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Its The Details- Kill The Myth

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Talk 2 Midori, LLC BK645709

It kills me...just kills me how people perceive real estate agents. In most cases, home sellers have others buzzing in their ears on everything that the agent they hired is doing something wrong. The sellers friends and family express their feelings and that creates a question in the sellers mind and a thought crosses their mind, I can't trust my agent.  Remember..listing agreements and sales contracts are legal documents and taking real estate advice from a novice is not in your best interest..wouldn't you agree?  Yet so many do!   

Friends and family should consider keeping their opinion to themselves.  Being unaware and voicing your opinion can cause a delay in a real estate transaction that could possibly hurt your loved one in the long run. 

Human beings in general tend to believe they are smarter than ever because of the internet.  There is a lot of folks who would like to "try" to sell their home because of all the do it yourself articles and videos.  Heck watch a few YouTube videos, read some top agents blog, go to zillow...yup you are now qualified to sell a home. because you followed some generic how to sell your home article or series.  Its not about how much you know...to sell a home..its about the details and the time needed to get the details done and on time. 

Think about where you get your real estate information before thinking its fact: 3rd party sources of mls in some cases are outdated....they get their data from the real estate broker and in some cases the 3rd party sources do not remove old content Another source we often hear about is your brothers cousins uncle who has never sold a house but maintains a real estate license and is proud of that fact so he talks it up or how about a retired broker who hasn't sold anything in the past 10 years and will point out every flaw of your agent. In some markets selling a home can be easy, its the details that can prevent you from closing.  

Agents should set the expectations up meaning keep a home seller informed on the happenings of selling their home. When you list a home try handling it from start to finish without forgetting details.  You don't have to tell the home buyer or seller every gory detail...it won't be necessary if you do your job completely...if you consult with them regularly it will be obvious to them.  They aren't idiots they just don't sell homes as a career and they count on you to understand what exactly is happening and being able to handle it.  

At times agents don't take enough pictures or hold a house open, its as if they get to a certain point in their career and some of the service goes and its at the customer's expense. People complain to me often about this. You hired them not me.  Always interview agents ask them what are they gonna do for you to get you where you want to be. 

What happened to the day of going over sales contracts and listing agreements rather than expect a novice to understand the real estate lingo and legalities?  I find agents devalue their own business more than any consumer would...because the necessary things that you can do to prove your expertise sometimes never happen and mis-communication and the mistrust occurs. 

As a consumer I would interview agents, I would ask specifically about their marketing and systems,  I would feel really good about the agent that I hired or I would not put the house on the market until I found someone who I fully trusted. I would expect to communicate, understand agreements, have a copy of fully executed documents and be active in buying or selling your property.  Don't let your real estate transaction just happen to you.  Demand that your agent works for and with you, you're paying for the service, its the details that will get you where you want to go. 

As an agent I would fine tune systems, take the time to explain any and all listing and sales contracts and share with your customers what to expect.  Tighten up your business from the sanitation to your car to your customers closing gift..make your customer participate in their transaction ....always work on improving your skills and become a master of your career...don't forget..  the details in between!  

Collette Sarmento
Cameron Real Estate Group - Wakefield, MA
781*258*9718--Your Agent For Life

Great post and information there really is too much information out there.

Dec 02, 2013 04:04 AM
Terry McCarley
Coastal Real Estate - Cape Coral FL - Cape Coral, FL
REALTOR, SRES, CDPE - Cape Coral, FL

Excellent post and well deserved feature!  The internet offers too much information is some regards and not enough in others - this alone is why consumers need  a real estate professional.  Of course advice from family and friends who don't understand the business can make our jobs difficult to say the least.

Dec 02, 2013 04:26 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Great post. Wish I had a nickel for every seller that got bad advice from a friend or relative finding posts on the internet!

Dec 02, 2013 04:36 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

I wonder if the same family members turn up when a person has surgery and point out things to the surgeon.  

Dec 02, 2013 04:38 AM
Patty Luther
RE/MAX Rock-n-Roll Realty - Lewiston, ID
Lewiston ID Real Estate, Idaho-Washington

great post ....  will read again!    thanks

Dec 02, 2013 05:32 AM
Jimmy Faulkner
Florida. Homes Realty & Mortgage - Wantagh, NY
The Best Of St. Augustine

I love one of the comments forget the myth and become a legend. You really need to have a high quality of patience and a lot of listening skills to make it in this business. EVERONE KNOW REAL ESTATE except you the realtor.

