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How to Negotiate The Offer: 7 Clever Home Buying Negotiation Tactics

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with SharkeyRE LLC CQ1040719

 

How to Negotiate The Offer: 7 Clever Home Buying Negotiation TacticsHow to Negotiate The Offer: 7 Clever Home Buying Negotiation Tactics

Getting the house you want at the price you want can be tricky – even in a buyer’s market. Sometimes a home seller just isn’t willing to budge on price. Don’t despair! There are other ways to sweeten the deal and drive it to close in a buyer’s market. Here are seven tips on how to negotiate with a home seller.

Get the Dirt on the Home Seller

Learn as much as you can about the motivations and situation of the home sellers. For instance, if they’re living in the house and they need flexibility around the closing date, you could offer to be flexible on closing if they move on terms. In the case of estate properties, take some time to learn about the heirs - where they live, what kinds of houses they live in and whether or not they are in legal or financial trouble. It sounds creepy, but most of this information is available for free online once you have the names of the home sellers. You can also research obits and marriage documents that are in the public domain. The more you know, the more leverage you have when it comes time to negotiate.

Know What the Property is Worth

Work independently or with your agent to research comparable sales in the immediate area of the home, then make an offer at least 10 percent below what the market says it’s worth. Dig into the details to figure out how the home you want to buy stacks up against comps, and look for ways to communicate the legitimacy of your offer or requests by backing it up with data. For instance, if all comparable sales have a pool, waterfront property or updated kitchens and the house that you want doesn’t, point that out. Use this data to justify your offer or other requests to create value if they won’t budge on price.

Don’t be Afraid to Ask

If there are things that you want or need to feel comfortable with the deal, ask for them. The home seller can always refuse, but if you don’t ask, you don’t know. If you’ve created leverage by learning about the property and the seller’s situation, you can use this information to ask for things, such as repair of items found during the inspection period or appliances that weren’t listed on the original contract for the house. Don’t make assumptions. Even if your realtor balks at the idea, always ask.

Offer a Quick Close

The faster a deal gets done, the more quickly the home seller can cash out their asset and move on with life. Homes that remain on the market or unsold for extended periods of time become costly to sellers (especially if they’re unoccupied) and start to decline in condition. Offering a quick close builds confidence with the seller as it means that there’s less time for things to go sour with the deal. If you’re situation allows for this negotiation tactic, you might be able to either lower your price or get other benefits in exchange.

Make an As-Is Offer and Ask for the Furniture

If you want to make a reasonable but low offer on a property, consider the pros and cons of presenting an “as-is with right to inspect “ offer. The upside is that you can walk away from the deal if the inspection frightens you. The downside is that what you see is what you get, leaky plumbing, termites, mold and all. If you really want a property and are willing to take it as-is, but aren’t really comfortable with the seller’s floor price, ask for the furniture or other non-fixed assets that make the deal more palatable such as a boat or fitness equipment.

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 If you’re apart on price for the home itself, one way to get around the cash crunch and get a deal done is to meet the home seller on price, but ask them to cover all or part of the buyer’s closing costs. Some home sellers might balk, but if they’re able to do this and want to finish the deal with a sale at a particular price point, this technique can work.

 Be Willing to Walk Away

Buying a home can be an intensely emotional experience, but at the end of the day it is really just a business transaction. This means you can’t get attached, and you have to be willing to walk away if you’re unable to negotiate with a home seller or if the seller becomes unreasonable. If the seller’s agent senses desperation or over-eagerness on your part, they might interpret that as a signal that they have the upper hand. Silence can be your friend. Hold your cards close and always be willing to walk away.

Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

All of these have merit. Of course knowing the seller situation. Motivation is key.

Aug 19, 2013 12:01 AM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Brian,

We're agreed.

But, it's like forgoing a ladder for a step stool.

Bill

Aug 19, 2013 12:07 AM
Brian Sharkey
SharkeyRE LLC - Singer Island, FL
SharkeyRE

William. Touche'  you got me there.

Aug 19, 2013 12:12 AM
Brian Sharkey
SharkeyRE LLC - Singer Island, FL
SharkeyRE

Gary,  Thanks for reading, You are correct saying that the seller's motivation is key. 

