aYears ago I read a book that changed the way I looked at leadership and my business. I can remember the first time I read it like it was yesterday. I was on an airplane from New York to Los Angeles. Bill Leider had suggested I read it in preparation for some of our sessions on vision and values.

I remember getting through the first chapter and feeling like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. My business decisions had never been traditional. The rules and processes that seemed to govern other businesses didn't make any sense to me. And though I had achieved a measure of success, there was always a nagging thought in the back of my head that perhaps I was doing something wrong.

I wasn't.

Today, I was reminded of that book, Leadership And The New Science by Margaret Wheatley. I went to hear Dustin Luther speak today. Other ActiveRain members had a similar idea, including Brian Brady, Jeff Dowler, Roberta Murphy, Kaye Thomas (who I did not get a chance to meet) & Laurie Manny. In addition, I had the pleasure of spending a good amount of time with Jonathon Washburn and his wife, Sara. I can't accurately describe how delightful they are. They are young, obviously brilliant, and clearly driven by a open business model described by Margaret Wheatley in great detail, even though they have never read the book.

Old Business Models Are Built On Newtonian Principles

In fact, most businesses today still operate on notions made popular by 17th century thinking about the universe and how it works. Newton viewed the world as a machine, a "great clock." This machine image was weaved into the fabric of society and into organizational structures for over 300 years. We believed, because the best science we knew of told us to, that if we could just study all the parts, we'd somehow understand the whole. We believed that if we could understand cause and effect in each relationship, we could control the outcome without fail. Organizations were set up to contain checks and balances that attempted to controlled everything, including and especially outcomes.

Our thinking was wrong.

The twentieth century brought us quantum physics and a change so dramatic that it's introduction shook Newton's worldview to the core. Quantum theory brought us an understanding of the behavior of particles at the subatomic level that can only be described as weird or strange. We learned that our world is not a machine. In fact, it's not even close. Science stumbled on the fact that the building blocks of life "contain 'things' that change form as they respond to one another and the scientist observing them." The world of science turned to the relationships between electrons, neutrons and photons that change in relationship to each other and in relationship to the environment. It was a dramatic shift.

"In the quantum world, relationships are not just interesting; to many physicists, they are all there is to reality." While the scientist could chart the probability of certain actions, no particle could be drawn without the others. At the molecular level, nothing exists outside of those relationships. As a result, we can't predict anything. The quantum world is "fuzzy." The real world is fuzzy as well. We can't predict people.

"So many of the things in organizations that we argue and worry about come from our belief in objective reality... But this search for discernible, objective futures has been, if we can admit it, a great cosmic joke."

"To live in a quantum world... we need fewer descriptions of tasks and instead learn how to facilitate process. We need to become savvy about how to foster relationships, how to nurture growth and development. All of us need to become better at listening, conversing, respecting one another's uniqueness, because they are essential for strong relationships." Because the relationships are what govern the behavior of any living system. Relationships are the invisible energy that holds everything together and gives it identity.

To function as a quantum organization, you must function as an open system.

"Equilibrium is neither the goal nor the fate of living systems." The beauty of ActiveRain is that it is not governed by Newtonian principles of business. It has the characteristics of a self organizing system. It's viability comes from "it's capacity to adapt as needed, to create structures that fit the moment." It is characterized by an openness to disequilibrium, to disturbances that other business models would seek to eliminate.

ActiveRain is a model of an open organization.

"An open organization doesn't look for information that makes it feel good, that verifies its past and validates it's present. It is deliberately looking for information that might threaten it's stability, knock it off balance, and open it to growth. This is so different from the way information is handled in well-defended organizations. In these, only information that confirms existing plans or leadership is let in. Closed off from disturbances, kept at equilibrium, such organizations run down, atrophy, and die." - Margaret Wheatley

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Organizations usually act in complete reverse of this. Organizations have acted on the false notion that secrecy, isolation and strong boundaries are the best way to preserve their uniqueness. "But this self-organizing world teaches that boundaries not only create distinctions; they are also places for communication and exchange. Because system members engage in continual exchanges among themselves and with their environment, the system develops greater freedom from the environment." It's a paradox, but it's the way open systems work. An open system's need to maintain itself often leads to something new and different. Disturbances cause it to react. It changes to preserve itself. The identity, defined by the relationships of the organization, drives the parts and the system makes the adjustment necessary to preserve it's identity.

This is why ActiveRain works even when it feels like it's not.

New organizational models discourage stasis, balance and equilibrium. Why? Because new science teaches us these are not GOAL states, but TEMPORARY states. "What endures is process - dynamic, adaptive, creative."

