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Is Social Media Taking The Place Of Being Social?

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Real Estate Agent with Online Real Estate Agent Training

Real Estate Agent Training TipsBefore you get the wrong idea, let me be very clear...I love Social Media.  But just like everything else, it can easily be taken to the extreme.  It seems to me that Social Media is taking the place of being social.

What's The Point?

For instance, have you ever been out to dinner or at an event and noticed that many of the younger people are all on their phones?  I've even had to get on my teenagers about actually talking to their friends when they come over to the house.  It seems all they want to do is text, tweet, Facebook, Instagram and tumble on Tumblr.  I for one, just don't get it.  I mean, what is the point of getting together if you're not going to talk to each other?  What's the point of going out to dinner with a group of friends if all you are going to do is communicate with someone who isn't even there the majority of the evening?  That's not being very "social".  If that were to happen to me I would feel a little insulted.  And sadly, I see more and more real estate agents falling into this habit.

A Little Too Much Multi-Tasking

Time is an extremely valuable commodity and I understand that we all want to make the most of every second, but I would find it to be rather rude if I'm out with someone and they were constantly on their phone.  I think I deserve their attention while they're with me.   I've even seen real estate agents who are constantly checking their phone or texting when they should be touring a property with their client.  Don't get me wrong, I am a firm believer in multi-tasking, but I do believe that even multi-tasking can be taken too far.  There are times when you should be "in the moment".  When "face time" is more important than Facebook.  This is especially true when you are working with a client.

Are You Being Anti-Social?

Maybe I'm just showing my age, but when I'm out being "social", I love talking and laughing with others in the room.  And when I can't get out, I can talk and laugh on social media.  Engaging in Social Media when you are out to dinner, with a client or at a party is just...anti-social.

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Candy Miles-Crocker

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Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

My pet peeve Candy... seeing parents with their kids at restaurants .. . ignoring their kids but not their phones!

I like to ask them. .Did you invite  your phone or your kids to dinner?

Jan 16, 2013 09:50 PM
Douglas O'Connell
Cafe Realty/Tax Grievance Specialist - Cortlandt Manor, NY

Great post, and great topic.  As a parent with a teenager I can totally relate.  I still love seeing people sitting at the same table out to dinner not even looking at one another and texting away, it's great!  Thanks for the laugh

Jan 16, 2013 09:51 PM
Candy Miles-Crocker
Online Real Estate Agent Training - Chevy Chase, DC
Realtor - Real-Life Real Estate Training

I'm with you Fernando, it is so annoying.  Like I said, "what's the point"?

Thanks Douglas...it's funny in a sad kind of way :-)

Jan 16, 2013 10:04 PM
Potranco Realty
Potranco Realty - San Antonio, TX
"Sold with Potranco Realty"

Candy, oh yes, I've been out with friends and other agents who constantly check their emails or text, not to say I never have? I think its very rude and disrespectful, I also think people in general are rude when they talk loud on their phones in public places, I say go to a closet or outside. Thanks for letting me have a good rant I feel much better now. Good Stuff Bob

Jan 16, 2013 10:12 PM
Candy Miles-Crocker
Online Real Estate Agent Training - Chevy Chase, DC
Realtor - Real-Life Real Estate Training

Bob, it's one thing to check your email if you are expecting something important, but I'm with you...it's rude and disrespectful...and it does feel good to rant every once in a while.  Enjoy your day!

Jan 16, 2013 10:25 PM
Patrick White
Home Driven Realty, Inc - Baldwin, NY
Driven to bring New Yorkers home

Good Morning Candy

Thanks for the post and information. Social networking is important bt nothing beats one on one face to face relationships

Jan 16, 2013 10:37 PM
Beth and Richard Witt
New York, NY
The best Retired Brokers !!!!

I love Fernando's comment and could not agree with him more than I do...

Jan 17, 2013 12:56 AM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team
Great post - it irritates me to death when I am with someone and they can't stay off the phone--- texting all the time - so rude. I read another post where someone that wrote when their family goes to dinner they all put their phones in the middle of the table upside down and can't touch them while they are there. Good idea!
Jan 31, 2013 06:23 PM