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Real Estate – What Is It To Me?

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Real Estate Agent with Marc It Sold!

choicesThis is a great business.  There is nothing really simple with buying and selling real estate because of all of the complexities involved in what many of us may feel is a simple transaction.

The rewards that we acquire are bringing all of these individual facets together successfully for all of those involved.  To me that is the rush that I get out of my vocation. 

Are there some aspects of real estate sales that I am not wholly in love with - absolutely.  Are there some tasks that I'd rather not do, or at least to a lesser extent than others - for sure.  But as with anything else it is the total package.

It's what we bring to the business of real estate that will determine where we are going and how we will get there.  For some, it may just happen.  But there isn't enough longevity to that - waiting for things to just happen.  It's what we bring in and of ourselves that will determine our longevity and profitability in this business.

OK, so I've written four paragraphs here and while most of this is just philosophical, I've not given you anything solid to grasp.  A lot of things are intrinsic and not tangible.  You can't touch someone's attitude, yet you may be able to feel it, be it their aura, etc. 

It's like the old story, and I just found out that Abraham Lincoln stated this, but "you can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time."  It's just not going to happen, no matter how good of an actor that you think you are. 

We've talked so much about developing a business plan and many do not do this even in their heads.  I think that part of that problem, procrastination, whatever, is that too many feel this to be a daunting task.  It doesn't have to be.  Yes, it should hold several components, but it doesn't necessarily have to be a dollars and figures spreadsheet.  Some do like taking it to that extent.  Some of us are the engineers. 

Let me just state that there is no right or wrong, I am only espousing my feelings about such. 

I think we need to be introspective.  Some like doing this more often than others.  Some like to do this on an ongoing basis, while others may only do this occasionally.  You have to know where you've been to possibly understand where you are going.  You have to have learned the lessons of the past, otherwise all is for naught.  You will only be repeating the same things over and over and unfortunately in many instances be expecting different returns.  Chances of that happening are basically slim to nil.  You'd only be kidding yourself and unfortunately this is done only too often by many. 

The energies that you exude and surround yourself with will either make or break you.  Some will unfortunately think that I'm just blowing this out my rear.  But think of it, what do you want others to see and feel?  What do you want to evince? 

positive attitudeWe talk and hear people say about all the negativities in the world and our businesses at present.  And if you feel this way, then that is what people will see coming from you.  How about all of the positives?  There are pros and cons with almost everything.  It is how you wish to look at it.  Is the so to speak glass half full or half empty?  These are your choices.  Many will say that the industry is in turmoil and will be for years, our society is in turmoil.  But homes are being sold every day.  Where do you fit in with this picture?  Where do you want to fit in with this picture?

It all comes down to choices and which road we wish to take.  I guess that I've used several adages here, but they do show a point hopefully.

We all have issues.  Sometimes we all have doubts.  But it's up to you if you wish to befall into the crevice.  Do you have a plan or something to utilize when you are feeling down or unsure?  Or do you just fall into it and let it envelope you and just wait for it to pass? 

It comes down to do you wish to take action or react to something.  You will definitely get different results by both of these.  An action is something that thought has been given to, whereas a reaction is something that is automatic. 

Maybe I should retitle this post to read "A Philosophical Discourse - Where do you stand?"  I enjoy writing and sometimes it helps me.  I enjoy sharing my feelings and personal insights.  But as I previously stated there is no wrong or right, it is just a matter of what works for YOU!

Till next time - Marc It Sold!

 

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Comments (28)

Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Thesa - It's just as infectious as the other side of the coin.  It's just a matter of which side of the coin we wish to be on.
Jan 29, 2008 01:55 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Marc.... yes, please change the title...  ;o)  <teasing>  Seriously, even if things are bad and the chips are down, you just can't sit there and wait for it.  As you stated, you need to look at the glass half full and make a move... try new things... get out there.

Overall, it's good to get this and your feelings out there. We need to not only show our peers what we are about, but the consumer.  And mini rants are okay also.  And I agree with Margaret, hence why I mentioned that, as a tease.

jeff belonger
Jan 29, 2008 02:56 PM
Jan Evett
The Premier Property Group LLC - Rosemary Beach, FL
Broker Associate, 20 years+ in real estate

Marc:  You probably don't know this, but you have this intuitive style in your writing.  The way you write makes me (and probably most of your readers) feel like you are talking directly to me (them).  It's like a conversation, just a couple of old friends having conversation.  I really like that warm quality in your posts.

In terms of this post, I agree with you.   Quoting you, "It all comes down to choices and which road we wish to take."  Absolutely!  I really needed to hear a friend say that to me right now... so thanks, friend!  Good post!