As a result, each part, or "member", learns it's relationship to the other members, not by coercion, but through self-organization. It is the natural result of an open system. I learned a great deal from this open system in the past two days. I now know, both emotionally and intellectually, what my role here needs to be, and it's NOT talking about real estate transactions. It was the open system that provided the opportunity to stray from my comfort zone to learn from a place of disequilibrium, disturbance, discomfort.

To the ActiveRain creators... your system is working just the way it should, even when, in the moment, it doesn't feel like it is.

 
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66 Comments on Why ActiveRain Is Working Even When It Feels Like It's Not

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Jeff very good posts. I just wish I knew what the heck you're talking about:) OK I'm going to have to read this again a little later when my brain is functioning more clearly.
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Me too         :)

Looks like a triple read to me :)

Hubba aka Jeff Turner...I'm going to need more coffee for this one :)

TLW...ROAR!

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TLW [SVW]... and The Lovely Husband  : )

Listen, this was a brain dump. It was spurred by several divergent events over the past few days. The book, Leadership And The New Science, is the single most influential book I've read in my life, outside of The Bible. Trying to condense it into a post is really kind of silly. I just went to Amazon.com and one of the spotlight reviewers wrote this:

"This book is beyond five stars, and not just for business, where it is receiving all the praise it is due, but within government, where it has not yet been noticed. It was recommended to me by the author of "Building a Knowledge-Driven Organization," and I now recommend it to everyone I know. If there are two books that can "change the world," these are the ones."

And he did a very good job of condensing it:

There are perhaps three bottom lines in this book that I would recommend to any government leader who hopes to stabilize and reconstruct our world:

  1. Information is what defines who we are, what we can become, what we can perceive, what we are capable of achieving. Blocking or controlling information flows stunts our growth and virtually assures defeat if not death. It is the optimization of listening--being open to *all* information (and especially all the information the secret world now ignores)--that optimizes our ability to adjust, evolve, and grow.
  2. Command & control is history, block and wire diagrams are history. General Al Gray had it right in the 1990's when he talked about "commander's intent" as the baseline. Leaders today need to be disruptive, to look for dissonant views and news, and to empower all individuals at all levels with both information, and the authority to act on that information.
  3. Disorder is an *opportunity*. We have the power to define ourselves, our "opponents," and our circumstances in ways that can either inspire protective, constricted, secretive, "armed" responses, or inclusive, open, sharing "pro-active" peaceful responses. 

 

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Jeff:  I can relate to Bryant.  What I did get from the post is change is good and it's great that we can all express our opinions on AR there is no right or wrong. 
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AVA... thank you for making the effort to make sense of it! Yes. You nailed it. The disturbances of individual personalities, comments, and ideas that may be divergent from ours is what makes us grow.
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My translation: Change is good, creativity is priceless, everyone can contribute equally.  Your business is not a machine you need to oil but a puppy you should enjoy playing with at the park.  Let it romp.

Obviously my real world is "fuzzy", too.  Made perfect sense to me, although I don't know if I got out of it what you meant to put in, Jeff! 

12:18pm • #6
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Jeff - I read this all the way through, and will have to read it again. I did get out of it that even when we think something isn't working, it may well be, and to embrace change.  What seems like chaos can be good, because it brings about change.  Did I get that?

This deserves another read-through, and perhaps another and another and........

Ann

12:55pm • #7
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Jeff, I only differ on one point!  Active Rain feels like it is working, even though new clients are not beating my door in!  I have learned so many different views on real estate and business, particularly Internet business which I can apply to my clients' interests and to my own. 

My own interests have benefited to the extreme.  I have 'messed' with blogging since it began.  But, I had a difficult time staying interested.  A network has helped me overcome that and led to a drive to WRITE.

I'm glad I had a few years of Internet chats and forums to apply when digesting the divergent ideas.  What makes me feel really grown up is when I read a post and some comments that I feel are so good I don't want to break the spell by adding more that isn't real contribution.  Self just says, "Leave that alone so others can see it."

Thanks for telling us of your personal tangible experience with the founders and operators -- they do so much that in the hinterlands we wonder if they are real!

Edited: Double Laura's question about another puzzle.

 

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Good Lord, Jeff, this is B-school stuff!  You better be careful, you'll be on TV soon.

I think the key component of your article is the power of the relationship. I may be reaching here but the relationships are the subatomic particles and Active Rain is the  fission  which causes the HUGE explosion.

You and Bryant are far too smart for this simple debt purveyor.  I read Friedman, you two read Aquinas and Newton. 

1:09pm • #9
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Jeff~ My interest on AR is on a multitude of levels, and all of them are working quite well! The synergy here is does work even with the "disturbances" you mention, as we can all learn and grow from it all. P.S. This one was deep...when is the next cross-word puzzle...? :)

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{SVW} Hubba...

Okay I am done reading this for the third time.

I just want you to know you turned my brain into mush :)

It's that whole genius thing you have going on. SVW.

