I really mean that.

CASE 1:

I had a realtor call me right at 6pm. He was desperate as he was going to do a listing presentation. He wanted to stand out from the rest, there were other realtors being interviewed.  I spoke with him about the benefits of staging, offered and sent him a PDF file with all the stats, pictures and benefits of staging he could use in his presentation.  He perfusely thanked me.  I asked, as I always do, "how did you find me?" and he admitted he was googling, and I was near the end of the list.  He said, a few never bothered calling back and the two other people he spoke with were total "bitches."  I thought it odd as he was thanking me and being so grateful, and now it made sense.

I followed up with a call the following day to see how his presentation went and he said, he got the listing and that I got the staging projects for 2 townhome units.  Now that I know him better, he jokes and says "I am so lucky those ladies were bitches, because then I wouldn't have been working with you."

Moral of the story - don't be a bitch! (even if it's at 6pm).    

CASE 2:

I just got off the phone from my recent client, whose mother gave him a gift certificate for staging as a Xmas gift. What a wonderful idea!  I charged her for what I would a consult and was excited as I've never done a consult for a stage to live.  Anyways, she loved the suggestions I gave her.  She hired me for a couple of hours to implement them.  Her son loved the transformation as well.  Her son was so gung-ho on finishing out the rest of his home, he hired me. I was coming a few hours here and there, and now, he wants me to do full staging.  I was talking with him today and he has a friend moving from NYC to Charlotte.  His friend from NY loved the transformation of his home, so I am going to stage his new house.

It turns out that the mother called around. I was the fourth call.  She said I was lucky that I was the only one who promptly picked up the phone. The others didn't even bother calling back.  She was thinking it was because they didn't want to be bothered since it was a "small" job.

Moral of the story - even if it's for an hour consult, never dismiss a client thinking that it's just not worth my time.  You never know where your staging projects will come from.  This staging gig of an initial consult for 2 hours turned out to be 2 staging projects - one that evolved into a full staging and a second staging project from the referral. Also, he is planning to move in about 2-3 years he said, and his mother is moving into Charlotte.

It is basic stuff.  I've read the Essential 55, by Ron Clark and I found it a great book, but amusing that it states things like, "If someone says "hello", you should reciprocate and say "hello" back.  I think people are so wrapped in their own crazy worlds, that sometimes we forget to say things like, "Hello, How are you, and thank you."  Don't get me wrong, I'm not perfect, I have my bad days, and I am not always Ms. Perky, and I'm not being preachy, but just from the feedback, I thought it ironic, "I got the staging projects because someone was "bitchy".  Then a lightbulb went on that told me, "you must do a blog."

Here are some basics I've found helpful in business. 

1)You must pick up the phone right away if you can, or promptly return a phone call

2)If you say you will show up at X time, you must show up at X time unless you have a very good reason

3)Most of all, don't be a bitch!  Be nice and helpful.  Even if you think, I don't want to be bothered with this, because it's not really a big job - you just never really know.  At the very least, be nice and if you don't want to tackle the job, you can always recommend another fellow stager and stage it forward! (Good karma back as well)

 

23 Comments on Thank you "bitches"

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2007
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Marcyne,

I LOVE IT!!! I LOVE THE TITLE and the information.  That was Great!  As you can tell the Superbowl is over now.  Thanks for the email and let me know if I can help with anything.  Great post.

10:10pm • #1
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Marcyne.....   I know a few that saw they pick up the phone every time... that is just physically impossible, especially if you want a life. But, as you said.... at least return the call promptly. Overall... you made some great points and I am glad that it worked out for you. Congrats and good luck.
10:21pm • #2
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I had no idea what expect when I clicked on your post and am quite relieved to say the least. They say success is 95% showing up and 5% luck and you hit them both. Congratulations and much success. Stage it forward indeed!
11:00pm • #3
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2007
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This is the way to live AND work!  You are so right, Marcyne -- and with this attitude I expect you will be VERY successful!
4:04am • #4
Marcyne, You got it right on the nose.  I always go with the most important tenet of business. There's never a time to be rude, never.  So often it IS just the simple things like being polite that make all the difference.  Great post.
7:53am • #5
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I couldn't agree more.  Responsiveness and being courteous are two simple and basic factors in gaining new clients as well as retaining existing ones.   Thanks for posting.

