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The ONE Thing About Willpower

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308

After watching Chris Smith's recent invterview with Gary Keller and understanding his genuine desire to reach out to real estate people, I have a new respect for him and where he has taken his company. Certainly The ONE Thing is an epistle to the 21st century work force who suffers from technology-induced ADD.

But it also addresses other issues that need the attention of just ONE thing, and willpower is the one that spoke the loudest to me. It reminded me of the speakers who instruct business people to make a TO DO list for the next day. Do the most difficult items first.

Wow. Gary pointed out why to do the most difficult ones first without ever referencing a list or a plan at all. Have you ever thought about your willpower and when you are at your best? That's when you need to tackle the ONE most important thing you have to do today.

It's a kind of take off on the analogy of the 'big rocks.' Put those in the jar first, and the little ones will fill in around it. What's the BIG rock, the ONE rock that you need to put in your jar tomorrow? Take care of that one and all the little rocks will settle in around it, but you will have the satisfaction of taking care of the MOST important item on your list.

Studies have been done to determine what we need for willpower and nutrition definitely enters into it. Also, time of day - like low blood sugar - can lead to low willpower. Students who had to memorize a seven-digit number had less willpower to choose a healthy snack then the ones who only had to memorize a two-digit number.

We tend to think of ourselves as limitless beings - at least I have been guilty of this, not taking into account the fact that any act of willpower is draining and that there are many things that happen during the day to dwindle it. Sure, we can recharge, but that takes time and busy schedules may not allow for it. So consider this a healthy reminder - do the most difficult task on your schedule the very first thing in the morning, when your willpower is at its peak.

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David Shamansky
US Mortgages - David Shamansky - Highlands Ranch, CO
Creative, Aggressive & 560 FICO - OK, Colorado Mtg

agreed, I like your insight on this and loved the three chapters I read as well. So much so I bought the book and looking forward to all of it

Apr 29, 2013 12:34 PM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

do the most difficult task on your schedule the very first thing in the morning, when your willpower is at its peak.  -- this make perfect sense.  It also would reduce the level of anxiety.

Apr 29, 2013 12:41 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

David, it is one book I am going to read as well.

Joan, yes, what anxiety is reduced when that bad boy is checked off the To Do list!

Apr 29, 2013 12:43 PM
Mark Loewenberg
KW of the Palm Beaches - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
KW 561-214-0370

that book is hot as it can be and it was highly recommended by all of the folks here in kw

Apr 29, 2013 01:07 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Mark, after watching the interview with Gary, I now understand his motivation writing all these books and I think it's great! Yes, this is one hot book :)

 

Apr 29, 2013 01:15 PM
Bill Reddington
Re/max By The Sea - Destin, FL
Destin Florida Real Estate

All tasks are difficult if you procrastinate. I usually tackle the most time sensitive tasks first. Sometimes the smallest rocks create the most difficult tasks,

Apr 29, 2013 01:17 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Bill, yes, procrastination goes with lack of willpower.

Apr 29, 2013 01:30 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Hi Sharon, I just finished writing my blog on this chapter, and it opened my eyes to a few things on managing my WillPower, I think that these tips will make a huge difference.

Apr 29, 2013 04:45 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

The book was a great read and I got a couple of nuggets that I will use going forward. Anytime I can take away anything from what I read, the read was a success.

Apr 29, 2013 07:10 PM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

You have inspired me, Sharon. I am getting off AR right now and tackling the challenging tasks first. Thanks!

Apr 29, 2013 09:21 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Bob, now I know that the items that require optimum willpower must be tackled early if at all possible!

Joe, my sentiments exactly!

Gary, so happy to have inspired you :)

 

Apr 30, 2013 12:04 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Sharon, The book brought many ahha's to us. I for one was not as greatly impacted but will try to carve out uninterrupted time to stay on task to be more efficient.

Apr 30, 2013 10:02 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Debbie, like Joe said, if I get one thing out of a book, then it's worth it.

May 01, 2013 08:19 AM