I only banged my head against the wall a couple of times this time around. I'm getting better at this :)

Do you have a band aid?...My head is bleeding :)

 

 

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Great follow-up posts. I have NOT read this book but it is now on the list.

Jeff

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Jeff - my favorite book of all time is "The Dance of the Wu Li Masters". I love quantum physics and I have read this book twice with notes sometimes obscuring the typed pages.

For me, what your are saying is each individual reading, posting, commenting, in this space, are electrons bouncing off each other, creating something new because of the act itself. The relationships come from the bouncing, twirling, merging, mending, blending, and moments defined by each interaction, therefor growing and defining itself as it changes.

It is like double jump rope; 2 people are holding 2 ends of 2 ropes and twirling them around like an egg beater...the jumper is watching, waiting to decide which combination of the 2 ropes will let her in without stopping the ropes and her turn as well. When successfully entered, the jumper will jump, count, play, sing songs, and so on while others are watching on. She will continue until she stops the rope either by stepping on it or it hitting her and stops. Then she is out and the next jumper stands near the newly twirling ropes looking for just the right moment. 

For me, reading the title of the posts let me know if it is a good opportunity for me to jump in safely and double jump rope. Sometimes just by a word that sounds like legal stuff, I pass and go on to the next until I find an opportunity to enter...it has all the signs of good timing for me, and jump. Everybody jumps differently but we are all about jump roping until we get tired of playing jump rope.

Quantum Physics as I understand it, realizes that the observer is as much a part of the experiment as any other part and therefore must be considered an influence in the results themselves. Am I close? Change the observer, change the results. All are dancing in the rain.

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Jeff... I think I get it... I will also have to re-read..more then once. This community is very open about differing opinions and topics.. We may not all agree but we have no fear in bringing up issues that are uncomfortable in other parts of the real estate world.  The opinions expressed are often divergent from  mainstream thought but can be very compelling. They may not change my basic thoughts but will certainly influence me in ways I may not have anticipated.

I missed meeting almost everyone in LB yesterday..Next time for sure!! I had to meet a client and give blood.. and for once the two were not connected...

K

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Jeff, taking this further than ActiveRain - open information and dialogue is also what is going to keep agents successful in the real estate business in the future. It's not withholding data, or doling it out - it's helping to interpret it for each individual with their own needs and perspective.  The books sounds like a good read - there go another several hours!
2:43pm • #15
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Jeff,

Relationships are the invisible energy that holds everything together and gives it identity.

So true and without relationships, Active Rain or any other organization is nothing.

"What endures is process - dynamic, adaptive, creative."

I always have believed in this philosphy, relating it to the place where I live, the Ocean. The tides change daily, "dynamic, adaptive, creative". Yet the ocean is always there. The process is movement, the result is tangible.

Your blog reminds me of a business model called "Action Learning", used for organizations around the world.

I'm glad someone found their voice here on Active Rain:)

2:51pm • #16
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Jeff,

Great post as usual.  I appreciate the book suggestion, it's on my list for the next purchase at Amazon...We really need a book section on Active Rain, with blog reviews...anyway, thanks again.

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Wow..Jeff,

After sitting ALL day in a seminar today...I'm pretty brain dead to begin with and this is the second Blog I've read since coming home. Now I'm really numb...LOL. I think I get it and if I do...I love to watch and see what  goes on ...I love the open info and even if I don't jump in at times...I'm still gaining. Okay now...how did I do?

Simple is all I can muster after the day I've had. 

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It's been a tough day for me and even tougher after I read your post.  I definitely will need to reread it but need a cup of coffee first to keep me alert.
5:42pm • #19
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I think you should use your Real Estate show to depict what you are trying to say with pictures.

LOL

Jay 

6:04pm • #20
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Aha!  Another Uncle Milt junkie (Mario Levesque)
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JAY!!!!!!!!!----------->ROFLOL  ROFLOL!!!!!!  & TRDC (tears running down cheeks)

Now Jeff,  the gist of what  i believe you mean to convey to us in "urban lingo" could be this: 

"THE FOLKS AT ACTIVE RAIN ARE EMBRACING CHANGE IN DIFFERING VARIANTS, CAUSING THEM TO COLLECTIVELY CATAPULT ONTO DEPTHS AND HEIGHTS TRANSCENDING THE CONFORMS OF INGESTED INTELLECTUAL HORIZONS, PRODUCING CATASTROPHIC OUTPOURS OF CONTRIBUTABLE SUCCESSES TO THEIR INDUSTRY THAT HAVE BEEN FOUND TO EXCEED VALITITY"

Now, prior to these changes, one must be in PREPARATION in order to achieve what's quoted above.

