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Home Ownership And Children - It's Not About Sense - It's Just Black and White For Many

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate

Should you rent or buy?  Pros and cons for both.  There are also so many positions on this topic – and it changes as things change.  But the one argument we all have heard – “You’re throwing you money away by renting.”

In the big picture, if renting works for someone – are they really throwing their money away?  Just because it doesn’t make sense to you or others, does it make it wrong?  It's usually a black and white decision for many!

Home ownership and having children follow one concept - it's a long term commitment.  If you are going to do it - do it right - or don't do it. That said, there are some people that just aren’t meant to be homeowners – they are renters – and they will always be renters. 

It’s no different than those who know they never want children (I can't imagine my life without my daughter!) But I respect those who know if they won't be good parents - why have kids?  If it doesn't work for you - then don't do it - especially with major things like kids and houses.

Something that doesn't make sense to me - leasing a car.  Why give a dealer down payment money, make monthly payments, maintain the car, only to have to return the car at the end of the lease?   To me, that’s seriously throwing money away.  But it works for some people – so why should it matter?  It shouldn't!  Right? Right!!

The point is, no matter what makes sense to you, don't push it on others. When a tenant asks, “Do you think I should consider buying?” – I always ask questions that usually start with, “What are the reasons you decided to rent in the first place?” 

People know what works for them – and they know the pros and cons of renting vs. buying!  But if renting, leasing, whatever, works for them – it doesn’t make sense to try and convince someone to do something that only makes sense to me!  

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Comments (8)

Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Gab,

If home ownership were meant for everyone...why are there so many renters? BTW, I find the new NAR commercial about home ownership and children offensive.

Rich

Jan 25, 2013 10:52 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Gab.... I love the photo of mother and daughter.... you're both blessed... I see alot of Kent in Cassie.... back to the topic...I don't believe everyone should be a homeowner....that's how we got into this mess to begin with...some folks are better off being renters and that's just fine.

Jan 25, 2013 10:53 PM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

GOOD MORNING RICH!  And there are a lot of renters --- can you link me the commercial I haven't seen it!!

GOOD MORNING BARBARA!  She's my everything - and yes, she has a lot of Kent in her - wait till you see them in person!!!  I agree - I listened to an agent yesterday just pushing a renter to buy and the whole time I'm thinking STOP IT - they don't want to buy because they don't want to get into a mess!   

Jan 25, 2013 10:57 PM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Gabrielle, there are lots of buyers that should have obviously stayed renters :)

Jan 25, 2013 11:03 PM
Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Gab,

Here it is. I don't agree with the message that they're delivering.

http://link.brightcove.com/services/player/bcpid1465406675?bctid=1672646285001

Rich

Jan 26, 2013 01:58 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Gabrielle, not every one can or should own a home.  One size does not fit all for sure.  Great post.

Jan 26, 2013 08:23 PM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

GOOD MORNING RICH!  Oh yes - I don't agree either - many children whose parents don't own a home do very well in school.  I agree - thanks for sharing that!

Jan 26, 2013 08:31 PM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Home ownership like raising a family is a commitment and should never be taken lightly. Although I think everyone should be able to own a home if they want too and can do responsibly.

Jan 28, 2013 01:12 AM