I have often thought that real estate agents, in reality, are the originators.
Nothing happens unless buyer and seller are brought together and sign on the dotted line. It may be just a piece of paper, but it represents hours, days, and sometimes months of hard work, and you haven't even been paid a dime. Work that has been done in the name of one little word.
If you thought I was going to say MONEY, you are wrong. I say the word is TRUST.
Now you, the real estate agent, are supposed to take that body of work that represents not only your blood sweat and tears, but food on your table, and do what?
Turn over the wheel to someone you may have never met. The Mortgage Person.
Remember when you were in school and the teacher assigned the dreaded "group project"? Your grade on the assignment was completely dependent on the contributions of the other members of the team. And you always got stuck with (pick one ): (1) the slacker who never showed up, (2) the over-achiever perfectionsist who wanted everything done over 10 times or (3) the drama queen that came to the meetings, but not to work.
And now your entire grade for the semester was going to depend on this? A group project?
CRAP.
I didn't realize at the time, but teachers have a very good reason for this exercise. THIS IS REAL LIFE. And closing a real estate transaction is often dependant on a cast of characters that you do not know, and did not choose.
So now you must TRUST. How do you handle this?
There are only two ways in my opinion. You either turn over the wheel with an attitude of abundance, or turn over the wheel with an attitude of scarcity. Which will it be?
For the sake of the client, I hope you will answer abundance.
Setting the stage for a successful project should always begin by extending TRUST to those you are working with, even if it goes against every fiber of your being. Your client can sense if you have chosen to withhold trust and second guess every move of their chosen mortgage person.
It is hard to over emphasize how important it is for real estate agent and mortgage person to present themselves as a united front to the client. The "A" in this project is more than a closed transaction. It is a client who has a good enough OVERALL experience to become a REPEAT client.
HARMONY among the team members is how to get an A.
As always, a triangle (mortgage person, client, and real estate agent) presents opportunities for "two against one". This is when client complains to Realtor about mortgage person. Or client complains to Mortgage Person about Realtor. Here is when mistrust can creep into a transaction and ruin HARMONY.
Never let one of the "two" be the client. Make sure the "two" are you and the mortgage person, working for the "one" who is the client. The two of you can work behind the scenes to solve differences, and map out solutions for problems that arise. Treat input from the client for what it is: something to discuss with your teammate, the goal being to resolve the issue together for the sake of the client.
If you do become "stuck" with someone that is a slacker, a diva, or a maniac, well, THAT'S LIFE. You still strive for the "A". You compensate. You put on a brave front. And you forge ahead knowing what is at stake, and protecting your client (not your commission) the best way you know how.
You won't get an "A" every time. Unfortunately there is something called "guilty by association". But I say, your chances of making the team work expand in direct proportion to the level of trust you are willing to grant the one holding the wheel.
You don't need to grab the wheel for every little bump. You might crash the car. Certainly you are making it much harder for the one driving.
Remember, there is a client in the back seat who deserves nothing less than a smooth ride home.
Written by Janet Guilbault, California Mortgage Expert Based Out of the San Francisco Bay Area