Sometimes its the seemingly unimportant experiences that can have the most impact on our lives. Like, tossing a pebble in the water and watching the ripple action. 

One day I had a little extra time that I chose to use browsing Active Rain. I don't know how or why I discovered Ed Rybczynski's profile; but, I ended up there. I read and was immediately fascinated. I am not going to fill you in on the profile, because I don't want to plagiarize his site. Nor do I want to give my own interpretation of the meaning, because what you gain could be different.

I visited the website referred to in his profile. I ordered "Crossroads". Then I forgot about it until I received his packet in the mail. Guess what? It arrived free without a request for funding. That alone is enough to knock your socks off.

I left the CD and wrist band laying on my kitchen table while I attended to other things.  Later, my 13 yr old daughter came home from school and was sitting at the table. She picks up the wrist band and says, "I guess that's for me?" (She really fell into that one :-) I said, "I hadn't thought of giving it to you, but, I guess you can have it." She immediately put on the wrist band along with the other bands she was wearing.

I told her it had a story behind it, and that the story was more about Real Estate and adults not doing the "right thing", overcoming, and making a turnaround. I also mentioned that the statement on the band was correct.  The Answer is NO.  They had not intended to say, "Just say no." I mentioned to her that if anyone else at school saw it and wanted one, we could probably get more. The wrist band statement could apply to any and all temptations.I also let her know that the big "we" of the world is so focused on kids and teens doing the "right thing" that sometimes we forget that adults are faced with daily temptations, too.

Ed, thank you. This may have not been your intended result, but your work had a positive result at the grass roots level.

One of the great mysteries of life is knowing what impact we have on others' lives. I want to let you know you started a ripple in Long Beach, MS .

 

 

 

 

 

8 Comments on The Answer is NO. A thank you to Active Rain Member, Ed Rybczynski

I've been wearing mine.  My daughter is wearing the other one.  I love it.

kk

01/18/2007 10:51 PM by Kristal Kraft ~ Denver Real Estate (The Berkshire Group Realtors)


we all have decisions to make every day.... and how we answer them are a testament to our character

 

01/18/2007 11:36 PM by Tom Burris | Texas Home Loan Expert (DallasLoanGuy.com)


I love Ed's messages.  I will have to check out the "supplemental" materials!

01/18/2007 11:52 PM by Renee Burrows - Las Vegas NV Real Estate (Nevada Realty Solutions)


KK: Thanks for sharing

Tom: You are so Right... Is it okay to download and forward your report? Is it okay to place a link to it on my website?

Renee: order today!

Though the message focused on the Title Industry, I think it serves as a strong message to all facets of the Real Estate Industry.

I visited each of your websites.  Each of you provide great information. I just recently changed website hosts, so mine is nowhere near up to par yet. Using you guys as a benchmark, I have a long way to go.

01/19/2007 07:26 AM by Suzi Gravenstuk|Independent Broker| License # 17787 (MGC Realty, LLC)


Okay--one of the most important points to me in Ed's story, "CrossRoads" is that for professionals, ignorance doesn't let you off the hook, i.e. (...I didn't know that). I think this is what many FSBO's do not realize about not choosing to use a real estate agent or REALTOR(r) -We take that monkey-

01/19/2007 07:53 AM by Suzi Gravenstuk|Independent Broker| License # 17787 (MGC Realty, LLC)


please feel free to link to it.

you may forward, but i would prefer that you link to it when possible

and thanks for posting this about Ed

01/19/2007 09:35 AM by Tom Burris | Texas Home Loan Expert (DallasLoanGuy.com)


Suzi,

thank you for that wonderful introduction.  I just spent the last 30 minutes reading Ed's blog and website - an amazing story that should be shared with every professional who has a fiduicary duty.

Now have a Blessed Day,

John Occhi, Hemet CA REALTOR
www.JohnOcchi.Com

 

01/27/2007 12:54 AM by John Occhi Hemet CA Real Estate (Century 21 Crest - Crest REO)


I humbly thank you back. I hope we can back Ed up and help get his message out. His information certainly heightened my awareness of the potentiaol for being "suckered in" to less than ethical conduct, and that "ignorance is not an excuse" in a court of law. 

01/27/2007 09:01 AM by Suzi Gravenstuk|Independent Broker| License # 17787 (MGC Realty, LLC)


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