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For The Love...of Kids -- My Book MeMe

By
Mortgage and Lending with Hill Valley Financial Services

Many, many moons ago, a friend of mine, Jennifer Bukaty, asked me to post a different style of a MeMe.  It was one I had not ever heard of and it is inspired by reading, a love of reading, and our favorite books.  I was completely overwhelmed.  It was the holiday season with so many things going on.  All of those things were designed for my children.  For the kidlets to enjoy the season, to remember what is important about the season.  To celebrate with family and with friends.

So...at that time, I decided that I would post my book MeMe on my favorite children's books.  Those books which my children still ask me to read to them once in a bit.  Now that they are so grown up, at nine and eight years old...

Without further ado, then...the following are my five recommendations.  whether read to your child or read as a child, these stories are endearing.  And although I read many challenging stories in fiction and in reality, I must say that these books all invoke a sense of security, familiarity, and warmth.  In these cold winter days and nights, what more can we ask for?

The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams~ I am choosing this story as the first one listed because it holds personal meaning for me.  As a child, I was inflicted with Scarlet Fever and still have the heart murmur to prove it.  The Velveteen Rabbit is a story about a little boy who has a beloved and shabby little stuffed bunny rabbit.  While the bunny was not as fancy as his owner's mechanical toys, he was special.  This taught me at a young age that looking on the outside appearance is a worthless measure of anything we hold close to our hearts.  My children today still love my childhood copy of the book!  And they love that I am alive to read it to them!  :)

The Velveteen Rabbit

The Little Engine That Could by Watty Piper ~  One of Derek's favorite books as a "little" boy, I must confess I did get tired of reading this one.  He had three versions of it, so we read it a lot.  Now that he is eight, he does not request it nearly as much.  Too many other things to do;  sports, musicals, guitar.  But the lesson remains there and we talk of it often.  When Derek feels frustrated and discouraged (he is smaller than most boys his age), he will recall how the littlest engine could and did.  We talk about how only the engine thought he could do it, and that persistence and belief will allow is to accomplish so many things!

I Love You, Little One by Nancy Tafuri ~ This story tells the tale of how animal babies wonder whether or not they are loved.  It may seem silly to us as parents, but every child wants to know, really know, that they are loved.  So when the human child asks on the last page, "Do you love me, Mama?", I would (and still do) look my children in the eyes as I answer them with. "I love you like the stars love you...forever and ever and always."  I get the best hugs when that book is done.  I would not trade it or them for the world!  :)  Sappy but true, I will love them forever and ever and always!

I Love You, Little One

Pat the Bunny by Dorothy Kunhardt ~  A best seller and classic book written in 1940, this book holds sentimental value for our entire family.  While pregnant with our son, my husband and I had to endure a miserable hospital trip.  Not for us, but for our ten month old daughter.  Breana had come down with RSV and was hospitalized for severedehydration.  My Mom and Dad came and gave us a small reprieve from our sleepless night one morning.  They brought with them Pat the Bunny and the book that went with him.  Dad and Mom helped Breana's tiny hands feel the bunny as they read the story to her and prayed for her to get strong again.  She did, and still has both the bunny and the book.  As her Grandpa is no longer here on this Earth, she treasures all things given to her by her "favoritist grampa ever".  So sometimes, when we miss him a lot, we pick up the bunny, the book, and we read it together.  Feeling the stubble on the Daddy's face, looking in the mirror, and feeling that familiar bunny.

Love You Forever by Robert Munsch ~  This story is about a son and his mother.  For those of us with boys...we know how tender that relationship is.  This book highlights that bond and that love.  My little Derek -- to this day tells me that he is going to come tuck me into bed when I am old and he is a Daddy.  How he plans to fit that in with his plans for being a geologist, an astronaut, a husband, a Daddy, and a Coach...that is what I am not so sure of.  I would love it if he did, but I would love even more that he grows to be so sweet to his own family someday.

Love You Forever

 

So...sorry that this took so long Jennifer!  I did have fun with it, and it has been in progress for many weeks.  I hope that for you and all of the other readers that you enjoy this insight into who I am.  Who my children are.  And, most importantly, who I hope we all become.

