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Make it more than just Cupid's Day

By
Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

GarfieldSpring is in the air. No you Realtors, not buyers coming out of the woodwork. But it is that time of year again. Cupid's Day. I scurry over to the card rack with many men frantically picking over the last remaining cards for Valentine's Day. I agree with others that there is a little bit too much pressure put on this focused day. Pressure on relationships. Pressure to do or say the right thing. So I am going to let you off the hook. Whether in a relationship or not. Coming out of a relationship or thinking the whole thing is all too much hype. How about this--

Have a day of encouragement. Make it not just for lovers. Make it for ANYONE who you care about. Tell the special people in your life that they mean something to you, TODAY. Don't lose a friend in your life to death before you get to tell them how much they mean to you. If that ever happens to you make sure it won't happen to you again. Say it TODAY as my poet friend says, before the sun goes down.

BEFORE THE SUN GOES DOWN

So much emotion left unsaid
By now, they ought to know
They've been around for long enough
I'm sure the feelings show
I said it once, quite long ago
And thought that should suffice
But now that they've been taken home
I've started thinking twice
So many things I should have said
So much I could have shown
Acknowledging that special place
Where in my heart they'd grown
For everything they'd been to me
For all they'd walked me through
I realized in painful pride
That many more were due
To all those in my life today
Who've touched this tender heart
I vow that I'll start sharing with you
Now's the time to start
Before that chance is taken
And before the sun goes down
Let me tell you that I love you
And I'm glad that you're around

© 2008 Laura Lum Corby

Debbie Malone
Londeree's Real Estate & Property Management - Lynchburg, VA
From Lynchburg To The Lake (434) 546-0369
Very nice post Gary....Love your Garfield. Happy Valentine's Day everyone!
Feb 13, 2008 09:11 AM
Linda Futral
Newnan, GA
I love the Garfield and the poem.  Hope you and yours have a wonderful day.
Feb 13, 2008 09:17 AM
Vanessa Stalets
RE/MAX Elite - Brentwood, TN
REALTOR, Brentwood TN Homes, Real Estate
Gary- whew! Right in the old heart! Bulls eye. This is so true and i love the poem! Thanks for yet another reminder of what is important. I forget easily and it is good to be reminded in such gentle terms...:.)
Feb 13, 2008 09:58 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
Gary, The poem is lovely--and so are the thoughts.  We were brought up that way, we always say "I love you" before someone walks out the door or hangs up.  And to special friends as well.  Beautiful post and very true.
Feb 13, 2008 12:16 PM
Cynthia Tilghman, RealtorĀ® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Hi Gary,
A lovely poem.  I hope you have a wonderful day and just let me say "I appreciate you and what you contribute here".  Happy Valentine's Day to you.
Feb 13, 2008 12:23 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Debbie: Garfield's lovin' on his bud!

Linda: You too!

Vanessa: Let those you care about know, you're right.

Carole: I wish all were like your family. What a great model.

Cynthia: I appreciate you too. Happy Valentine's.

Feb 13, 2008 12:28 PM
Jill Wente
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate | Gary Greene - Spring, TX
Realtor, CRS, MCNE, CHMS
Gary: Sometimes commercialism can be a good thing. As it relates to Valentine's Day it is a good thing as Martha Stewart would say. It makes us all stop and think about the important people in our lives and how they touch our heart. Not only on Valentine's Day but ever day. And if we only remember to tell them once a year how much they truly mean to us its not enough but its better than none.
Feb 13, 2008 12:46 PM
Joey Remondino
RE/MAX Preferred Properties - Vienna, VA
Broker, GRI, E-Pro
Thanks for the post Gary, good reminders and points for tomorrow like usual, thanks for linking in with me.
Feb 13, 2008 12:58 PM
Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
NextHome Experience - Chelan, WA
A Tradition of Trust in the Pacific NW since 1990!

Gary excellent message. Two good friends lost their young mother this summer very suddenly. Don't wait!

PS: My husband better have been in that crowd at the card store ;-)

Feb 13, 2008 01:22 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Jill: Right you are, at least we do get a chance to stop and pause.

Joey: Thanks for stopping by.

Colleen: You've got it down. Your husband was at the card store. : )

Feb 13, 2008 01:44 PM
Kathleen Vetrano
RE/MAX Gateway - Falls Church, VA
Helping YOU Achieve YOUR Dreams
Gary,  What a wonderful thought.  That is really what Valentine's Day should be all about.  Thanks for making us take time to pause and think about others and what they mean to us.  Happy Valentine's day to you!
Feb 13, 2008 03:04 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Kathleen: And a Happy one as well to you.
Feb 13, 2008 03:10 PM
Lynda Eisenmann
Preferred Home Brokers - Brea, CA
Broker Associate ,CRS,GRI,SRES, Brea,CA, Orange Co

Hi Gary,

I love you idea of a day of encouragement. As for the poem, I'm doing my best (still a work in progress) not to leave "unfinished business" myself.

Feb 13, 2008 03:16 PM
Don Wixom
RE/MAX Executives Nampa, ID - Nampa, ID
"Looking out for your next move..."tm
Gary, I just recently lost my father-in-law & this hits too true to home!  Nice post & GREAT advice.  Thank you!  With that, I love you man... ;)...just kidding, but seriously though...
Feb 13, 2008 04:02 PM
Kelly Shoemaker
Coldwell Banker SELECT - Broken Arrow, OK
Realtor Broken Arrow, OK
Great post!  Thanks for the Valentines wishes.  I along with several above recently lost my father...  The poem is beautiful.
Feb 13, 2008 10:38 PM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Gary--Awww...I knew that you would post something sweet today. And I wasn't disappointed either! :)
Feb 14, 2008 12:52 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Lynda: Good for you.

Don: Love you man. Now who forgot the Budweiser? : )

Kelly: If we say our peace when folks are alive, we'll never have regrets.

Teri: You're too nice.

Feb 14, 2008 06:03 AM
Marzena Melby
Coldwell Banker Burnet Realty - Richfield, MN
Realtor, Twin Cities Minnesota Real Estate
Gary - Happy Friendship Day. You, and others like you, make this community a great place.
Feb 14, 2008 10:13 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Marzena: Thanks for spreading your kindness. Happy Valentine's Day to you.
Feb 14, 2008 10:35 AM
Kay Perry
Kay Perry, Broker - College Station, TX
Love your Garfield.
Feb 16, 2008 10:37 AM