11:02am • #6
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Marcyne - from the title I didn't know what to expect from this post!  But you are so right on about everything!  You really never do know where your next project will come from and how what you do and say can have an impact - even a 'domino effect', on your business.

Now I have a question - and I'm just throwing this out there to whoever wants to reply....is your business # a cell #, and if so, do you answer the phone at all times - even when you are in the middle of meeting with a client?  I would love to get some feedback on this.

12:41pm • #7
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You validate a notion I repeated hundreds of times when talking to REALTORS® in particular about internet leads-- being responsive matters and the person that can and will 'engage' quickly and appropriately usually gets the deal.  Clients just have too many choices to sit around waiting for you to decide to call them back or for you to decide to 'play nice in the sandbox! when they ask for something!
12:49pm • #8

Hi Val,

I wanted to answer your Q about business #.  It is my cell number and I have it with me at all times. On the recording, it says," Hi, this is Marcyne Touchton with Domaine Staging. If you receive this message, it means I'm currently on the phone or I'm with a client, please leave me a message and I will call you as soon as I can." 

I know that is lengthy BUT, if they get the message, they'll know that you may be in a meeting or on another call.  They're not thinking, "oh, they don't have an answering service or they must not be "real".  Something about when you call a contractor and such, that when they don't pick up the phone, you are jumping the gun, thinking, "they must not really be set up professionally yet."  I don't know, maybe it's just me.

I never pick up the phone if I am w/a client.  I usually try to put the cell on vibrate and then when there's a break, I'll call back always prefacing the call by saying, "I'm in the middle of a meeting but wanted to get back with you as soon as I could, how may I help you." That way, if the perspective client knows you are limited on time they will get to the point and be understanding that you can call them back for an indepth interview, etc.  In fact, they will appreciate the fact you called them even if it was to say "I can't really talk right now."  If the meeting is especially long, I will wait for a good time to say, "excuse me, I was wondering if I could excuse myself to make a quick call, I didn't want to interrupt our conversation, but do need to return a call." 

Hope that helps!

2:11pm • #9
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Marcyne, my voicemail says the same thing. Im either in a meeting or on another call. Please feel welcome to peruse my website..so yours is not lengthy is what I was trying to say. 

On the other hand I also want to congratulate you for not being a B***h!

5:02pm • #10
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2007
My cell goes with me everywhere! (I conducted a newspaper interview from a bubble bath a few weeks ago, snortttttttttttt!)  My message is basically the same as yours - I'm unavailable but will call back within 2 hours blah blah.  I have been known to excuse myelf from long meetings to return calls from a restroom.  Noone has noticed an echo yet LOL.  My 4 year old had show & tell at school last week & brought a toy cell phone that Santa brought her.  Afterwards her teacher asked me what I do for a living because Aimee made a "call" during class and talked all about moving furniture and said "warm paint colors are your friend" during the call.....  OOPS!  Maybe I should start telling my clients to pick up their toys??
7:20am • #11

Marcyne - it is your approach to business and communication that will set you apart from your competition. 

To be referred to as " b***" blows my mind.  I think the realtor should have used a different word other than referring to a woman as a b***. But that is a different topic, and I wont digress..nonetheless good for you on getting the work.

Like you, my cell phone goes everywhere with me.  I return ALL calls the same day.  Samething goes for emails.  I am a professional with many years experience in corporate, senior management. I try to show that professionalism in all interactions.

Good luck in the future!

8:58am • #12

Thanks all for the comments - Denise, the realtor was joking around about them being bitches later, after we got to know one another better.  In the beginning, he called them very rude.  I don't want to shed him in a bad light, because he is a good guy and conducts himself professionally. 

Marci-I will check out your sight. Karen, that is too funny.... 

My kids play with chalk on our driveway. It is very wide (2 cars width) and have grooves, making each block a rectangle shape.  They each get a rectangle and stage.  When their friends come, they say, "hey, let's go and make our rooms, we can stage it."  Once the rooms are all drawn out with the walls, windows, beds, dressers, etc, it ends up being another dimension of a world of their own.  They are running around, jedi swords are swinging, they have these force fields and rules about who can come through walls, who have to use doors, ...it's kinda like Star Wars meets Harry Potter world madness of some kind but for the 20 minutes they were staging, it's quiet and peaceful seeing them drawing.  Can you tell? I have two older boys? I do have a 5 yr old daughter, but she's tough too and can hang with the big boys.

