"There's More Than 1 Way to Skin a Cat!"

Child fishing at the lakeA few years ago, I took my family down to Franklin D. Roosevelt State Park, in Pine Mountain, Georgia to camp. We do this regularly, as it sits outside of Callaway Gardens, where we like to go on day trips. My oldest daughter, who was 5 at the time, asked me to take her fishing at the lake in the campground. While I'm not a big fisherman, I've lived my entire life in Georgia, so I know a little bit about hooking a fish. I grabbed my little Zebco, a bobber, a weight, a hook, a few end pieces from a loaf of bread, and my daughter, and we headed to the lake. When we got there, a man and his pre-teen son were out fishing by the lake, fully geared with their artificial lures, worms, and multiple rods. After exchanging pleasantries, I began to string the line for my daughter. After tying the hook and placing the bobber and weight, I showed my daughter how to make little dough balls with the bread, and chum the water. Afterwards, I placed a dough-ball on the hook, and looked over, noticing that we were being watched. The boy was asking his dad what we were doing. The man laughed, and told his son that I was "trying to teach my daughter how to fish". I asked the man how it'd been going, to which he replied that the fish just weren't biting, that they had no luck at all. I cast the dough-baited line out into the lake, and gave the rod to my girl, telling her to watch the bobber. The boy asked what we were thinking, fishing with bread. I told him that I found this worked well for catching Bream (Sun Perch to some), and I was hoping to let my girl catch a fish. The man laughed again, and told me that "bread was for breakfast, not for fishing"; that they'd been out all morning and not had a bite. About that time, the bobber bobbed and went under. I jumped towards the rod and helped my daughter set the hook, and within minutes, my daughter had her first fish. It was a little bream about the size of a person's hand. After about half an hour, and 8 or 9 fish later, the boy asked his dad if he could go back to their campsite and get some bread. There was a resounding, "no!", and shortly there-after, the father packed he and his son up and left.

The lesson I tried to help my daughter bring away from this was that there are multiple ways in which to accomplish tasks. When she see's somebody doing something a little different, don't pick at them or make fun of them; you might be able to learn something if you pay attention.

When someone has a unique way to market their service, product, etc., take note, evaluate the effectiveness, and maybe you'll be lucky enough to pick up a new trick. "Think outside the box"; "dare to be different", and don't let the masses of nay-sayers guide your actions.                                                                               

     After all..."there's more than 1 way to skin a cat!"       cat with hair standing up all over                                                                             

 

Have you ever had a unique marketing idea, that when you shared it, people told you that it'd never work? Share it here, in your comments. Thank you for reading my blog.

 
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33 Comments on "There's More Than 1 Way to Skin a Cat!"

Bo- I am always open minded to new ideas.  I try to invite others to be with us here in the rain yet I don't get the same openmindedness from them.

03/10/2008 07:46 AM by Lynchburg, Roanoke & Danville Area Nannette Saunders ASSOCIATE BROKER (Bradner, Farmer, Towler and Associates)


I love this post. Yes i had a broker that thought some of my marketing was crazy and actually would not allow some. I was so taken back . Now let me say I am still at the same office and she is elsewhere!!I am now putting my marketing to work and it is starting to pay off...

03/10/2008 07:47 AM by Sharon Harris (AllQuest Real Estate)


No only was it different, it was easier and cheaper! But the biggest lesson is about those who fail to adapt to change!

BTW I love the Pine Mountain area. We eat at the Bulloch House and then go for hikes often!

03/10/2008 07:51 AM by Richard Weisser, Associate Broker, E-Pro ERA United Realty, Auctioneer, CE Author (Coweta Fayette Real Estate, Inc. ERA United Realty)


Nannette, I am so with you... It actually took me some time to actually join AR after I'd been initially introduced as well. I didn't think I really had anything I could offer. I sit around and "jaw" so much with my Realtor friends, that one of them said, "You need to write this stuff down...if you don't want to post it, I'll be happy to post it for you, and give you credit for the blog...It'll help us both out". Well, I did this to begin with, but I noticed that he never posted my stuff, so I decided to jump on in at that point!

 I was just commenting on a blog last night about a historic garden tour going on in Lynchburg April 19-27 that Debbie Malone wrote about. This sounds like it will be fun...might need to check it out!

03/10/2008 07:57 AM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Sharon, Thanks for sharing... It amazes me that when some people get into a position of authority, the air they take on. This is what separates great bosses from those that are "just passing through".

03/10/2008 08:01 AM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Richard, Thanks for your insight. I agree that if we aren't flexible and willing to change, then something's got to give, and I certainly don't want to be "broke" (pun intended).

Isn't the Bulloch house wonderful...Southern cooking at its finest. I've hiked, backpacked, and led groups of whining adolescent boys all through that area. All in an attempt to introduce them to backpacking, before we head off to the more rugged terrain of Joyce Kilmer, in North Carolina! Thanks for sharing!

03/10/2008 08:07 AM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


What a great post, I would not know where to turn if my daughter asked me to take her fishing.  I am glad that you showed that guy up a little. 

03/10/2008 08:10 AM by Dave Woodson (Indigo Financial Group Inc.)


