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Speechless Sunday Traditional Japanese Wedding

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When we were at the Meiji Shrine we totally enjoyed the serenity and tranquility that the shrine exuded. There are many religious ceremonies that take place here in the shrine. The first time I came here I was lucky enough to see a Japanese wedding it was a Sunday and many traditional Japanese weddings take place on Sunday. Bob and I were talking about how lucky I had been to see the 1st wedding. We were about to leave when I decided to sit down on benches in the shrine to plot our next stop so I would know exactly where we were going. Thank goodness I did; we were lucky enough to see another traditional Japanese wedding which was unusual as it was Monday and traditional Japanese weddings take place on Sundays.

 

Traditional Japanese weddings are elaborate events held at Shinto Shrines such as the Meiji Shrine. This is a religious ceremony after all the legal paperwork has been filed at the local government office. The documentation must be presented before the ceremony can be performed.  Also, Japanese wedding customs fall into two categories: traditional Shinto ceremonies, and modern Western-style weddings. Japanese weddings are being increasingly extravagant with all the elaborate details placed into thought.  In these traditional weddings the Japanese bride is painted white from head to toe, to show to the gods her maiden state. There are two headgears the bride may choose. The watabōshi, which is a white hood; the other, called the tsunokakushi; which is to hide the bride's 'horns of jealousy.' It also the symbol of the bride's becoming a gentle and obedient wife. In either case, the couple must first be legally married by filing for marriage at their local government office, and the official documentation must be produced in order for the ceremony to be held.

 

 

 

  I do not think I would make a good Japanese bride but the ceremonies and the traditions are beautiful. I hope you enjoy this as much as I do.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

Thank you for sharing these beautiful photos of your vacation!!!!

Jul 21, 2013 07:22 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Very interesting. Thanks for sharing your trip to Japan.

Have an outstanding week.

Jul 21, 2013 07:46 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

The wedding was something special to see and great pictures. i hope you are having a great day.

Jul 21, 2013 09:26 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

How fortunate that while visiting this amazing landmark, that you were able to witness something so special!

Jul 21, 2013 09:54 AM
Dale Baker
Baker Energy Audits and Commercial Properties Inspections - Claremont, NH
New Hampshire Relocation Real Estate Information

Howdy and evening Yolanda

Yolanda my friend, those sure are outstanding looking photo shots of the Wedding.

Have a good one

Dale in New Hampshire

Jul 21, 2013 10:59 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Good evening Yolanda -

Thanks for sharing your photos and information on the Meiji Shrine and weddings.  Who knew?  I think it's cool but glad we stuck to a simple American style wedding :)

Jul 21, 2013 12:16 PM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert
Yolanda, You are absolutely correct saying you would not make a good Japanese bride! It was a beautiful event to experience.
Jul 21, 2013 11:39 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Yolanda, they do have a beautiful tradition and it's fun to know and understand cultural diversity. I think we all need to appreciate each others diversity.

Jul 22, 2013 02:10 AM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

What pretty pictures and it is very interesting to understand why things are done certain ways.  

Jul 22, 2013 02:27 AM
David Burrows
Classic Realty - Fairfax, VA
No Pressure, Just Seriously Devoted to Real Estate

Yolanda, very interesting post today. While living in Hawaii I had the opportunity of attending very traditional Japanese weddings and found it to be a very enlightening experience. Your photos truly tell the story.

Jul 22, 2013 05:41 AM
Dale Baker
Baker Energy Audits and Commercial Properties Inspections - Claremont, NH
New Hampshire Relocation Real Estate Information

Howdy and evening Yolanda

Yolanda my friend, I stop back by in-order to re-read your outstanding blog post about y'all getting to enjoy the Traditional Japanese Wedding of the folks which were being married!

Have a good one

Dale in New Hampshire

Jul 22, 2013 08:24 AM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

You and me both Yolanda would not make good obedient wives! Thanks for posting these awesome pictures I did not know anything about the Japanese marriage ceremonies.

Jul 25, 2013 02:37 PM