Although we might not always meet the home sellers or occupants when we show a home, we can still learn a lot about the lives they lead. Not so long ago I showed a house that was listed as a "fixer". As we approached we could see graffiti sprayed on the exterior wall. Inside we were greeted by dated, peeling wallpaper, a musty smell and shocked by an extremely filthy kitchen and bathroom. The dilapidated furniture were from the 60s and throughout the home were containers with faded dusty plastic flowers. Upon a closer look I discovered an old photograph of a handsome soldier during WWII on the wall, with a black armband draped over one corner. In one of the closets I came across a parked beat-up wheelchair. A picture began to crystallize for me that nearly moved me to tears. In my mind I saw a widowed, disabled old lady living in this house, or having passed away in this house, who lived a lonely existence. I asked myself where were the children or grandchildren to visit and help with the upkeep of the home? Where were the neighbors or church ladies who should have come over to help this woman manage her affairs?  

A house is so much more than just real estate. It's where lives take place, children are born, marriages fall apart, weddings take place, birthdays are celebrated and people pass away. A house speaks about its residents, its neighbors and the community. One just has to open their eyes to hear.

Sandy Nelson
Realtor for Olympia area real estate
www.sandynelsonrealestate.com