I think we all need to be open minded to change.  As my Dad says, we need to always be looking for cutting edge.  But, at the same time, be aware of the difference between cutting and bleeding edge.

03/10/2008 08:18 AM by Jeremy Blanton- Myrtle Beach Real Estate ,Coldwell Banker Chicora (Coldwell Banker Chicora Real Estate)


Bob - Great story, you are right we need to be open to new ideas, I am glad you and your little girl had a good time, I bet  she still remembers fishing with you.

03/10/2008 08:24 AM by Solaris Realty


Bo great blog and story. congrats to your daughter for her first fish. And what a great learning lesson for your daughter. It's true too many people either become jealous or shun new ways of doing things. I think jealousy has a lot to do with it in my opinion.

03/10/2008 08:27 AM by Orlando & Lake Mary Real Estate Expert, Heather Joubran (RE/MAX Central Realty)


~  Dave, its great fun, just start small, and the experience greatly outweighs the challenge of learning  something new. Does take some patience, however, and a great ability to laugh at oneself!

~  Funny, Jeremy! I tend to agree with your dad's viewpoint!

~  Hi Pam, thanks! She does indeed! As a matter of fact, she (and my other two) ask regularly when we're going again. I took my oldest deep sea fishing on a party boat out of Destin this past Fall, not too intense, fairly inexpensive, and lots of fun. The mates cleaned our fish at the end of the excursion, and we were able to grill them that evening!

~  Thanks Heather, it may be jealousy, or it may be fear...people are weird like that, we have a really hard time accepting differences and change for some reason. I try to teach others (and remind myself at times) to embrace change. I also try to point out little life lessons to my kids when I think something is pertinent, but they usually just think I'm being silly!

03/10/2008 08:54 AM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Bo, what you are really saying is the one with the most "dough" has a better chance of catching the big fish! LOL. Loved the story and I'm sure the next time you see the gentleman and his son, they will have bread with them.

Excellent tie in to thinking outside the box. Agents these days have to dare to be different and give new services and products a shot. Otherwise they are the ones with their lines in the water hoping to hook a fish, while the outside the box thinker has the dough.

Good post!

03/10/2008 09:23 AM by Duane Marlink, Rate A Home (Rate A Home)


Bo, I loved this story. Clearly you are a wise and patient dad and you've taught your children an important lesson. There are many agents who aren't open to new ideas or ways to market- Activerain being one of them- and they miss out on opportunities. Thanks so much for sharing your story (and for the blog mention).

03/10/2008 09:40 AM by Debbie Malone, RE/MAX, Lynchburg, Smith Mountain Lake, Real Estate Agent (RE/MAX 1st Olympic, ABR, e-PRO, ASP)


~  Very punny, Duane! Thanks for the comments! Our real estate friends have got to get/stay creative to stay afloat today. Otherwise, we'll be fighting for jobs at our local Ace Hardware or Home Depot!

~  Thanks, Debbie, I try to do my best for my kids, and hopefully I'll always be a big part of their lives. I am a lover of gardens, and try to visit beautiful places on all of my journeys...You might call me a true Renaissance Man! LOL! Thanks for reading my stories, thoughts and anecdotes. I've always found myself rambling on about something my entire life. It's great fun sitting around by the campfire in the evening sharing different "remember whens..." with my friends and family.

03/10/2008 11:24 AM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Bo, LOL, good use of words! I agree with getting creative, it's so important in this economy.

03/10/2008 11:31 AM by Duane Marlink, Rate A Home (Rate A Home)


Bo this is an excellent post and wow look at the response it has gotten already.  Dad and I still fish in our little pond and yes we use dough balls for bait. 

03/10/2008 12:05 PM by Linda Futral Sells Coweta, Heard, Meriwether & Troup (RE/MAX Today)


~ Thanks Linda, it's funny how those things work, isn't it? I really thought it was just a silly little thought I had last night. My daughter was visiting (I'm at my in-laws right now for recovery time), and she was asking about taking her fishing when I got better. That conversation sparked the memory, and I almost didn't post it. Strange what hits home with people...just never know. I just hope I am able to maintain the same level of relationship with my babies as they grow up that you and your dad sound like you have. Thanks!

03/10/2008 12:25 PM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


BO, I LOVED this story.  There are a lot of different ways to skin a cat you just have to find the one that works best for you. 

03/10/2008 01:52 PM by Marchel Peterson Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro ABR (Results Realty)


~  Hey Marchel... Thanks! You are exactly right. I try several methods of accomplishing tasks, so that should one not be the most efficient, becomes outdated, or doesn't work for whatever reason, I've usually got a "plan B" on hand...I find that in this line of work, a "plan B" is a necessity, and a "plan C", and "plan D"... (you get the picture). LOL...

btw, Thank you for sending me the video thing from your blog, "If I had to live my life over...", this is a very wonderful gift that I plan to share with those close to me.

03/10/2008 02:57 PM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Bo...At Linda's suggestion I got to read your post.  Keep taking that daughter fishing and you will be rewarded many times over.  It's great when they grow up and ask you to go places with them.

