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Loren's Gift

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Real Estate Agent with Falcon Property Company

Betsy and LorenThe City was on fire again. It was June, and the horror of last year’s evacuation and destruction was a shockingly close memory. We had spent the evening of the Waldo Canyon fire together, and it appeared as though fate had brought us together to spend time during the Black Forest fire that was currently raging out of control.

It was my eldest daughter’s birthday. Betsy’s best friend, Loren, one year older, shares the same birthday. Loren has always chided me that she is really my eldest, and she surmises that I had given her up for adoption at birth. It is a close relationship.

It was late in the evening, the air was acrid with smoke. We had finished dinner and had to check on a property that Loren was house sitting. As we approached the car, Loren said, “STOP!” She looked at me, she looked at Betsy, she took our hands in hers. “All we really have is this moment,” she said. “Take a deep breath, be aware, appreciate, let’s truly live this moment.”

The next hour and a half were magical. Our surroundings (which, among other things, included getting eggs from a large chicken coop) and our interaction and the smells in the air and the love for each other were intense. My awareness was truly heightened by her words. And I have thought of it so many times over the past week. How often are we AWARE of our surroundings, of the person we're with, of what we’re doing? How often are we really feeling what we’re living? So I encourage you . . . stop, take a deep breath, be aware, appreciate, truly live your moments.

Jean Jannopoulo
Love where you live - Sarasota, FL
Bright Realty

You are truly blessed, and the best part is that you are grateful for it and share it with the world. 

Jun 15, 2013 11:35 PM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Hello, sweet friend! So good to see you! Really want to talk to you. Let's make that happen.

Jun 15, 2013 11:53 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Mimi, thanks for your thoughts on live in the moment and a house burning to the ground like so many in the Black Forest fire will get your attention in this area right away.

Jun 16, 2013 12:34 AM
Kristine Ginsberg
Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC - Short Hills, NJ
NJ Home Stager

Very wise words Meems and so many times our minds race and we don't notice the beauty of the day. I spent yesterday kayaking on a beautiful lake and was truly in the moment. Since I've gotten so busy at work, the time off I have is precious to me. BTW - checked out your website and your book sounds very intriguing! Looking forward to more...

Jun 16, 2013 02:18 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Of course, Gary. My pleasure.

Hey, Kris! Kayaking on a beautiful lake sounds divine! I thought it was funny that we picked the same web theme! Love your new site, BTW!

Jun 16, 2013 02:37 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Mimi   You are so right   you never know what tomorrow brings

Jun 16, 2013 05:15 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

That has been so evident this week in Colorado Springs, Hannah. You never know . . .

Jun 16, 2013 06:10 AM
Suzanne Otto
Six Twenty Designs - Lansdale, PA
Your Montgomery County PA home stager

We live in a such a fast pace society we usually overlook the beauty in the simplest of things. One of my favorite things to do lately is going to state parks and just sitting out by the lake or in the woods listening to nature. So peaceful and grateful I can experience that.

Jun 16, 2013 06:11 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Nothing like an emergency or a catastrophe to get your attention and force you to refocus on what really counts.

Jun 16, 2013 06:46 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

That sounds truly delightful, Suzanne. I miss the water all the time. It's so soothing.

You are so right, John. The reality here was that it had nothing to do with the fire. She was just happy to be alive with people she loved.

Jun 16, 2013 07:07 AM
Ronald DiLalla
Century 21 Discovery DRE 01813824 - Anaheim, CA
No. Orange Cty Real Estate

Hi Mimi,   sort of stop and smell the flowers...Thanks for sharing with us.

Jun 16, 2013 08:05 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Mimi, it's so easy to take what we have for granted. You are so very right, to have another day is a gift we should embrace..enjoy..breath in!

Jun 16, 2013 08:53 AM
Jimmy Faulkner
Florida. Homes Realty & Mortgage - Wantagh, NY
The Best Of St. Augustine
KEEEPING everything in the moment & enjoying life a day t a time, or moment to moment is magical and life is magical. Just look t the universe and just wonder what God has created makes me feeeel in awe.
Jun 16, 2013 10:11 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Sure, Ronald.

What really struck me, Beth, was the FOCUS it put on what we were doing. I was so AWARE.

But that's what really struck me, Jimmy. Actually feeling in the moment, and not just being there. :)

 

Jun 16, 2013 10:30 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Mimi- this is so true.  Sometimes when we're out, I'll look over at my husband and I am so thankful that we met so many years ago.  We've had so many moments and I've never taken one of them for granted.  Thank you for this beautiful story. 

Jun 16, 2013 11:40 AM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

It does take effort to be truly present. I'm usually thinking about the past or the future.

Jun 16, 2013 12:54 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Mimi~precious moments ARE moment-to-moment, if we're paying attention! Your special "daughter", Loren is wise beyond her years.

Jun 17, 2013 02:11 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

It is so easy to ignore the present moment as we rush forward to meet the next.  My new mantra is "Be Present Now"--it is one of the most enriching actions we can take.

Jun 17, 2013 04:12 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Hello, sweet Kathy. I so totally agree with you. I'm thankful daily.

Good that you are aware of that, Jill. Which begs the thought . . . choice is always yours ;)

Gayle of my heart - so good to see you. She is indeed. It didn't have anything to do with the fires, she was just absorbing being with us and being so happy.

Right, Norma? I am in the middle of a big project. I keep thinking about how much fun it will be when I'm done. Recently I have been thinking about how important to enjoy THIS part of the journey also.

Jun 18, 2013 05:21 AM
Anonymous
Theresa

Love this and you!

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