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Get off your duff...

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Real Estate Agent with Real Estate One

“It’s easy to sit up and take notice. What is difficult is getting up and taking action.” (Honore de Balzac) - from the Jack’s Winning Words blog. As is often the case with Jack’s blog the focus is on doing and not just recognizing. If you see something that is wrong – do something about it. Jack went on to also share a saying that he says he has posted next to his computer - “Get Tough…Get Off Your Duff.” Interestingly, Jack opined that the saying that he has posted probably came from some sales pep talk.

 

Balzac’s advice is easier to read and think about than to act upon, since that would involve getting up and taking action. I suspect that the reason is that when we take notice of something, we start imagining how big the problem/issue may be and how difficult it would be to solve the whole problem and maybe not just the immediate problem that is front of us. If we see a hungry person on the street, we ought not worry about solving world hunger, but about helping that person get something to eat.

 

The other reaction that can lead to inaction is the reflex to say to yourself, “There but by the Grace of God go I.” The next step inbeggar that avoidance reaction is to rush away from the problem, thanking God for your good fortune. Perhaps the reaction should be to thank God for placing you in a position to be able to help.

 

Another resolution for many is to notice, but also to ignore. It is very easy to rationalize not taking action by convincing yourself that you are too busy with other important things to take action on what you have just noticed that also needs attention. People who do that are often plagued by long bouts of the “coulda, woulda, shoulda’s” later.

 

Our lives can become such a frenzy of activities that we become convinced that we are too busy to take on anything else; yet, if one really reflected upon the content of that daily frenzy, there are probably lots of things that could easily be dropped to take on a more important task. We bury our heads man textingin the sands of busy work and trivial, time-wasting pursuits like texting and Facebooking to share what we had for breakfast with the world. Make no mistake about it; texting "OMG, U won't believe what I just saw" is not taking action. Perhaps a signing off with a text, "OMG, gotta go, someone needs my help" is a start in the right direction.

 

So, whether you apply Balzac’s advice to your daily work life or to a life dedicated to service to others, the important thing is to combine Jack’s little saying with Balzac’s second sentence thought – get off your duff and take action.

 

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 Norm Werner

Real Estate One

 

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Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

To take notice and ignore is a waste of your time...may as well be daydreaming!

Jan 27, 2013 09:08 PM
Edward Gilmartin
CRE - Boston, MA

You can have all the knowledge and skill in the world but with out action no one knows about it and you do not meet your full potential.

Jan 27, 2013 09:09 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

I always tell my kids that actions, not just lip service is what matters.  Great post here!

Jan 27, 2013 09:18 PM
Ridhi Raheja
Movement Mortgage (Illinois) - Naperville, IL
FHA, 203k, VA, Jumbo, PreApproval, Jumbo Home Loan

True! It's always wise to WALK THE TALK... ;) Ideas will just be ideas, if not given any action.

Jan 27, 2013 09:43 PM
Norm Werner
Real Estate One - Milford, MI
Helping the first time and every time

Thanks, all. I've just been sitting here thinking that I should get up and go do something.

 

Jan 27, 2013 10:02 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

 

At some point sooner than later...you got to put legs on it....It has to go and you have to direct it...R.A.N.

Jan 27, 2013 10:46 PM
Jimmy Faulkner
Florida. Homes Realty & Mortgage - Wantagh, NY
The Best Of St. Augustine

I had a slow start this morning & this has been a help to get me going. One step in front of another & I will make a list. JIm

Jan 27, 2013 11:23 PM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

One of my favorites lines ever....from a great friend...."Just get something done....I don't care what it is, just get something done."

Jan 28, 2013 12:50 AM
Mary Ann Daniell Realtor
Coldwell Banker United, Realtors - Subsidiary of NRT LLC - Killeen, TX
Delivering Successful Results Since 1999

Norm - what a timely post for me!  I have been serious pondering all the frantic activity I deal with daily and had decided last night that it was time to weed out some of it, just turn it off, ignore it, and make a list and concentrate on what really matters.  In fact, my list is on the wall in my office now, and it is amazing how much more calm I feel already.     Thank you so much for putting my situation into words this morning.  Have an OUTSTANDING DAY!

Jan 28, 2013 01:32 AM
Melissa Zavala
Broadpoint Properties - Escondido, CA
Broker, Escondido Real Estate, San Diego County

One of the things that drives me bonkers is when people say they are "too busy". Even if they are busy (and most of those folks are not that busy), it does not send a good message.

Jan 28, 2013 02:01 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Actions matter.  "Was gonna"'s don't. 

And actions don't have to be huge.  Any step in a direction is movement.  Thanks for the reminder!

Jan 28, 2013 02:19 AM
Richard Arnold
Keller Williams Realty East Valley - Tempe, AZ
Realtor - Tempe, Chandler, Mesa, Gilbert, Phoenix

Often when people tell of their troubles and ask for advice - what they receive is words of comfort and consolation.  Coping is fine, in and of itself.  Coping is NOT a solution to resolve the problem - one needs to take ACTION.  When words of advice contain a set of ACTIONs to undertake, people tend to respond "That's too hard."

Well...doing what is EASY is one reason we tend to end up back in the same predicament. 

Jan 28, 2013 02:33 AM
John Fauth
Coldwell Banker King Thompson - Grove City, OH
Turning your dreams into an address!

Love the post Norm. It would be great if community service was a part of all our lives. This post reminds me of the saying "it is easier for a lot of people to do a few things than a few people to do many things". Great message!

Jan 28, 2013 05:44 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I REALLY feel like so many times after the first step it can be EASY believe it or not. :)

 

Love and light,

Laura

Jan 28, 2013 12:45 PM
Joel Weihe
Realty World Alliance - Wichita, KS
Helping you to use your VA home loan benefits

Trust me Norm, it's not everyone. My volunteer schedule is almost as full as my work schedule. But then I meet a lot people when out helping people and isn't that what real estate's all about?!

Jan 28, 2013 01:05 PM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

Balzac's advice is worth listening to and practicing.  Giving back is an important part of life.

Jan 28, 2013 02:01 PM