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Do You Play It Safe???

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I recently had an experience that reminded me how vulnerable we can be in our line of work.  I was called for a decorating job.  The woman was very pleasant on the phone and although the area she lived in was quite a distance from my home, the job had the potential to be quite large and so I accepted it.  I mapquested my location and set out for her home on the day of our appointment.  Upon exiting the highway, I soon realized that I was not in a very favorable area of town.  The litter along the exit ramp alone ( numerous thrown cans of beer ) caused an uneasy feeling in the pit of my stomach.  I quickly quieted the thoughts in my head to not be so judgemental and continued on my way.  I pulled in to a neighborhood of modest homes appearing to have been built in the early 70's.  I made my way to the door and rang the bell.  I was greeted by a very nice woman, who quickly welcomed me in to her house.  As soon as I entered I heard the sound of the door being locked behind my back.  I turned and watched the homeowner lock not one, not two, but 5 locks!!!  Two on the outside glass door, two deadbolts on the steel door, plus the lock on the handle.  I hadn't even put my bags down yet...had no idea who was in the house, but suddenly realized that I would not be able to get out in a hurry if there was a need to.  Fortunately, everything was fine.  This woman has become one of my best clients and an absolute favorite! 

The experience however stuck with me and raised a caution flag.  On the drive home that night, I got to thinking about what I would have done had that been a different circumstance.  Now I make certain to call my husband to tell him the area that I am working in and provide him the street address.  I also leave the address and any contact information I have about the client on a sheet of paper where members of my family can see it.  I only walk in to a house with my purse.  I make it a habit to not bring any of my work items with me...I tell the homeowner after we have shared greetings that I need to gather my things from my car.  Why??  So in case I walk in and have a strong enough feeling that I am not safe...I have an excuse to head back out to my car and leave if necessary.  I have decided it is better to be safe then sorry!  I realize this is not the usual happy chatter that we enjoy in the rain, but I felt it was an important reminder to all of us that we should take measures to make certain that we remain safe. 

Kathy Passarette
Creative Home Expressions - Mount Sinai, NY
L.I. Staging/Decorating

Gina ~ Unfortunately, this is something we have to deal with.  I do what you do - I leave the client name, address and phone number on my counter when I go out on a consult.  One I was a little leary of was a restaurant that was being renovated.  I went for a color consultation and had it set up with my daughter ahead of time that she would call me at a certain time on my cell phone (which I carried on me).  The restaurant was deserted, except for the owner I was meeting. 

It turned out fine and I am, in fact, getting ready to help him and his partner with some decorating now.  But, you never know and it is better to play it safe.

Feb 21, 2008 12:32 PM
Virginia Tatseos
Stage-Show-Sell - Bloomfield Township, MI

This sounds like all the warnings etc that we have been giving realtors for years.

Don't go alone.  Doesn't matter if you leave the address with your husband or ask your daughter to call you.  Once you are dead or raped it doesn't matter.

Don't go alone.

 

Feb 21, 2008 01:05 PM
Gina McNew
diva la difference interiors - Atlanta, GA
Host of Diva in the House - The Voice of Real Estate Staging Radio

Yikes Virginia...I hadn't ever thought about those outcomes.  I have brought a friend along on some jobs.  Not to sound sexist or anything, but when I have been contacted by male homeowner's I never go alone to those jobs.  This recent event where the homeowner locked so many doors just really alerted me to the fact that I was stuck.  Like I said, she is now one of my favorite clients and I infact feel badly that she has probably watched her neighborhood deteriorate to the necessity of having to have so many locks on her doors.  This was probably a neighborhood where no one used to lock their doors when they first settled there. How many Realtors bring other people with them on their jobs???

Kathy;  I guess we need to trust our gut instincts.  Someone asked me why I didn't carry pepper spray on my key ring...I had to laugh ( not that it's a funny matter), but I have one of those little scope sprays on my key ring and in trying to hit the unlock button on my key I have accidentally sprayed myself a few times.  Thank god the worst damage it has caused is that I smell minty fresh...I am much to clumsy to carry the real thing.  I'd be knocking myself out in parking garages all over Atlanta!

Feb 21, 2008 01:30 PM
Terrylynn Fisher
Dudum Real Estate Group - BuyStageSell.com - Walnut Creek, CA
HAFA Certified, EcoBroker, CRS, CSP Realtor, Etc.
Gina, good to bring this up occasionally, we tend to get tunnel vision toward our work and sometimes we need to stop and remember that being careful and listening to our gut can save us from bad situations.  As a realtor, we think of this all the time.  Thanks for the reminder
Feb 21, 2008 02:24 PM
Atlanta's Home Inspector, David Lelak IHI Home Inspections
IHI Home Inspections 404-788-2581 - Canton, GA
Experience the IHI Difference

Gina, great post and so often we hear all the stories, but for some reason it just doesn't apply to us until we are in the situation.  Glad everything was fine.

Bonnie

TheHomeInspectorsWife 

 

Feb 25, 2008 02:25 PM
Sandy Ridgway
Designs For You - Columbus, OH
Designs For You
Wow....thanks for the reminder on safety.  It never hurts to keep bringing it up.  I have found that when the client is working with a realtor, I generally ask the realtor to meet with us at the house for the first meeting.  I include them so that we're all on the same page as to goals and expected out come.  That way I'm not there alone.  Sure glad you were ok!!!
Feb 26, 2008 01:26 AM
Gina McNew
diva la difference interiors - Atlanta, GA
Host of Diva in the House - The Voice of Real Estate Staging Radio

Thanks Bonnie and Sandy;  It's a good reminder to us all as we just never know what we are going to come up against.  We tend to become more lax the more we do these things.  Now I try to pay more attention to what it is I'm doing and where it is I'm going.

Cheers

Feb 26, 2008 09:17 AM