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SLAY THE PROBLEM NOT THE PERSON

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill
Slay the dragon (problem) not the person....go after the problem. Stay focused and discipline yourself to finish what you have started. The results are most satisfying. Look for your problems and then put them in their place. We are the superior being here and we were not put here to be defeated. Use the fierce winds of resistance to carry you to your success not your failure
 
HIDE AND BUY TIME?...no no no
 
Head in the sand tactics only go so far. You got to come up sometime and when you do, there is the problem only worse because time allows it to grow and prosper. It wants to consume you and is on its way because while procrastination buys you time it also gives your problems strength and growth. Putting it off makes it worse
 
THE RIVER IN EGYPT... THE NILE (da nial)
 
Denial isn't any better too. What a waste of time to argue, blame, excuse and create more problems that only feed the original monster that is disturbing us at the moment. A great place to start is to address THE PART YOU PLAYED or are PLAYING in the situation. Don't worry or concern yourself with others at this time.. We will get to that soon enough.
 
WHAT TO DO...here it is
 
What I want you to do, what I am suggesting is to go toward your problem with Godspeed. Listen how anti-belief that sounds to your conditioning and current beliefs. Yes, go toward the monster that is roaring and disturbing your professional and personal world. If it has the gall to appear then oblige it with a quick death...SWOOSH!
 
INFECTS OUR LIVES
 
Treat the problem like a cyst or infection that has raised its ugly head. It needs attention to get well. Ignore it and it gets worse and turns up the pain until it does get your attention. Ignore an infection and you will soon be introduced to its best friend...GANGRENE.
 
GAME TIME...SUIT UP PEOPLE
 
Is it easy to take on the problem... this intruder that has entered into your world? Maybe not! BUT, it must be done. Here's a thought. Get good at this in your own life and once you have some mastery over it you can then go help others. Until then, suit up with armor, draw your sword and charge toward this dragon problem.
 
Soon.... other dragons (problems) wont even bother with you....It becomes a problem for them

Comments (6)

Alan Kirkpatrick
Austin Texas Homes - Round Rock, TX
Alan in Austin

Richie:

Great post and love the title. Hope you have a wonderful week. 

Nov 17, 2013 10:35 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Richie. I too loved the title and agree with your approach as well. You made me smile and think. Suggested.

Nov 17, 2013 10:38 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Alan...good of you stop by my friend...May the week respond to all your commands...

Hello Sheila...If I got a a smile and a thought out of you...my days work is done...thank you Sheila

Nov 17, 2013 10:44 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Richie,  This is sound advice ...as you know much easier said than done. Some life issues are deep seeded and require a deep level of commitment and work to overcome them.  I've often said, if there were a switch I would turn it on, or off.  There isn't any issue or problem that we cannot overcome.  When we have a warrior mentality we are victors not victims.  Thanks for another great read. 

 

Nov 18, 2013 12:14 AM
Phil Stevenson, CRMP
PS Mortgage Lending 305-791-4874 or 888-845-6630 - Miami, FL
"Mortgage Nerd" in Miami, Florida and Texas

Richie, not problem is impossible to solve but, like Kathleen said, some problems do require more attention than others. This is where procrastination comes in because, the harder the problem, the less we want to deal with it. We have to though because it's very unlikely that it will go away until we deal with it. Always start with the hardest problems first and the smaller, simpler ones will fall away and you're find yourself slaying dragons a mile a minute.

Nov 18, 2013 01:09 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Kathleen...I noticed any sound advice attracts you. I do so enjoy your commenting...thank you too

 

Hello Phil...most excellent commenting...PHIL her up is all I can say

 

 

Nov 18, 2013 02:31 AM