It's OK to Let Them Buy Lunch!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

 

Recently read a blog suggesting we not let our clients buy us lunch. Sorry I don't remember the writer. Let me know so I can give him/her credit.

 

I was invited to lunch by a client/friend who insisted it was going to be his treat. I graciously accepted but this was before I read that warning.

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Today was the day of my being treated to a gourmet lunch. And it was elegant, delicious and most enjoyable. Good conversation and giving freely of my advice.  However I was a bit worried if this was going to be the ''payoff'' the " thank you for all you have done but we don't need your services anymore" but that was not the case. The friendship is intact and another listing is forthcoming. So glad I didn't heed the advice..."Don't Let Them Buy You Lunch!"

It's OK to Let Them Buy Lunch!

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Rainmaker
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Joan Whitebook
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I have been taken out to lunch many times.. and fortunately, I have not had any negative experiences.  It is great to keep in contact with our past clients.

Feb 15, 2013 11:11 AM #1
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Laura Cerrano
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Amen yes it is OK! :)

Feb 15, 2013 11:12 AM #2
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Joel Weihe
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I have a couple investor clients who take me to lunch and/or breakfast after every closing. Often my wife and I are invited to dinner at client's new home's. 

Feb 15, 2013 11:14 AM #3
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Mark Loewenberg
KW of the Palm Beaches - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
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I like lunch! yes I have been treated to lunch and golf and enjoy helping others out to achieve their goals as well.. even if their goal involves treating me to lunch!

Feb 15, 2013 11:40 AM #4
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Kathy Sheehan
Bay Equity, LLC 770-634-4021 - Atlanta, GA
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I have been the guest and the host of these type of lunches.  Got for it.

Feb 15, 2013 11:59 AM #5
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Margaret Woda
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Hi, Margaret. 'Sounds like you knew this client and there wasn't' much risk this would be a "kiss-off."  I, too, have enjoyed many pleasant lunches with clients, but I usually stick to business when they're new buyer-clients and we're in the midst of a home-search.

Feb 15, 2013 07:21 PM #6
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Debbie Gartner
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Oh gosh, I hadn't read that blog post, and yes, I guess it would make me paranoid.  Glad yours worked out so well.

Feb 15, 2013 07:23 PM #7
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Sally K. & David L. Hanson
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There really ARE free lunches !  With referrals for Dessert !

Feb 15, 2013 07:58 PM #8
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Bobbie Smith
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Margaret, Don't let them buy you lunch. Hmmm. Why not?  Glad it turned out to be a nice time with an opportunity for more business which was probably the plan from the start. Hope whoever said don't let them buy you lunch reads your blog. Have A Great Day!

Feb 15, 2013 09:11 PM #9
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Roy Kelley
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It is a special treat when a client picks up the tab.  

Have a wonderful weekend!

Feb 15, 2013 10:58 PM #10
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Rebecca Gaujot
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Margaret, I enjoy lunch with clients, a good way to get to know them better....I pay or they pay it doesn't matter to me...but, I must say it is always nice to be treated to lunch.
Feb 16, 2013 12:29 AM #11
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Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
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Calls inning you to lunch is a big compliment and tells you they are thinking of you, appreciate you and value you as a person, glad you enjoyed it!
Feb 16, 2013 01:00 AM #12
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Joan, You are doing something right for sure.

Laura, Thanks for your approval.

Joel, Yes we have the same. Relationships are formed with clients/friends.

Mark, It is easier for me to treat than be treated.

Kathy, And they are always enjoyed.

Margaret, Lunch is a part of doing business.

Sally, The dessert came home for Lee.

Debbie, Thanks for stopping by.

Bobbie, I wish I could find that post.

Roy, Hope you also enjoy the weekend.

Rebecca, It spending the time together that matters. I really enjoyed your xoxo Valentine post.

Evelyn, It is a big compliment and very enjoyable.

Feb 16, 2013 01:27 AM #13
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Erica Ramus
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I'd say it depends on the situation, but normally if a client (and many times they turn into friends!) offers to buy me lunch, I graciously accept.

Feb 16, 2013 03:54 AM #14
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Erica, I agree but I am so used to treating my clients.

Feb 16, 2013 09:57 AM #15
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Cheryl Ritchie
RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com - Huntingtown, MD
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I want to dive in and taste the food. What a nice treat! Good counterpoint!
Feb 17, 2013 02:20 PM #16
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Enjoying lunch with a client is a treat and business also gets done.

Feb 17, 2013 07:02 PM #17
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Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
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I'm not that long in this country, so I am ready to pay if I need to, I don't mind at all. But in my country( Ukraine and many other European countries, a man always pay if he has lunch/dinner with a lady, regardless if it is a business lunch or not. Now, it might have changed...:)

Feb 23, 2013 07:00 AM #18
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Inna, The point of the original blog...when a buyer wants to buy you lunch...it is their way of firing you. Thank you for your time but we don't need you anymore.

As a Realtor® I have bought many meals..just a cost of doing business.

Feb 23, 2013 08:03 AM #19
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