I will be watching, reading, and writing...after I read to my children!  :)

Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Sarah~It's so great to see you back! What a wonderful list of books you have and Love You Forever is one of my faves too. That has to be one of the most heart wrenching books. Every time I read it, I still find myself in tears. 
Feb 19, 2008 10:04 AM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public
Hi Julie ~  Thanks...  Have you read any of the others?  Good to be back.  I have missed it, but paying the bills is a good alternative!  :)
Feb 19, 2008 11:36 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I haven't heard of the last two, but I will certainly check them out. We have a tradition in our house even though my daughter is nine she still insists I do it and that is I read to the kids every night before they go to sleep. Even when I had to leave town for GRI, they packed a book for me and I read it to them over the phone from Bend.

Great MeMe and still need to connect up with you.

Feb 19, 2008 12:31 PM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate
Great choices, Sarah, but more importantly:  where the heck have you been?  Great to see you back!
Feb 19, 2008 12:35 PM
Jennifer Monroe
Indigo Home Team powered by Compass - Charlotte, NC
Real Estate REALTOR®/Broker/Designer

Oh honey! This is MY life! This was done in calligraphy, illustrated, and on my bedroom wall until I was 17...

"What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. "Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?"

"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real."

"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.

"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."

"Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or bit by bit?"

"It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."

Excerpt, The Velveteen Rabbit

 

Excellent choices, and a HUGE reminder of those things I grew up knowing. Couldn't have come at a better time!!

MWA!!! 

Feb 19, 2008 12:42 PM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public

Todd ~  Thanks for stopping by and reading ... I will look forward to your thoughts on the ones you are not yet familiar with.  Yes, we definitely do need to get together!  :)  Hope to talk with you soon...

 

Feb 19, 2008 01:41 PM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public

Paul ~  Thanks...I did not even know you had noticed I was MIA.  It is nice to know that you did!  Good to be back.  I was just really busy with gigs that pay.  Clients and all.  I have more business now than last year.  I cannot complain!  :)  Talk with you soon.  :)

Feb 19, 2008 01:43 PM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public

Jennifer ~  I have loved the book for ever myself  Perhaps that is a part of our kindred spirit.  I love the lines saying,

"That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."

Because I love being REAL both the ups and the downs.  The joys and the sorrows.  Thanks for the comment, and again a kajillion apologies for the delay!  I will go back and tag three others, too.  I just thought of it!  :)

Feb 19, 2008 01:47 PM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Sarah~Yes I have read the others too. I should have mentioned that. Me and my boys used to go on a book crazed shopping trip and would read and read. Now all of those books are there for my little girl to enjoy. She also loves to be read to.  I'm so glad that business is going very well for you. Absolutely fantastic!
Feb 21, 2008 01:33 PM
Deb Brooks
Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX
Sarah, I so admire you beautiful women with such grace, literary skills and creative sense of presence. I love to read your soul. Keep it up for us all to enjoy, Later in the rain~Deb
Feb 21, 2008 02:09 PM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public
Julie ~  Thanks for your encouragement.  It is very special to me just as you are!  Books and reading to our kidlets is one of the greatest gifts to them and really to us, too!  :)  Talk with you soon,,,,
Feb 21, 2008 03:08 PM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public
Hi Deb ~  Wow!  What a humbling comment!  I am genuinely honored to have your admiration, as you are remarkable yourself.  Thanks for commenting and stopping by.  Hope to see you again soon!
Feb 21, 2008 03:10 PM
Eleanor Thorne
Equity Resources - Cary, NC
Advantage Lending 919-649-5058
Sarah!  Great Stories!  I love Velveteen rabbit too - but as my son is now 25 - I gave him LOVE YOU FOREVER for Christmas! 
Feb 22, 2008 09:14 AM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public
Eleanor ~  Thanks for your comment!  :)  Did he get the message when you gave him the book?  :)  Kids are such a gift, I am sure he loves you forever too!  Talk with you soon...
Feb 23, 2008 08:28 AM