Cheers,

Kathleen

03/10/2008 08:55 PM by Kathleen "Kate" Elim, LAKE ANNA, VA Real Estate (RE/MAX Lake & Country)


Thanks, Kathleen, I plan to continue taking my little girl (and her little brother and sister), fishing, camping, hiking, canoeing and exploring in general. We have great adventures together, and it's my kids that help keep me young... even though they do wear me out at times! When I see them gaze in wonder and awe at a "new discovery", it fills my heart with joy, and I find myself rediscovering right along beside them. Thanks for reading my post, and your comments!

03/10/2008 11:57 PM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


 Bo... I went for that one 'hook line and sinker'...! I just went straight back down that time tunnel to when I was  3-4 years old and my dad used to take me fishing to some of the lakes in North of Winnipeg, Manitoba.........Apart from the 4 am start time and the slathering of mosquito repelent...the one on one time we spent together, replays in my memory over and over again.......45 years later........i'm now 50 and he is 75....those times were so precious....he taught me about the sounds of silence........communing with nature.........I think it was his way of meditating.......His calm and steady voice.....He'd pass the rod over to me to hold......(so he could get something) just as the fish was hooked.!.....He made me feel like the best!    His 'fishy' princess...!  You never know when a pricesless unforgetable moment is going to happen!

03/31/2008 01:57 AM by Liz Moras, Re/Max Associate Broker Chilliwack (Vancouver), B.C. (Remax Nyda Realty Chilliwack B.C.)


There is a fine line between trying to think outside the box and trying to reinvent the wheel.

03/31/2008 06:49 AM by Rod Rich - Atlanta- Associate Broker (RE/MAX of Buckhead @ Brookhaven)


~  Liz... That is an awesome memory! I hope my kids are able to hold onto memories such as that over the years. Our fast paced world, with constant bombardment of stimulus makes me worry a little. Maybe I'm just getting older; I find that I worry over the silliest stuff now that I never used to even think about! LOL

~   Rod... I agree with your comment, I think, but I'm struggling a little with the connection to the blog. No offense, by any means; it's my own connection issue, but thanks for commenting! Who knows, maybe a little "wheel reinvention" may be needed at times. We, as humans, seem to have short attention spans, and "old ideas", when presented in new context or a new way, may open new doors! Thanks again!

03/31/2008 07:32 PM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Bo, great post! I have been breaking my daughter into the world of fishin for a couple of years now. She is about to turn 7 this spring and we are looking forward to another big trip around memorial day. Those special times are absolutely priceless. I learned the bread idea from my grandfather when I was young and it seems to be my daughters preference as well. She doesn't like to touch the worms!

I am all for great new ideas that work, especially when they don't cost much. Of course on my side of the business, nothing works best than the old fashioned face to face marketing.

04/01/2008 11:48 AM by Benjamin Smith - Atlanta Area Appraiser (Apex Appraisals & Consulting)


Benjamin,  Thanks for your comments! Its funny; my kids love to play with the worms, but get grossed out about putting them on the line!

Chadd, Thanks!

 

 

04/02/2008 01:56 PM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Sounds like you all had a great time. Great post Bo!!

04/02/2008 08:04 PM by Keith Perry - REALTORĀ® -West Metro Atlanta (Coldwell Banker)


Hey Keith and Robin... I've always had a blast taking my babies fishing, camping, and hiking. Sitting around the campfire, making up stories and going on "blind" night hikes have been a way of life for the family since my oldest was 6 months old! We've done some light backpacking, when my oldest was still an only child; she rode in a baby backpack while I carried the gear. Once the second (and 3rd) came, that put an end to those days for a little while.

04/02/2008 09:19 PM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


My dad used to take my brother and Myself out with him when he had to travel.  He would find a stream in the Rocky Mountains back away from the main road, drop us off while he called on a client, come back, check our catch, fish with us for a while, then we would clean the fish and take them to someone he knew in the area who would cook them for us and we would sit down for dinner with them.  Little did I know at the time that this was his way of providing for some others who may not have had enough without giving them money.  My dad taught us so many of life's truths through these subtle lessons they still pop up. 

 Thanks for the memories.

04/16/2008 09:31 PM by L. Wayne Denton I HAVE A HANDLE ON YOUR MARKET! ! ! ( Magnolia Signature Homes)


Hey, Wayne... Those are some awesome memories. Trout fishing is such fun, isn't it. I never had the pleasure of fishing in Colorado or Wyoming when I travelled out that way, but as a boy, my dad, my uncle and I would trout fish in the Chattahoochee down below Buford Dam. We had light action, closed face Zebcos, wade the river (COLD!), and trout fish in the early morning while the mist was still coming off the water. Watch a nice Brown or Brookie come up from the depths to take the lure, pop it off the top of the water, and the fight was on! Heaven lies in these memories. I'm glad this post brought back good ones for you as well! Thanks for sharing! 

04/16/2008 10:24 PM by Bo Hunt, metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional (First Choice Mortgage Group)


Bo I thought the message was " enough Dough will beat out BS every time"

04/18/2008 01:26 PM by Rod Rich - Atlanta- Associate Broker (RE/MAX of Buckhead @ Brookhaven)


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