And I love the "Positive Attitude: glass half full" graphic!   

Jan 29, 2008 03:00 PM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker

Jeff - Thanks, man!  I have no problem with people knowing who and what I am.  I don't try to hide behind facades.  Yeah, and I'm good for a mini rant now and then - go figure!

Jan - That is so very kind of you.  Part of my writing in that sytle is because I was truly writing from the heart.  Sometimes my writing is as much for me as it is for you.  Glad it helped you.

Jan 30, 2008 12:05 AM
Bill Gassett
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Hopkinton, MA
Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate

Hi Marc - There is no question that in your job and in life a positive attitude will take you places. I have always been self motivated myself. I guess that is why I am at a company like RE/MAX which is more entrepreneurial in nature. Real Estate asa career is interesting because you get to interact and help others, your hours can be flexible, and you make make a real good living if you are skilled at it.

BTW - I just recently noticed your mybloglog name "Marc it sold" That is a great tagline!!

Jan 30, 2008 12:51 AM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Bill - Agree with you on all you have to say about our business.  I love it!  Thanks about the tag name.
Jan 30, 2008 02:59 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Marc, I am a BIG believer in choices and the bed you make is the bed you lie in. If all of us would realize the power we have in choices and then look at the consequences of those choices, we might take more time in making them. And of course, they need to be OUR choices, not anothers.
Jan 30, 2008 03:27 AM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Gary - Well said!
Jan 30, 2008 04:01 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Well, it's a good thing I'm not a fool :)  At our gathering Marlene Bridges brought me a book with Positive Poems in it......and you know what Marc?  It is surely our attitude that we take into our business that give us the 'rush' when we reap the emotional rewards at the end of a transaction when a client says ...thank you so much for everything you've done for me...you did a good job.
Jan 30, 2008 11:24 AM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Sally - Thank you so very much.  You are so true.  Sometimes it's hard for us, there are no two ways about it, but you do have a choice in how you wish to handle it.  I love it when they call and want to invite you into their home after they've remodeled, etc.  That means so much!
Jan 30, 2008 11:57 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Gasp!  I came to see your response...and oh yes!  I just called my client and she went on and on about how much she's done in the past week and that I have to come see her bathroom...she practically gutted it.  Yup....I will surely see that.
Jan 31, 2008 04:29 PM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Sally,  But isn't that such a cool feeling when someone who was basically a complete stranger not that long ago invites you into their home and lives.  I know it can be somewhat awkward at times, but I just think it's one of the greatest compliments we can be paid.  It transcends many levels and proves that what we do is more than just selling.  Hmm, that sounds like a blog post somewhere there.
Jan 31, 2008 11:23 PM
Suzanne Sands
Pavao Real Estate - Somerset, MA
Somerset MA Real Estate

Marc,

Don't you love it when you know you have helped someone through a transaction and at the end you become friends...the rewards are more than just $$$! :)

Jan 31, 2008 11:37 PM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Suzanne - Absolutely.  Within the last year I've become very close friends to a client whose home we did not sell.  They didn't listen to me about the list price at first.  Actually, they've relisted just recently with someone for a much lower price and also a much lower commission.  But, we've become great friends and I discussed this with her.  They actually asked me if I'd do it for the same commission and as much as I'd have liked to work with them and for them, I had to say no!
Jan 31, 2008 11:45 PM
Lisa Bosques
Burien, WA

Marc, great post.  The attitude is totally a choice that I for one have to make every day. Sometimes, even with a great attitude, things don't materialize the way you want it to.  That's when you express gratitude for the things you do have: health, family and a roof over your head.  I always try to be grateful for the little things and have a good outlook.

I was especially grateful to be in Real Estate because my son was out of school with the flu for an entire week!  

Feb 02, 2008 04:22 PM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Lisa - That's  a great outlook.  Hope your son is feeling better.
Feb 04, 2008 12:12 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate
I do believe I just read your mission statement, and I am duly impressed.  Introspection is not for the faint of heart, and you do it with ease and great aplomb.  Knowing who we are, and knowing that while we may not be able to control every action, we are responsible for our reactions is crucial to both our professional and personal lives.  Very good post, Marc.
Feb 04, 2008 12:58 AM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Paul - Thank you so very much for those kind remarks! 
Feb 04, 2008 09:30 AM
Scott Wall
StoneHouse Realty, Inc - Bristow, VA
Good post. Your path is what you make of it.
Feb 05, 2008 02:06 PM
Marc Grossman
Marc It Sold! - Longwood, FL
GRI, Greater Orlando Real Estate Broker
Scott - Exactly.  It's all about the choices and paths that we decide upon and how we wish to look at things.
Feb 05, 2008 10:22 PM