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I woke up crying this morning..........

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Realty

 My daughter Nicole - who is my baby - turns 16 years old today, according to the calendar she's only 4.  I love the novelty of the Leap Year Baby! 

   Now, many may get tired of reading about my kids, but after having been told throughout my teenage years that I'd never have children I have to rave about them all the time. 

   I love all my children equally but, to me Nicole is going to be something special.  Technically, she wouldn't have been here if she truly wasn't meant for great things.  My husband and I had decided after my son Kyle was born that we were done having children.  Since his "procedure" was easier than mine, we decided to have him scheduled for a "snip."  2 days before he was scheduled to go in, he was shipped out for Desert Storm.  We had 2 hours to strip his uniforms of all identification and pack his bags.  They wouldn't say where he was going or when he would be home.  Typical nightmare for a military wife.  Especially with a 4 year old and 10 week old baby at home.

  After being gone for 10 months, he returned and evidently we weren't as careful as we should have been :) .  I had been having health issues while my husband was gone that led me to have to be scheduled for cryosurgery.  I had level 3-4 dysplasia on my cervix and the Dr. said 5 was full-blown cancer. They scheduled my surgery assuring me that I wasn't pregnant.  Well, I was!  Next was the terrifying realization that something wouldn't be right.  After months of worrying, Nicole was born at Warrensburg hospital on February 29, 1992. 

   Now, to me, all of this means Nicole is destined for great things;

  • Dad was scheduled for the "procedure" and was shipped out.
  • I had surgery that should've made it impossible for the embryo to hold on.
  • Most of the children born to my husbands family are males
  • My oldest son was in a car accident and the spot my daughter was sitting at was the only part of the passenger side of the car that wasn't damaged. 

So, with all the obstacles that she had to go through before she even got here, Nicole is definitely meant for great things!

Comments (17)

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Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI

Sandra, nice ThemThem to your 4 year old (16). Thanks for sharing.

Duane

Feb 29, 2008 02:38 AM
Kathy Passarette
Creative Home Expressions - Mount Sinai, NY
L.I. Staging/Decorating
Sandra ~ And look at that - she's getting her 15 minutes of fame!  Love that newspaper headline!
Feb 29, 2008 04:47 AM
Renae Bolton
Marketing 4 Realtors - Garfield Heights, OH
I'm your Professional Real Estate Marketing VA!

I have a friend who was born on Feb 29.  We typically celebrate her birthday on Feb 28 and March 1 since we can't celebrate the actual day.  I think that people born on this day are especially special because the day itself is such a fluke!

I think I'll have to agree that Nicole is destined for something great!  What were you crying about anyway? Tears of joy that she was actually getting her birthday this year (and a driver's license to boot) I hope!

~Renae

Feb 29, 2008 07:17 AM
Sandra Workman
Coldwell Banker Realty - Bradley, IL
BBA, Broker, CRS, GRI, ABR, SFR, CNE, ePRO, CNHS
Mom was crying with the realization that her baby is 16!!  Makes me another year older..................
Feb 29, 2008 07:24 AM
Tina Farinas
Fusion Real Estate Network, Inc. - Roseville, CA
REALTOR, ABR, GRI, SFR, CHS, e-PRO
I would cry too ~ it's hard to see our "BABIES" grow up.
Mar 01, 2008 02:41 AM
Jim & Maria Hart
Brand Name Real Estate - Charleston, SC
Charleston, SC Real Estate
She is definitely destined for great things!  And I hope she enjoyed her 4th birthday! :)
Mar 01, 2008 03:09 AM
Colleen Fischesser Northwest Property Shop
NextHome Experience - Chelan, WA
A Tradition of Trust in the Pacific NW since 1990!
Sandra, we want them to grow and flourish, but it's a bittersweet journey isn't it? I know...my youngest will graduate from HS this June. Glad but Sad :-)
Mar 01, 2008 03:18 AM
Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)
There's no question that she is clearly destined for greatness.  Happy birthday to your daughter!  I am including this post in my weekly wrapup for Family Ties.
Mar 01, 2008 05:01 AM
Audrey Hoffman
VoteAudrey blog - Columbia, SC
VoteAudrey
What a blessing!
Mar 01, 2008 09:14 AM
Melissa Grant
A Serendipity World - Greenbackville, VA
The Law of Attraction In Life & Business
You woke crying and I Sit crying reading this ! This is awesome and she IS destined for WONDERFUL things !
Mar 01, 2008 10:08 AM
Sandra Workman
Coldwell Banker Realty - Bradley, IL
BBA, Broker, CRS, GRI, ABR, SFR, CNE, ePRO, CNHS
Thanks to all who posted!  Children are a blessing for sure, but teens can be trying at best!  :)
Mar 02, 2008 06:16 AM
Mara Hawks
First Realty Auburn - Auburn, AL
Inactive-2012 REALTOR - Homes for Sale Auburn Real Estate, AL
okay, now I'm crying too. I LOVE this story. Thanks for sharing it.
Mar 02, 2008 04:23 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate
What a story and happy birthday to Nicole, miracles do happen.
Mar 02, 2008 11:14 PM
Antoinette Scognamiglio, GRI, ASP
Coldwell Banker Realty - Mountain Lakes, NJ
There's no substitute for EXPERIENCE!
What a stunning young lady!  You're right, Sandra, she is MEANT to be here with us to do great things!  She should know she's destined for greatness.  How completely cool is that?
Mar 02, 2008 11:16 PM
Jackie - computer-training-atlanta.com
770.498.7333 - Atlanta, GA
Learn to leverage technology to get more done.
What a beautiful post. I am shocked to realize that it's been 16 years since Desert Storm - it seems like yesterday!
Mar 10, 2008 12:00 PM
Darci Gullett
RE/MAX Platinum - Fowlerville, MI

Very nice post... Great to hear when children are born against ALL ODDS>>>>She truly is ment for greater things.

Darci

Mar 10, 2008 01:32 PM
Sandra Workman
Coldwell Banker Realty - Bradley, IL
BBA, Broker, CRS, GRI, ABR, SFR, CNE, ePRO, CNHS
Thank You!  Yes, it's been that long since Desert Storm began.  My hubby was in the first wave over there of Air Force men from Whiteman AFB Missouri.
Mar 12, 2008 01:47 PM