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If you want to receive better customer service, do something about it!

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

I'm convinced the our society has seen a greater decline in customer service and civility in the past 20 years than in the rest of my lifetime.  Due to that decline, I've taken a much more confrontational approach to doing business with others when necessary.

I have a simple philosophy about this failure in customer service.  If you tell me something, Sleazy Salesmanstand behind it.  If you lie to me, expect me to confront you.  If you steal from me, I will track you down and recover what you stole.  If you cheat me, I will make sure that the world knows to avoid you and your business.

A few years ago, I was in the midst of a negotiation that was going poorly.  An attorney for a major company and I were negotiating the deal, and he was a moron.  His god-complex made it difficult for him to be civil.  He was arrogant enough to call and leave two scathing messages on my voice-mail.  I was frustrated and angry, but I used his own words to turn the tables on him.  I kept the recordings, transcribed his words and sent them to my House of Representatives rep.  He was fired.  The next company attorney was much nicer.

During a short sale last year, I couldn't get a negotiator to complete the file.  She kept stringing this poor couple along and they nearly went into foreclosure.  I used my blog to write an open letter to Jamie Dimon, the CEO of J. P. Morgan Chase.  The short sale was approved in two hours.   A short while later, she did the same thing, and nearly caused them to go to foreclosure again.  This time, I got her boss on the phone, and he and I worked out the details in 2 hours and they closed 13 hours before the courthouse sale. 

Today, my older son was on the winning end of one of these types of consumer conflicts.  He went to our local hospital in October.  He was doubled over in pain.  After 10 hours of poking and prodding, the doctor sent him home with meds that made him sick, a diagnosis of "I have no idea, but go see this specialist" and here's your $6200 bill.  Cash, check or credit card?

The next day, he was able to get in to see his doctor.  After a brief checkup, a $5 prescription and 24 hours of rest and meds he was completely well.  The hospital started to harass him about his bill, so he followed an old family tradition.  He sent a letter to the CEO of the hospital, the president of the state medical association, his congressman and two local newspapers.  Yesterday, a local newspaper paper published his letter.  Today, the hospital called to apologize and see if they could make it right.  They're trying to figure out how to make the bill go away. 

Friends, if you receive poor service, anywhere, make it known to the service provider.  If the service provider blows you off or treats you disrespectfully, make it known to the world.  You've got a blog.  Public humiliation does work for some folks.  If someone tries to cheat me, I will have no compassion on him what-so-ever once he has rebuffed my efforts to reconcile it.  At that point, he has set his own fate in motion.  Poor publicity does hurt some businesses, and some do care enough about being in business in the future to reconcile their wrongs.  If everyone is held to account for their service, the service will get better. 

Comments(15)

Jim Patton
Aspire Home Real Estate 209-404-0816 - Modesto, CA
Realtor - Stanislaus ,Merced, San Joaquin Counties

Great post Mike.  I couldn't agree with you more on customer service going downhill.   A little over a year ago I had issues with a Citibank short sale.  I blogged about it and within hours I had a call from a Citi Vice President and got the issue resolved. 

Jan 03, 2013 08:38 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Excellent, Jim.  You've got to take agressive action sometimes.  Good for you!

Jan 03, 2013 08:43 AM
Marnie Matarese
DWELL REAL ESTATE - Sarasota, FL
Showing you the best of Sarasota!

And on the other side, because of the extreme poor service that seems to be the norm, I now go out of my way to let companies and employers know when one of their representatives does a good job. 

Jan 03, 2013 10:43 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Absolutely, Marnie.  I'm just as quick to cheer a good service provider on.  I also write letters to business owners and corporations if their employees do a great job.  I wrote a blog about that last summer called, "I'd like to speak to the manager."

Jan 03, 2013 10:54 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!
Kudos to your son for sticking with family tradition. I so agree with you and Marnie.
Jan 03, 2013 07:01 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Mike don't you think that is a major problem with the American people in that they don't want to offend anyone.  Or if they cause a scene they will be humiliated so they walkaway.  Shame it has came to this.

Jan 03, 2013 07:09 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

HI Mike.  Good for you!!  Settling for poor service is just dumb.

Jan 03, 2013 07:28 PM
Wallace S. Gibson, CPM
Gibson Management Group, Ltd. - Charlottesville, VA
LandlordWhisperer

I post good reviews on Fb pages of companies with EXCELLENT customer service....I mentioned this yesterday at my doctor's office - why don't they have a Fb page?...they say they don't have time....I said you don't have TIME to get NEW CUSTOMERS?

 

Jan 03, 2013 08:07 PM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

Oh, wow Mike. Those are amazing results. I guess everyone will be careful around you from now on which is exactly the reputation one would want. I had a customer service issue not long ago here on AR but chose not to blog about it because the one involved is really a nice person and I didn't want to resort to public humiliation and hurt business. Silly me. Shooting myself in the foot?

Jan 04, 2013 02:44 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

I was very proud of him for standing up for himself, Roger.  He wasn't trying to get out of anything.  He just wanted fairness.

It can definitely be handled well if you're willing to make the effort, James.

Conrad, I think that's why it continues.  Nobody wants poor service, but when we reward others who provide it, they don't improve.

I do compliment good service too, Wallace.  I wish I could do it more often.

Jill, it's definitely a game of judgment.  I do let some pass.  It's normally only the most egregious offenders that feel my wrath.  8-)

Jan 04, 2013 03:14 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Sad that it has gotten to this point in our society, isn't it Mike?  But I agree with you.  We have a voice ... a very visible voice now in social media, etc.  Used wisely and in a timely manner, it can reap great results ... as YOU have proven.  I hope the hospital does the right thing and that bill of your sons goes bye-bye quickly ...

GREAT post ... and thanks for helping Rainers find their voice ...

Gene

Jan 04, 2013 04:42 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Agreed, Gene.  I don't get worked up too often, but when I do it normally turns out poorly for the folks on the other side.  8-)

Jan 04, 2013 05:05 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Great post, Mike.  I taught my girls early on . . . figure out what result you want going in (or before calling customer service, or whatever), and then don't stop until you have achieved that result or a similarly satisfactory one.  Amazing what happens when you are determined :)

Jan 04, 2013 08:15 AM
Virginia Kail
Investments, starter houses, luxury homes,farms, acreage - Cookeville, TN
True Blue Realty, Homes and Land for Sale

Good for you Mike!  If more people stood up and demanded to be treated in a civilized manner, perhaps society would improve.  I've been known to write a blog article about poor service too!

Jan 04, 2013 10:11 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

You're a smart momma, Mimi.  I love to compliment good service.  I rarely grab a customer service rep by the throat, but when it comes to that, I'm all out.  I have definitely left a path of destruction in my wake when a company tried to do something illegal or dishonest with me, and most of the time, it can be done with a pen and a phone. 

Wouldn't that be nice, Virginia?

Jan 05, 2013 03:00 AM