Dec 02, 2013 05:38 AM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

Finding someone you trust is key even if that's the very first agent you talk to.

Dec 02, 2013 05:40 AM
Travis "the SOLD man" Parker; Broker/Owner
Travis Realty - Enterprise, AL
email: Travis@theSOLDman.me / cell: 334-494-7846

As an Agent now, I know what to ask. As a Seller back several years ago, I was clueless as to what to ask and got burnt!

Dec 02, 2013 07:52 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

Unfortunately, more than a few of those agents you identified are in the industry and because of the media, most of them eventually get exposed and that's precisely the image we as an industry want to avoid but can't seem to get escape.

Dec 02, 2013 08:17 AM
Carl Weisman
Torrance, CA

Midori,

 

You rock.  Too bad mostly agents will read your post.  I hope lots of home sellers see if because it is great advice.

Dec 02, 2013 08:48 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Midori, On one of my listings, the seller moved out of state and would call me sometimes 3/4 times a day.  She would tell me what her mother and sister said that she or I should be doing. It was soooo frustrating and I kept my cool. House was taken off market, never sold.

Dec 02, 2013 08:52 AM
Marnie Matarese
DWELL REAL ESTATE - Sarasota, FL
Showing you the best of Sarasota!

What?  You mean that my sister's nail tech's dog sitter's mother-in-law who has a friend who sell real estate does not know more than you do?  What a great post and congratulation on getting featured. 

Dec 02, 2013 10:20 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

It's all the ltittle details that make or break us in this business. I'm often amazed at how casual so many agents are about ensuring that all the details are taken care of. And unless we agents educate our clients, there's no way for them to know how important it is for them to hire an agent who's good about dealing with all the details.

Dec 02, 2013 08:21 PM
Brenda Mayette
Miranda Real Estate Group, Inc. - Glenville, NY
Getting results w/ knowledge & know-how!

SO MANY fantastic points here!!!  And I think my favorite is about others buzzing in our clients' ears.  This holds true on the buying side too! Everyone is an expert -- just ask them! But the bottom line truly is that this unsolicited provision of opinions DOES lead to transaction delays.  Want to be in by Christmas??? Talk to the PROFESSIONALS! And if you didn't trust them to begin with, well... there's a whole other story, right?! Great blog.  I've bookmarked it for ongoing reference.

Dec 02, 2013 09:00 PM
Randy Shamburger
Movement Mortgage - Greenville, SC
FHA, VA, USDA and Conventional Mortgage Expert

Thanks for the good tips!

Dec 03, 2013 12:27 AM
Shanna Hall
Real Estate Solutions - Kirkwood, MO
I love selling houses!!!St. Louis, MO 314-703-1311

My favorite line in this is....

Friends and family should consider keeping their opinion to themselves.  Being unaware and voicing your opinion can cause a delay in a real estate transaction that could possibly hurt your loved one in the long run.
 
That is a winner of a statement!!!
Dec 03, 2013 11:00 PM
Christine Pappas - REALTOR®
eXp Realty - Willoughby, OH
When You’re Ready To Move, I’m Ready To Help

So true Midori!  and the other one that gets me, is when they say they have talked with their real estate friends and this is what they say!  I've had that happen to me twice this year because of very difficult closings, that neither I nor my seller had any control over, the entire issues, both times were from the buyer's banks.  Even though I kept both sellers very informed, maybe even too informed, I heard that comment both times.  Finally, I asked for their friend's name and let them know they are not a party to this contract and I'd like their name to repor them to our board.  I really want to be snarky and say well if they were so trusted to begin with, why didn't you hire them?  But, I bite my tongue instead ask for their names. 

Dec 04, 2013 12:12 AM
Jeff Jensen
The Federal Savings Bank/Lending in 50 states - Greenwich, CT

Parents and family members always seem to gum up the works in real estate transactions.

Dec 04, 2013 05:26 AM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

Midori, to some degree this happens in all transactions. I find that doctors, lawyers and engineers have the most respect for Realtors. They are at the receiving end of trust and respect in their profession and value the knowledge and experience of other professionals.

Dec 15, 2013 12:50 AM
Bette Gottwald
UNITED REAL ESTATE | Central PA - Mechanicsburg, PA
"Bet"on Central PA Real Estate!

Great post Midori!  There is nothing more irritating than "Uncle Bob" giving expert advice on something he knows very little about!  

Dec 15, 2013 05:45 AM