Promise Little, But Deliver Everything

Promise Little, But Deliver Everything

When you promise less than clients or recipients are asking for and reduce their expectations, you have room to maneuver and the freedom to deliver something different (not just more) than perhaps either you or the client was expecting. You can create and invent. This may serve clients better than what they had even considered possible at the beginning of your association. Remember, clients don't usually know what they really want, so don't let yourself get too tightly boxed in.

Be sure to give clients what they paid you for, but don't stop there. You need to build a reserve or a gap, between what you promise and what you ultimately deliver. The wider the gap, the more vacuum you'll create and the more people will be affected or surprised by you. The more pleasantly surprised people are, the more their voices will sing your praises.

Why Do You Make Promises?

Are you constantly in a promise and deliver mode? Some people feel that if they don't or can't promise, they won't have the motivation or structure to deliver consistently. This turns promises into deadlines so that keeping your word becomes necessary. Of course, you should keep your word, but most people give it too readily. Some of the people you know might think they need you to make promises, creating a dependency. This type of promise and deliver system will cause you grief. You've got to stop promising anything at all and end your performance anxiety. Promising less provides freedom and begins progress.

Promise For Pleasure

Some people are so relieved when they deliver something that most of their joy comes from the delivery instead of the creation of what they delivered. Some people can enjoy both the doing and the delivery. You need to discover both what's motivating you after you made the initial promise and how you feel throughout the project.

You may produce greatly under the pressure of deadlines, but you may come to the realization that the personal and opportunity cost of doing so is far higher than the rewards or results generated.

Don't Promise, Just Deliver

Rather than telling people what you can do for them, rather than getting people interested enough to say yes, just be spontaneous and do something for them, without even offering to do it first. Most people enjoy surprises and there's no delay or performance anxiety because there was no promise, just delivery.

Deliver Something Different

Add a twist or an additional component to what the client expected. Don't just deliver 11 apples instead of 10, but toss in an orange too. The orange is something to surprise them with, but you haven't given them less apples. Perhaps the client will be fascinated by the orange and that can lead to your next piece of work.

Deliver All That Occurs

While you deliver the product or service, you may stumble upon something surprising about either the client, the product or service, or the situation the client is in. It may be totally unrelated to what you're being paid to deliver, but usually it makes sense to advise clients what you discovered so they become fully informed. These "chance" discoveries can lead to additional work or end up being worth more to the client than the project they paid you to deliver. Don't push what you discover; just casually advise clients of it.

Deliver Everything

Everything means you can create a bigger solution or product instead of just delivering what the client asked for. When you focus on delivering everything, you create more, and evolve both your skill set and the client. In this way, both of you progress instead of just getting current needs met. Make sure to always deliver what the client asked for, but orient what you're working on for clients so that it brings them (and you) to the next level.

Promise Nothing

Have enough reserve to do all of these things, but do them with such grace and style that your grace and style become as much a part of your service or product as what you're delivering. When you focus on delivering because you enjoy it, instead of delivering because you promised to, you are fed by joy instead of fear. You're working from reserve, instead of striving to meet targets.

Can you realistically promise nothing and still be successful? Yes, but you may need to start by underpromising and over-delivering. The gap between these two is pure profit - not just financially, but also in good reputation and self-esteem. People think more of you when you deliver far more (of what they want) than they were expecting. That gap starts people talking. If you delivered even the same amount, but had promised or over-promised it at the outset, the recipients would equally benefit, but they wouldn't be as impressed and they wouldn't talk about you. This is a key distinction for anyone in business who wants to build a strong reputation quickly.

Promise almost nothing to your clients (just enough to close the sale), but then begin the engine of over-delivering. Every time you over-deliver, you build up a reserve, of self-confidence, self-esteem, and referrals.

 

Capre diem,

Chris

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30 Comments on Promise Little, But Deliver Everything

Wow--another great post from you, Chris. How many people do you know who over promise & under deliver? It's much better to do what you say you'll do... and more. It surprises and impresses your clients.

02/26/2008 05:36 PM by Realty Executives - Erica Ramus - 570 622 6006


Thanks Chris, you always do great post.  And besides I love your family picture.  You all look like angels.

02/26/2008 08:00 PM by Sonya Rosser (ERA Buckhead Realty)


Chris, I really like this thought "Don't Promise, Just Deliver."  I was thinking about the people I know who follow that mantra. Each one has built up a great deal of personal credibility by delivering without promising.

02/26/2008 10:13 PM by Jackie - Mortgage Virtual Assistant (Close-More-Loans.com)


Great post. I like the advice. It impresses clients when we deliver more than what we promised.

03/01/2008 07:14 AM by GITA BANTWAL, REALTOR BUCKS COUNTY, PA HOMES (ReMax Centre Realtors)


You know, it's kind of sweet when you take over an expired listing and you go way beyond what the other real estate company delivered.  No promises made - I can't promise that I will sell their home - but I can show the sellers what I can do by keeping in contact with them, informing them what I'm doing and showing them what my marketing materials look like.  It's nice to see that they are impressed and delighted.

Nicely written blog... its confirmation that makes me feel like I'm doing it right.

03/05/2008 03:15 PM by Jon Miller (United Country-Marshland Realty)


Chris,

 

I need to learn to do this... right now,i aim so high, but reaching it is often a struggle. I'm running ragged to meet the basic promises, whereas if i just would not promise or say yes to so many things... Man, would life be easier. Great post. 

