When you meet someone for the first time, do you tell them that you are a real estate agent? That could be a bad thing - here's why.

Everyone has a pre-conceived idea of what a real estate agent is. For the most part, Realtors rank just above used car salesmen in the eyes of the general public. So when you say, "I am a real estate agent", the person's mind starts reeling about the stories they've heard or the last interaction they had with a real estate agent. This may or may not be a good thing depending on whether their experience or stories they've heard was good or bad. Most likely, the stories were bad. A happy customer tells two people. An unhappy one tells 10. Even if the person has had a good experience with a Realtor, when you say you are a real estate agent you are now lumped in with the group of real estate agents that they already know. You don't stand out.

I propose that instead, when someone asks you what you do, tell them what you do, not what you are. "I sell homes to people just like you!". Of course you'd get more specific than that. You can get specific about the types of properties you sell, and you can get specific about the type of person your typical client is. In any case, when you tell them what you do rather than what your title is, you've taken away the chance for the person to put you in a category. You've given them a new category, your own.

Say it loudly, say it proudly, and say it with a smile.

"I help real estate professionals just like you use technology and the internet to sell properties!".

 

16 Comments on STOP!! Don't tell people you sell real estate!

MAR
11
2008
I never sell real estate. I help people buy real estate. There's a huge difference.
1:05pm • #1

Interesting view and perspective on presentation. They do say presenation is everything. :)

1:12pm • #2
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It is all about your presentation!  I need to remember this! Thanks for the post!
1:20pm • #3
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I'm not ashamed of what I do for a living.  Over the years I have helped thousands of people obtain their goal of owning their own home. One couple even named their kid after me!

That said, there is a reason that the public looks at us this way and I believe that this reason is that it's far too easy to get and keep a real estate license.  

The powers that be need to tighten up on this and everybody, the public and the real estate "professionals" (I use the term loosely!) would benefit!

 

Bob Mitchell

ValueList Real Estate Services, Inc. 

1:21pm • #4
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 I never thought about that. I do get a funny feelng in my stomach when someone says they are a car salesman.
1:28pm • #5
Interesting concept, I think the key is also who you are. This will speak louder than your profession.
1:32pm • #6
Interesting approach.  We're all on the front lines of changing the public's opinion.  We have to show our value so we're treated as professionals not commodities. 
1:44pm • #7
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Stephen, I like that. It speaks more about what you do than what you are.

Christina and Nannette, yes, it's about how you present yourself. Controlling how you want to be remembered.

Bob, that's a whole 'nother post, lol. When you tell people what you do, you are already removing yourself from the general population. You are showing your uniqueness.

Lindsay, if they didn't say their title, but that they helped people buy the best pre-owned car (or something like that), you'd think of them as an individual, not lumped with all the used car salesmen in the world.

For the record, my good friend's husband sells used cars and he's as honest and ethical as they come. See how easily it is to judge people by their titles?

Ross, I'm talking about someone you just meet. They haven't had time to get to know you, so they don't know who you are. They only know what you tell them.

Matt, stand out from the crowd and you will change the public's perception, one person at a time.

2:15pm • #8
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Crystal - this may just be my favorite blog of all time. BRILLIANT!

2:45pm • #9
MAR
20
2008

 

Like they say, it's not what you say buy how you say it. I'm going to try that. Great idea for a post! 

7:30am • #11
I tell them I am a Real Estate Consultant--- sounds a lot better in my opinion---Bart
7:44am • #12
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I market properties for people who want to sell, help design homes for people who want to build, and develop land plans for lot owners to better utilize raw land.. If I weren't me I would want to be me..
11:39am • #13
MAR
26
2008
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That true, I think the general population are starting to have more respect for Realtors since homes are not selling in a day or two as often as they did three years ago. It takes skill, planning, tools money and time to sell a listing. FSBO's are starting to see the value of a Realtor.
4:20pm • #14
JUN
21
2008
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Crystal

It is amazing how the real estate agent is viewed to be the lowest rung on the totem pole.  I have used a less sutle approach similar to yours with success and I recommend others do the same.  Otherwise we will never gain the respect we deserve among the general population.

by the way, Do you have an outside blog that I can add to my Blogroll ?

Thanks and look forward to reading your thoughts on the world of real estate.

3:11pm • #15
JUN
23
2008
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This is the only blog I have on the subject of real estate. I have had several blogs but "things" keep happening to them.

3:08pm • #16

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