"Do you ever sleep?"

This was the email reply I received when I emailed one of my agents the answer to a question they had.  Did I mention that it was 3:30am on a weeknight?

This got me thinking about burnout and the inherent weirdness of being wide awake and happy at 3:30am responding to emails.  I have a theory, and I challenge you to challenge yourself with this whenever you have those feelings of "burnout."

Have you ever known someone who is truly passionate about what they do to ever complain of "burnout?"  Personally, I haven't...and I've never heard of such a person.  I believe burnout exists when you're chasing goals other than your own.  If you're not chasing your own goals, you're chasing someone else's.  It could be goals your company sets for you (biggerbetterfastermore), or it could be heightened competition...like wanting to beat out the top producer on your team.

I've experienced burnout at various points in my career and, hindsight being 20/20, I have to say I've been guilty of all the above.  If I'm honest with myself, I know the cause of my burnout was all of the above.  This is why we see some people who achieve goals and/or awards and, while we think they should be exstatic, they look rather distant and unsatisfied.  And when they speak about what they achieved, the words just don't flow.  This is simply because the achievement meant much more to someone else than it did to them.

Check your goals.  What makes you happy?  Are your daily efforts fortifying your happiness today AND for the future?  Ask yourself these questions to keep yourself focused on making your achievements meaningful to YOU. 

 

5 Comments on Burnout: Whose Goals Are You Chasing?

Love the post..great food for thought...One's true goals should be in the pursuit of happiness...

03/11/2008 09:26 AM by Pamela Knight (Urban Knight Enterprises, Inc.)


Mark:

I agree that one should take the time to smell the roses, unfortunately when you are a real estate agent --if you stop too long you will be forgotten about.

03/11/2008 09:29 AM by Lorraine and Loretta Kratz (Crescent Moon Realty, Inc. & Land N Sea Auctions.)


You are so right.  We so ofter loose sight of our own goals and get caught up in the rat race of competition and being top producer. 

Thanks,

 

     


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03/11/2008 09:47 AM by Kim Ray (Exit Realty Mountian Properties)


REALITY CHECK!  Just when I was starting to feel a bit apprehensive about things, I read your post and it made me feel instantly better!  Thanks so much!

 

03/11/2008 09:54 AM by Kathy Fisher Lexington's ePRO RE/MAX Realtor (RE/MAX Unlimited)


Lorraine & Loretta,

Thanks for the comment.  I'm not asking you to stop anything.  I absolutely agree and it's all over my blog...consistency rules.  Just make sure your consistent efforts are getting you closer to YOUR goals...and not just someone else's:)

Mark 

03/11/2008 10:10 AM by Mark Boyd (GetMyHomesValue.com)


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