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San Jose Home Sellers - Memories Do Not Transfer With Your Home

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with KD Realty - 408.972.1822 CA DRE#01366594

San Jose Home Sellers - Memories Do Not Transfer With Your Home

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When selling a San Jose home, the memories we have do not transfer with the sale of our home. 

We all have wonderful and beautiful memories of times shared in our homes. We all have memories; some good, some great, some we are not so fond of and would like to forget. When it comes to selling our San Jose home we cannot place a monetary value on our memories. In other words, the value of our home does not increase because of our fond memories.  

I understand it was your first home. I understand that you raised your children in the home. Believe me, I get that. However, our memories do not have the same value in the eyes of a prospective buyer. To a prospective buyer, your house is where they hope to create their home and their own memories. 

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Memories do not transfer with our home when we sell it. Those memories live in our minds and hearts forever. We can share them if we choose but no one can take them from us. They are ours and ours alone. 

When it comes time to sell your San Jose home your memories are not sold with it. Your memories are packed up and taken with you wherever you go. 

When we price your San Jose home to sell we are not adding a monetary value for your memories. It we do, your home won't sell. Buyers are simply not willing to pay for your memories. Buyers want to create their own memories. When those buyers sell they won't be able to sell their memories either. 

In order to sell you home we need to focus on what needs to be done to prepare your home for sale. From there, we look at comparable homes sold and that is how the list price is determined. 

As a prospective buyer, would you be wiling to pay more for another person's memories or would you rather spend that money on creating our own memories?

 

 

 

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Comments (12)

Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Well written, and so very true. No one can take your memories away--they are yours to keep.

Nov 26, 2013 01:17 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hi Kathleen, whether we live in a house for a year or a decade, there are always memories which have no price tag. Often, sellers try to adjust the price based on emotions, doesn't work!

Nov 26, 2013 01:24 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Lottie,  We have so many memories that live in our hearts.  They are not in the places we visit (which are ever-changing) or in physical structures.  

Beth, It most definitely does not work.  Our memories are priceless.  No one wants to buy them. We all want to create our own memories.  

Nov 26, 2013 01:27 AM
Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Kathleen,  Home selling can be such an emotional time especially for widows and widowers.  I hear that alot from people about how they had so many memories in the home.  you're right.  memories are in our brains - not the home.  They will stay with us forever regardless of where we live. 

Nov 26, 2013 01:50 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Kathleen, several years ago I stopped calling the Seller's house their home. I try to start detatching them from the property as early as possible. I tell them that home, is where they've chosen to move to. Happy Thanksgiving.

Nov 26, 2013 02:17 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Kathleen, This speaks to my heart. It's true, we highly value the experiences that take place in our homes. Not sure I could sell mine based on just that!

Nov 26, 2013 04:24 AM
Jeff Fritzson: Frisco Real Estate Pro
Jeff Fritzson Real Estate, Ebby Halliday Realtors - Frisco, TX
Your Success is My Focus!

Hi Kathleen - I think you could literally scratch out and replace San Jose home and put in almost any city (well maybe not Detroit, just kidding all you Detroit people.) Like Belinda said memories are in our brains and I think also our hearts. Just think of all the new memories to create in your new home.

Nov 26, 2013 05:59 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

What a great post. Memories are indeed something we carry with us and our memories are our perception. They are different for each of us, even if we experienced the same thing.

Nov 26, 2013 07:33 AM
John G. Johnston
John G. Johnston & Associates, LLC - Westcliffe, CO
An Exclusive Buyer's Agent ~ Westcliffe, CO

Kathleen   Well said.  Homes are for buyers.  Sellers live in houses.  You have it pegged in dealing with emotions involved in buying or selling a home/house.  Suggested

Nov 26, 2013 12:21 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

You are so right, memories don't disappear when someone sells. Hopefully most of these memories are good ones and last a lifetime.

Nov 26, 2013 07:12 PM
The Villages Realty
The Villages Realty - San Jose, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Nice presentation of important stuff to know.  Keep it up!  Good job!

Jan 13, 2017 07:47 AM
Eagle Ridge Realty
Eagle Ridge Realty - Gilroy, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Nice post Kathleen.  Your posting are always so enjoyable to read.  

Jan 14, 2017 07:19 AM