11:00am • #13
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I agree that is why I always not only answer my phone but always go out of my way for clients. My husband said that they will buy me before they buy my product and he was sooo right.

Phyllis Pafumi

4:44pm • #14
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2007
100% agree with you ladies.  A client called me Friday to chat about how I work and then said she'd get back to me on Monday.  Well no call Monday but yesterday she called & told me although I was more expensive than the other stagers she called, she liked me best.  I now have a consultation on Friday which by the sounds of it will turn into a long term project.  Being nice is the key!
6:14am • #15
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2007

Marcyne,

I wanted to let you know I read your blog a few days ago...it was your catchy title that got my attention!  Tonight my phone rang at 6:50pm and I answered it.  Smart move.  I got another job!

9:20pm • #16

Hi you guys,

I've been getting some comments and enjoying them all, with my fists in the air expressing "yes" to all those who have had similar stories like mine. You go girls!

I have been out looking at blogs and realized the etiquette that comes with blogging. I didn't realize it is polite to respond back to the comments. I know I've enjoyed being acknowledged when I put in a comment or two to the blogger, so now that I realize that, I hope you guys can forgive me.


I was hoping to be ambitious like Nick M, the Apraiser, and was going to insert photos of all of you but I am not that good nor THAT addicted.

Anyways, here's a quick shout out to all of you:

Ray - hey, where's your blog - I'm still waiting...

Jeff - hi again - I will try to track down a baby pic of me, although, being the 4th child, I have NONE...that's another therapy session, never mind.

Sheron - pretty name, I like the way you say it with empowerment "Stage it forward!"

Sarah - thanks for the encouragement, that is my new mantra "you will be successful, you will be successful" as I am SO in debt from this wonderful business venture

Patricia - you already know whats important, may the ray of sun shine on you

Kathy - you're welcome - sunshine rain on you too

Val - thanks for the questions, keep them coming - I have tons of my own

Chris - yes yes!

Marci - Thanks, I've been called a b***h before but only by my best friends.

Karen - too funny

Denise - thanks for well wishes, and I think I did clarify, the realtor didn't call them b***h, but rude and called them B***h joking when we got to be better friends.

Phyllis - as you know, your husband's a keeper

Karen - Congrats!

Nana - YEA!! Congrats!!

Thanks for the great comments and remember, as Woody said in Toy Story "PLAY NICE!"

10:57pm • #17
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2007

Yes I agree

7:31am • #18
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2007
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I was taught many things in grad school, most of which I can't remember, but one lesson I learned during a professional development seminar was, "Always return phone calls within 24 hours at the most, even if it is just to say that you don't have the answer right now but will get back to them." Loved this advice!

As for answering the phone while with the client, DON'T! They're paying you for your time and deserve your full attention. Take phone calls on your own time.

That's my two cents for whatever it's worth. Two cents doesn't get ya too far these days though ;-)

Lori
Room To Improve
3:07pm • #19
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As I believe it is important to return calls in a timely fashion, I do not believe that we should have to be accessible at all times. 
3:23pm • #20
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2007
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Not to be a Bitch.....just a few more key strokes and you could have spelled out C H R I S T M A S !!! Have a great Day!!!!
10:39am • #21
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2007

Christine - I love the idea of staging it forward (I know that is a group here) but you know by that I mean, pass the job to another fellow stager.

Rick - glad you joined us. 

Lori - a penny for your thoughts - good, I'm glad you had a chance to have your 2 cents worth and your parents can't say they wasted eduction on you - you are still retaining info learned!  (I on the other hand....)

Jacqueline, I agree, I'm not saying that we should be accessible at all times, but we should definintely be prompt in returning a phone call.  My hours for taking calls cuts off at 6pm, but if I'm not doing anything important (kids sports, helping w/their homework, or staging) and the call comes in at 6:30, I will go ahead and pick up the phone.

Robert, I don't get it - sorry! You'll have to spell it out for me, ...ha ha...but, no, really, I don't ... (:

Maureen, Yes!  The nice guys don't always finish last. ( : 

7:06am • #22
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I just had to comment on this post!

To add to the Bitchy Conduct of some - road rage will do the same thing (this is something I have been working on in my town ;) ) Now that I am a professional I am very aware of my actions in public (not that I was a lunatic before) but people aways remember those that leave a bad taste and inform their friends.

Potential Clients are everywhere - and I would hate to aproach someone for business that I cut off and gave the finger to the previous day ! lol

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