As  a child, I can recall my parents always having a disscusion about bills and money.  It drove me crazy to hear that old phrase, "Money Doesn't Grow On Trees".  I told myself, I would never say that phrase or have those money issues when I became an adult.   Boy, was that a pipe dream!

As parents we work diligently to provide our kids with the best education, the best environments, the best of everything.  We attempt to give them everything that we feel that we did not have as children. 

Have we taught our children to be financially knowledgeable?  I can say, that I failed in this area..My wake up call was when my brilliant husband wanted to get my daughter a cell phone, guess who got stuck paying that nightmare of a bill.  I found myself telling my child, "Money Doesn't Grow On Trees".  I drilled it in her head, told her about assets and liabilities, the whole nine yards.  My daughter got her first job and opened a bank account.  After, all that drilling I thought she understood, until she got to writing checks without reconciling her bank account. And the nightmare goes on, we sent her off to college and informed about staying away from the credit card pushers, unfortunately, she got hooked.  Guess what, I had to give the tough love act and she had to pay for her own mistake.     

Can you recall opening your first bank account, getting your first credit card, buying your first home, etc., and how it made you feel? Did you find yourself saying?  I am on top of the world!  This is a great feeling of empowerment. 

We as parents, we can do better, along with giving our children the best, teach them to be financially literate.  The Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) offers an excellent program "Money Smart", which teaches the following:

  • an introduction to bank services                           
  • an introduction to credit
  • how to choose and keep a checking account
  • how to keep track of your money
  • why you should save your money
  • keeping your money safe, your rights as a consumer
  • how your credit history will effect your credit future
  • how to make a credit card work for you
  • loans, know what you're borrowing before you buy
  • what home ownership is all about

This program was design as an adult education program, however, I have found it to be a great and useful educational tool to aide in teaching my children about being financially knowledgeable.   And case, you are wondering, my daughter reports she is debt free, thanks to the Money Smart Program.  

Please take a look at these websites http://www.fdic.gov/ and http://www.mymoney.gov/, you will not be sorry!  The website offers a free on-line seminar.  You are never too old or too young to learn how to become financially literate. 

The is one of the best gifts to give to your children!

Urban Knight Enterprises, Inc. * Real Estate Investment Services - Notary Services * 610.935.5944

 

6 Comments on "Money Smarts", Our Children Need to Have Them Too!

MAR
15
2008
123,710 Points Outside Blog
Thanks for the websites!  My dad always taught me about money and the responsibilities involved with it.  I have tried my best to teach my boys the same.
8:44pm • #1
MAR
16
2008
You are welcome, I hope you find them as a useful tool  as I have ....let me know what you think.  I actually instruct "Money Smart" seminars to adults and was recently requested to speak at our local high school.  So, I am pretty excited about how well it is being received. 
12:20pm • #2
MAR
20
2008

Good post, thanks. I will save the links.

12:37pm • #3

Thanks Diego,

I hope the links are helpful to you....

1:28pm • #4
APR
07
2008

The hardest part, I think, of responsible parenting is the huge time-lapse (20-30 years!) between the doing and the results.  Having been in the mtg business before having children, I was able to bring that insight into my parenting.  Nothing will instill you to teach your children (and yourself) well, as will looking at credit reports for years!

What I found hardest but most influential was to hold to this premise: Do not rob your children of their own lessons!  Most of life is cause & effect, and muddling through the consequences of our own decisions is where we learn the greatest lessons.  It is SO hard sometimes, especially when we have the ability to easily write a check and 'save' them from something - but if I just turn it sideways and 'see' it as robbing them of knowledge and experience, it becomes much easier.

6:01am • #5

Hi Renee,

Yesterday, my daughter came over and we got to talking about her ambitions of buying a home one day.   She told me how I was a pain in the butt during those years when I was drilling her about credit, paying bills, etc. and that I literally drove her insane.  The girl made me feel so bad that I didn't know what to do or how to respond.   

She went on to tell me about how she owed me for all the money problems that I paid for...I of course was thinking I would be a millionaire with all the loot she owed me, (just joking). My daughter enlightened me of how she felt so safe and secure because my husband and I was always there to shelter her from everything.  However, it wasn't until we said we can't do this anymore and meant it, that she would never of known what it felt like to go though having financial debt.  She said, "I just want to say thank you mommy for allowing me the opportunity to fall and giving me the tools to pick myself back up."  

She left me speechless and over joyed!  All I could think was wow, what a powerful statement.  My daughter assured me that our talks about money really has helped and she feels glad we had them and wants to continue to have them. 

Thanks for your comments... and have a great day!

9:17am • #6

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