03/08/2008 10:48 PM by Alex Mordas - Tallahassee EcoBroker® (Keller Williams)


Great post. It is sooo easy to say something and regret it later... under commit and over deliver... build your business by referrals, one at a time and you will succeed.

03/09/2008 12:44 PM by Perrin Cornell, ABR (Windermere RE/NCW)


I learned with sellers the most its better to underpromise & over deliver. Like saying you will do 1 open house but end up doing 1 every few weeks.

03/09/2008 02:34 PM by DeAndrea "Dee Dee" Jones The Hampton Roads Real Estate Lady! (Wainwright Real Estate)


While underpromising and overdelivering makes your balance sheet look good in the eyes of your customers, consider the power of overpromising (compared to your competition) and then still overdelivering.

03/16/2008 10:09 AM by Steve Hoffacker - Real Estate Sales & Marketing Consulting and Strategies (Hoffacker Associates)


This is a great topic...thank you

03/17/2008 02:03 PM by Summit Realty Group, Inc.


Chris,

Great Post! You said it all. I agree with you one hundred percent. Too many realtors make promises they can't keep just to get the listing.

Becky

03/25/2008 03:26 PM by Becky Respess, ABR, CRB, CRS (Broker/Associate North Texas GMAC)


Chris, What a wonderful post. I have had that pounded in my little brain since day one. Under promise, over deliver. Thanks for a wonderful post! Elizabeth

03/25/2008 05:49 PM by Huntsville, Alabama Real Estate Agent Elizabeth Ramsey Cooper (Remax Huntsville/Madison)


Excellent post as always!  Thanks!  Steve

03/29/2008 11:39 AM by Steve Homer (The HBH Group (Keller Williams affiliate))


Chris:

 This post has alot of truth to it.  If you over promise and miss out on just one part, no matter how small it might be, that is the one that the client will hold you accountable to.

thanks again

daniel

03/29/2008 12:31 PM by The Daniel Hayes Team (Master Plan Realty)


Amen to that! There are some clients who want to box you into a corner. If you have enough confidence in your profession to know what you can and can't do "under promise and over deliver" is easy. 

04/04/2008 02:43 PM by Brian Foxworth (Palmetto South Mortgage )


Great job on getting the message across to do what you say and don't open your mouth to promise things that you will never do.

04/07/2008 07:28 AM by Russ Ravary-- Michigan Homes for sale-- Your local Real estate & Mortgage person (Remerica Hometown One)


Chris,  That is a lesson I learned after twenty years in sales (and ten years in a relationship)!!  There is no feeling worse than having to live up to a promise you did not want to make in the first place.  Steve

04/14/2008 02:18 PM by Stephen C. Olczak (Trust USA Mortgage Corp)


Greetings Chris I enjoyed your post and look forward to implementing the principals into my every day dealings.

04/18/2008 05:05 AM by Greg Lightfoot (Solid Source Realty )


I find that a little humility goes a long way.  Just like ego-driven folks, the big promisers are the ones who are fearful--therefore the inflated hype.

04/19/2008 11:52 PM by Kent Simpson REALTOR®, e-Certified®, AHS® (with The Pepper Group™ Diversified Real Estate)


Chris - Love your post!  One of the credos that I always try to follow is the "under promise and over deliver."  I always get a kick of pleasure when my clients get that "little extra something" from whatever I give them (either good prices, extra attention to service, a little extra product, etc.) 

Unfortunately, in today's business environment, most people are delighted just to have someone do an adequate job.  If you give them anything beyond that, they think you are really something!  Sad but true.

04/21/2008 02:37 PM by Earlene Myers, Your Client Connection (Professional Greetings)


Chris,

Very good post.  This is a great topic of discussion!! I love how well the piece was written!! Look forward to hearing more from you.

MTR 

04/23/2008 04:05 PM by Chris Gempeler - Mountain Top Realtor (Tom Langseth & Associates Real Estate)


Excellent Post!   Info is great!!  Thanks for sharing!  I also like your family picture.  Its really nice to have a family isnt it?!

Take Care & Good Luck in '08!

04/25/2008 01:27 PM by Sylvie Dolley, ePRO Realtor (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


What a Guy!  Great post, wise words for all! Thanks...

05/09/2008 06:31 PM by Elkhart-Evelyn Johnston (Prudential One Realty)


Enjoyed hearing the words of wisdom. I have an issue with people who just tell you what they think you want to hear and don't bother to follow-thru on any of their promises.That type of behavior always catches up with you.  I agree that it's always best to promise less, then if you're able to deliver more, great, if not, well you didn't mislead anyone..

05/14/2008 02:14 PM by Stacy Jones (West Little Rock Title Company)


This is an impressive post!  I have a big problem with promising too much and feeling the time restraints.  I guess I feel that I have to sell myself and wind up promising too much. 

05/14/2008 03:06 PM by Michelle Hall (Lackey and Whitley Realty Group)


I think we've all done that too, probably more times than we care to remember, but you'll always look better and feel less stress if you promise less than you know you can deliver, instead of barely making your promises happen because of time restraints. I still work on this daily. It's so easy to want to promise too much..

05/14/2008 03:39 PM by Stacy Jones (West Little Rock Title Company)


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