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Rethink the Bridal Registry--First Toaster, First China and First HOME?!!

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Real Estate Agent with Boardman Realty Minnesota License#90858

Wouldn't it be great to take one of those little barcode readers beyond Target's towels, toasters and flat screens and head out to the nearest neighborhood and tag something that a new bride and groom really need, their first home? Shopping the Parade of Homes or at a Sunday Open House, you could click on your favorites and receive the front door key just in time to be carried over the threshold. Only in a perfect world, right?
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I know it sounds a little off-the-wall but brides and grooms getting married this year are going to face a tougher time finding a loan as first time buyers. Zero down loans have all but disappeared from the landscape and first time buyers will need cash in their pockets to put toward a new home. As mortgage programs continue to change and evolve over the next year, there is a reality to saving for that down payment. A forward thinking young couple might want to divert some of their wedding funds and gifts into an real estate investment in which they can begin their lives together.

Starting this year, new home buyers are going to NEED a down payment for a house. Not just a few bucks either. In most cases a buyer will require a minimum of 3-5% to put down. With an average Minnesota starter home in the $200,000 price range, 2008 brides and grooms will need to save at least $6,000-$10,000, plus closing costs.

But all is not lost for first time buyers, but a little forward thinking is in order. There is a lot of money involved in most weddings; both on the party planning and the gift recipient side. A savvy bride and groom might be able to figure away to have the perfect wedding AND a dream home.

New Home Gift Registry--Young couples getting married register for gifts to let their friends and family know exactly what they want and need. If you need a house, why not let your guests know? Maybe the insert in the wedding invitation should read:

"The couple is registered for a small number of necessities at Target, JC Penneys and Macys. If you would prefer not to shop, they are also saving for a down payment for a new home and would a appreciate monetary gift toward their dream."

I don't know what Miss Manner's would say about but I think a financial wiz like Suze Orman would applaud the idea.

Wedding Budget--With the average dream wedding going for over $20,000, maybe a little arranging of the budget is in order. Those saved dollars from the dream wedding can go toward that dream home instead. Now, I am not suggesting cheaping out on anything or everything, just take a look at where you can economize on your budget. Maybe you can go forego the fancy invitations or select a less expensive dress. Maybe that trip to Hawaii would be a better choice for your fifth anniversary and a road trip to the Duluth to create newlywed memories along the north shore of Lake Superior should be considered instead. Whether on wedding details, reception or the honeymoon, a 25% savings on the average wedding is $5000 cash that could go toward your dream home.

So brides and grooms start thinking about your future lives together and create a plan for your dream home. Though those scanners will not work outside of the Parade of Homes, I do! As a professional Realtor, I have helped many young couples find the home of their dreams. I know the north and east Twin Cities housing market and can help you spot a deal from Forest Lake to Andover. I will assist you in writing a fair offer and negotiate a deal so your dream can become a reality. Working with an agent to find your first home, takes the stress out of the home buying process so you can focus on preparing for your big day.

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Teri Eckholm. REALTOR with Boardman Realty, is a native Minnesotan who has lived and worked in the Minneapolis St Paul metro all of her life. She specializes in lakeshore homes, acreage properties and first time home buyers but assists anyone making a move in the north and east Twin Cities metro.

If you are buying, selling or relocating to Minnesota and need help from a professional REALTOR®, give Teri , a call or visit her website for a FREE Home Buyer Success Guide or FREE Home Value Report She specialize in acreage and lakeshore properties in the north and east Twin Cities metro area including Ham Lake, Lino Lakes and all communities in the Forest Lake School District! Serving Anoka, Chisago, Ramsey and Washington Counties in Minnesota.

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Comments(36)

Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Marchel--It must be that practical midwesterner in you...I didn't know it went as far south as TX though! :) I think that a wedding should be wonderful but the cost should be astronomical. Keep a rein on the budget and there will be more money for starting a life together.
Feb 07, 2008 07:03 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Lindsey--Thanks!! I am glad you enjoyed the post!
Feb 07, 2008 07:04 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Lizette-- You are so funny! :) Even those who stay together sometimes regret all of the money spent on one day! We had a wonderful wedding. No one could tell where I saved my $$$ in the photos. (I splurged on the photos!) Just like when buying a house, decide what you must have and what you can live without and budget. It can be done. :)
Feb 07, 2008 07:09 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Carole--I've watched enough Suze Orman on PBS to hear her voice as she recommends this strategy too! For those young couples that really want a first home, this is a way to get that downpayment!
Feb 07, 2008 07:11 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Sandra--One of my best friends from high school and her husband took all of their wedding gifts and used it for the down payment back in the early 80's when we all need down payments. Best choice they ever made. Looks like a strategy that might make a comeback. :)
Feb 07, 2008 07:18 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Julie--I am so glad that you enjoyed an appreciate that you thought it was good enough to flag for a feature. Thank you!!
Feb 07, 2008 07:20 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Lynn--It certainly is something for people to take into consideration as the downpayment requirements become stricter. A wedding is one day but a home can last a lifetime...or atleast until you need to move up! :)
Feb 07, 2008 07:22 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Karen--I don't believe that there should be strings attached to any gift but believe that those that really want a house will make the sacrifices and commitment to save the earmarked money for a down payment on a home.
Feb 07, 2008 07:24 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Cynthia--Miss Manner's no doubt would have a hard time in today's world. I don't know if there would be a better way to word it...word of mouth maybe...but letting people know that you are saving for a house so you don't get crystal vases that you never use...Yes I have one or two in my cupboard....I see nothing wrong with the idea. Glad you agree that priorities should be well thought out too!
Feb 07, 2008 07:28 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Teri--Trying to educate the first time buyer before all of the money is spent on the big day...It's a tough job! :) The changes in the mortgage market will affect the first time buyers this year. 

Glad you like the pic...I create them in Paint or Photoshop. This one was in Paint.

Feb 07, 2008 07:31 AM
Kristina Leone
Lionheart Home Staging, LLC - Minneapolis, MN

When my husband and I were married, we opted for a small, immediate family only wedding.  It is better to start a life together without a bunch of debt.  We were able to save up enough money to put a generous sized down payment on our house, and we've been here ever since!

A house on the bridal entry may raise a few eyebrows!!!  Why not aim high?! 

Feb 07, 2008 10:16 AM
Rebecca Levinson, Real Estate Marketing and Online Advertising Consultant
Real Skillz-Clear Marketing for Your Real Estate Vision - Lake Geneva, WI

That is a great idea, thank you, I will pass it along to friends.  Money toward a house would surely be better than some mongramed towels.  I wonder if Suze Orman would give the same advice, recently she recommended that buyers low ball offers by 20%?

Great suggestion on the down payment gift. 

Feb 08, 2008 11:02 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Kristina--My husband and I bought our house about a year before the wedding. Keeping the guest list small allowed us to save and make the improvements to the house that were necessary....New furnace and insulation. I don't think that letting friends and family know that saving for a house is the plan is a bad thing. Earmarking the gift money for a down payment is the key.
Feb 08, 2008 01:35 PM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Rebecca--If Suze's telling them to lowball the offer, I am sure she would have some advice on how to get the required downpayment! This seems much more practical than monogrammed towels. Thans for the comments.
Feb 08, 2008 01:38 PM
Anonymous
Susan McMahon
Hello - I just came across this article and wanted you to know about my company called New Spouse New House, LLC.  We have an Online Gift Registry for the Down Payment of a Home.  Couples can register on line at www.newspousenewhouse.com - it's free to register.  Guests can go online and give a gift through Pay Pal and the funds go into a secure account for the couple.  Now that 100% financing is virtually gone, this is become a popular options for couples who already have blenders and toasters!
May 02, 2008 06:28 AM
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The Bartley Group SouthEast MN Real Estate
Coldwell Banker Home Connection - Owatonna, MN

Teri, I think most people would tell you 5 years after the wedding that they wished they had spent the money on a house instead.  we have actually toyed with the idea of setting up a booth at a bridal show to encourage saving some of the cash for a down payment and no blowing it all on one day of partying.

Brian Bartley

May 02, 2008 10:40 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Teri, wow a down payment for a home. Why would anyone ask for that? : ) Life circles back, doesn't it?
May 02, 2008 10:47 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Susan--What a great way to save!

Brian--Sounds like great idea but the other exhibitors might lynch you. :)

Gary--Sounds weird after so many years where everyone was buying with zero down doesn't it?

May 02, 2008 01:03 PM
Anonymous
Beverly

My Fiance and i have been saving up for a house and plan on getting one after out wedding in November of '09 we don't want an elaborate wedding just a nice modest ceremony with close friends and family, but its extremely hard to find a place that is in our budget and also i don't want us to have to take out of our savings for our home... AHHH its hard very hard no one really knows until they are going through it!! GREAT POST if only it was that easy...

Dec 01, 2008 12:59 AM
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Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Beverly--I too was in that same position 17 years ago and decided to eliminate many things from the dream wedding (not photos, flower or honeymoon) but limited the guests and had a lunch instead of dinner and no dance. Now years later absolutely no regrets on the budget wedding as the house is still with us but many of our BFFs are no longer in our lives. Good luck with your wedding plans and keep saving! :)

Dec 01, 2008 01:30 AM