender.

What kind of job do you have? Is the income steady? Is it seasonal? Is it properly documented? Are paystubs readily available? Can it be verified?
Are you self employed? This will require two years of documentation, for instance. Does it match your tax returns?
Are you paid primarily by commissions? Again, this is going to require at least a two year history, no matter the size of these payments.

Do you have a credit record? No matter how good a steward you are of your money, if you don’t have a credit record, there is going to be a problem. Usually, in order to rectify this, you are going to have to take time to build one!
What kind of monthly payments are you comfortable with? What price home will give you these payments?  The answer will take into account size of down payments, type of loans, etc.

A lender will go through all this with you and ensure that any potential minefields are brought to your attention before you begin your search and God forbid, find your dream home, only to be stopped in your tracks as a result of one or other of the potential issues outlined above.

So, potential home buyers, please get a pre-approval done first before embarking on your home search. Better still, give me a call at 703-920-0003 or contact me via my website because although it is NOT a big f….ing deal, it IS a big deal to get your pre-approval. I will point you in the right direction. 

Let’s work together and get you into that new Arlington home bright and early in the New Year!
 
 Father and Son SOLD
 
 
 

Please contact me for information on the Arlington VA  and Northern Virginia Real Estate market.  Remember, my service is TAILORED TO YOU. 

 

 

42 Comments on It's NOT a big f....ing deal, but it IS a big deal

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I have to decline to help buyers who won't run straight to a lender to get a preapproval letter that states that their credit has been reviewed and that they are qualified for $X. 

It is a waste of my time to take them out to showings otherwise, and disappointing to the buyers when they fall in love with a house and only then find out that they canot qualify for the loan because of some glitch in their credit that they hadn't thought was important. 

In these times of multiple offers and high degree of competition between buyers, it is especially important to submit that preapproval letter along with a clean offer that has very few contingencies.

7:00pm • #23
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Buyers do get uptight about working with agents as they fear that they will be overwhelmed by the agent, which to them is a big f   deal.

7:06pm • #24
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I like to pre-qualify before we even go out searching!  Good information here to handle those objections.

7:39pm • #25
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With underwriting guidelines switching from day-to-day, yup it's a big deal and buyers don't have a clue how important it really is.  Too f'ing bad when they find a home they love and then . . . try to finance it only to be told they don't quailfy for the purchase amount.

8:05pm • #26
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Hi jerry - we must stick together and get them to understand the importance and necessity of that step.  Good hearing from you.

8:18pm • #27
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Susan - well said - if collectively we take that stance, eventually they'll learn, I hope.

Ed, Sajy, Carla: A thought just occurred to me.  Maybe we need a BBT (Buyers by Themselves) like the FSBOs. When they can't get any help whatever, they'll come around.  But in the meantime, the others who come to us will be ready and willing to accept our advice. 

 

8:29pm • #28

Buyers know they have to get pre-approved. Most of them are OK with that, but some want to see houses first, you know? It amazes me.

People have been turned off by me asking them if they were pre-approved, and if not, could I refer them to a lender.

Hey buyer! I need to know how much house you can afford (and if you're really a buyer at all).

9:29pm • #29
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Norma,

Whatever it takes to let them know it IS a big deal without hurting them physically is a good thing.

God Bless you for being creative on getting the word out.

11:04pm • #30
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Norma, I used to be a buyers agent on a team and after show thousands of houses to hundreds of buyers there are certain things to pick up on in this business and one of those things were that the potential buyer HAD be to pre qualified and I need to have a copy of it before showing them any properties.

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Congrats on your featured post!!! That's a big f'ing deal :-)

3:52am • #32
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Ernest - we have to get to the point where they are not 'turned off'.  Let's work collectively to educate them on this important aspect of the buying process. 

6:36am • #33
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Thanks Pete.  We must make them understand the importance of this step. 

6:39am • #34
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Hi Tamara - was quite a surprise and an honor.  Thank you.

6:40am • #35
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Norma, that is a well written Post, nice play on the words.

Personally, I tend to gauge this on an individual basis, and all these the get on the email stop where they are fed more info. I they to focus on the buyers who are real to move now, get those under contract, move on to the next and if someone figures out how this works, they to can get a house

7:04am • #37
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Oh yes the buyers need to be prequalified and by a lender who knows what they are doing.

7:39am • #38
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Norma so many buyers think that we are just interested in pushing them and getting a paycheck.  They just simply don't understand that the questions that we ask and the direction that we attempt to provide is all for their benefit so that their search and purchase goes as smoothly as possible.

9:33am • #39
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Pre-qualification is THE first thing people should do, and it acts as a test to see if people are very serious about buying...

10:43am • #40
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Norma, I came over for Jerry Newman's introduction blog. this is an excellent post. it always is a big f'ing deal.

3:49am • #41
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Thank you Frank - lost one a month or so ago; just would not budge.  Just went on to the next.

Thanks also to all the other commentators to whom I did not send acknowledgments.  This is not because of a lack of appreciation or interest in what you have to say.  Far from it.  I do welcome your comments.  Rather, bad time management took over!  Trying to deal with that. 

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