Aug 19, 2013 12:13 AM
Rosie Crow
Serving Sugar Land, Richmond, Rosenberg, Missouri City - Sugar Land, TX
Exceeding Expectations. Delivering Results
This is a wonderful post! Thanks for the negotiation tips!!! Everything you mentioned reinforces what I learned in my classes to gain my Certified Negotiation Expert designation.
Aug 19, 2013 03:51 AM
David Popoff
DMK Real Estate - Darien, CT
Realtor®,SRS, Green ~ Fairfield County, Ct
All good reasons to use a local experience real estate agent.
Aug 19, 2013 07:23 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Great list. It's always a good idea to think outside the box when negotiating.  Price isn't everything!

Aug 19, 2013 07:49 AM
Ron Aguilar
Gateway Mortgage Group - Saint George, UT
Mortgage & Real Estate Advisor since 1995

Brian, good list. thanks for your time 

Aug 19, 2013 08:19 AM
Debra Hight
Coldwell Banker United, Realtors - Houston, TX
Debra Hight

Brian, this is an excellent list.  One of my byer clients found a posting on Facebook that the sellers had already bought another home and were anxious to sell. Since then, I always warn my clients not to post anything about buying or selling a home on Facebook.  Houston is a sellers' market right now, and the homes that are priced right and show well are getting multiple offers and sellers aren't looking favorably at contingencies.

Aug 19, 2013 08:33 AM
Travis "the SOLD man" Parker; Broker/Owner
Travis Realty - Enterprise, AL
email: Travis@theSOLDman.me / cell: 334-494-7846

As you and William say "Be ready & able to walk away". SOMETIMES it will bring the other party to their senses.

Aug 19, 2013 10:42 AM
Brian Sharkey
SharkeyRE LLC - Singer Island, FL
SharkeyRE

Rosie, I am glad that your CNE Designation class was on point as well, Thanks for the input.

David, You are correct I will take experience any day.

Jan,  Price isn't everything, but you can't move the house either.

Ron, I appreciate the time you gave as well.

Debra, Sounds like you have it made over there in Houston, :)

Travis, Amen to that.

Aug 19, 2013 12:55 PM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

Brian, I like your negotiation strategies.  I just hung up with a clients and we spoke about many of these ideas while putting together an offer on a property. My client is ready to walk away if the transaction does not work for him.

Aug 19, 2013 01:08 PM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

my favorite technique was to make an offer...then lower it every three days and STICK to it...worked well back in the day!!

Aug 19, 2013 07:26 PM
Bob Miller
Keller Williams Cornerstone Realty - Ocala, FL
The Ocala Dream Team

Hi Brian, we agree.  Very good post and list to help negotiate a win-win deal.

Aug 20, 2013 12:32 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

In this market you will be doing a lot of walking and paper work for no house.  Right now you need to suck up to the sellers and make very aggressive offers.

Aug 20, 2013 02:31 AM
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

Hi Brian, great Blog.  We have a slogan in our office that says " The answer always "NO" unless you ask, then it's sometimes "YES" or with a counter offer "MAYBE"

Aug 20, 2013 04:47 AM
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Fort Myers, FL

Great list Brian!  I have already learned a few of these, but it never hurts to learn a little more.  I will have to put this list to good use in the future!

Aug 20, 2013 11:56 PM
Brian Sharkey
SharkeyRE LLC - Singer Island, FL
SharkeyRE

Sharon, Well that seems like some great advice you gave your clients.  Sometimes it is just better to walk away.

Paddy,  I like that plan, I may just have to try this one day with a seller that won't budge on price.

Bob, I always try to make every deal a win-win situation. :)

Gene,  The market is different in every area, Some are more targeted for buyers and others are focused on sellers.

Larry,  That is a great slogan, I love it!

William,  Feel free to share this, and don't forget to subscribe!

Aug 21, 2013 12:05 AM
Michael J. O'Connor
Diamond Ridge Realty - Corona, CA
Eastvale - 951-847-4883

Last week I employed the first technique - exploring the sellers motivation for selling - and discovered that the sellers were looking for a larger home in the same area.  The buyers who I represented had that house which was just about to go into the MLS!  Both sides love the other house so contracts are written and we are well on our way to a true 'house swap'!

Aug 21, 2013 10:58 AM
Brian Sharkey
SharkeyRE LLC - Singer Island, FL
SharkeyRE

Michael,

See not all is a negitive, seeking to understand is a great advantage.  I'm proud of you and hope your buyers and seller enjoy their new homes.

 

You're the RockStar of the Week!  Sharkey

Aug 23, 2013 03:37 AM