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paradigm shifts are possible it is the change most are resistent to ...would have loved to hear this session you all attended.
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I wish we could predict what people will or won't do. It would be nice to have a heads up. Just like the sciene: you can either know where they are or how fast they are going, but you can't know both.
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This was one of the most insightful posts I have read to date.  I am amazed how some organizations and the membership are so secretive and afraid of change.  Have we become a disfunctional family? 

Although, these organizations won't admit it, they resist change and seek the status quo. Perhaps AR will help change these organizations by changing their members -- in this way we truly will respond to the consumer and their needs.  When we stay in the comfort zone of the status quo and do not dare to go outside -- when we stifle different business models and are not open to new ways of looking at the real estate world - we will not move forward.  It seems that many have become so consumed with cya that they have forgotten about the buyers and sellers and their objectives. 

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The wonderful thing about the times we live in is that people are free to do and be what they wish and they are able to connect with others that have same philosophy and ideas in way that has never been seen in history.

We are able to communicate in places that either accept us or dont but we are not limited by the physical surroundings of the moment. What an amazing and exciting time to be alive! Just imagine the possibilities....

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Everyone... thank you for not stopping when you saw how excruciatingly long this post was. I needed to write it.

I can't begin to respond to all of the comments, but I wanted to put the thee other book recommendations from the comments above into  a list for you:

The Dancing Wu Li Masters: An Overview of the New Physics - Suggested by Sheron Cardin

Books On Action Learning - Suggested by Karen Hurst 

Free To Choose: A Personal StatementSuggested by Mario Levesque

 

And Jay... I'll take that challenge to create a Show that illustrates the beauty and power of open systems. Consider this "The stream has an impressive ability to adapt, to change the configurations, to let the power shift, to create new structures. But behind this adaptability, making it all happen, I think, is the water's need to flow." - Margaret Wheatley 

10:56pm • #27
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Jay... here you go.

Play The Real Estate Show

1:50am • #29

Jeff, You shoulda just put the show up.  We could have avoided all of these comments and questions.  After you watch it you realize there really isn't much more to add.  The show really was quite exhaustive in its explanation. It's all about the flow. ;)

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Simple and beautiful.  Love it.
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Jeff, I knew you could pull it off. What a great show the music was perfect.

Monika and I are  water lovers.  As we watch the flow of water it is always changing the earth we live on.  If we as people don't change and go with the flow where will we be when our piers and clients are changing along with the flow? Will we be left behind like the small pebbles that get tossed aside by the rushing water. Or will we be like the salmon trying to fight upstream to survive. 

I am sure a lot of people avoid going with the flow and are very succesful but in this instance changing with the flow is good. As we move through life change is everywhere. Change is usually for the better.

We as real estate professionals change the landscape daily. We help our clients buy parcels of land that will change the way we live. Both in residential and commercial real estate. 

Communication has changed the way we live too. Just picture a mere 25 years ago. The fax machine was just coming into vogue with thermal paper. Cell phones were costing $1500.00 and only the wealthy had them.

Here is a view I have of the real estate industry in general. One of my first posts.

Thanks Jeff for all your efforts and contributions to AR.

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{SVW} Hubba...

That show was a wonderful form of self expression.

Thank you for sharing that with us.

I enjoyed it.

TLW...ROAR!

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Jeff - you are the master of goosebumps! The video was just beautiful. Is that what you do?
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Jonathon, that's the problem with a brain dump... if your brain is confused... well, you get the point. :)

Sarah & TLW [SVW]... thank you!

Sheron, yes, I make goosebumps for a living. :)

Jay, change is unavoidable and necessary. The "equilibrium" we so desperately look for is called death. Thank you for pointing me to your real estate industry post. 

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OMG  JEFF - That video was breathtaking!!!!!!  I'm sure we get the "BIG PICTURE"  now..... 

BTW i want to retract my previous comments!  I sense it went over like a "thud"

( it was meant to bring a little humor to the way i depicted those who were trying to grasp the full understanding of your articulately meticulous article) 

I pray i did not offend anyone.....written verbalization can easily get misinterpreted! 

JEFF i hope you KNOW by now that i am a HUGE FAN of yours and appreciate not only your contributions, but your wisdom, your stance, your unselfish tireless amount of sharing, and your FULL SERVICE to ALL OF OF HERE ON ACTIVE RAIN!!!

roses

I know i am an "excitable and very expressive kind of person"....if i rubbed someone the wrong way, i'd like to hear about it so i can straighten up!!!  Please email me......also know that i will write to "Dear Teresa" for a little help......(uh oh...here we go)......y'all just pray for me, OK?

I APOLOGIZE IN ADVANCE TO EVERYONE WHO MAY HAVE  MISUNDERSTOOD MY FIRST COMMENTS !

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Diane, I loved your comments! :)
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ya did??????  oh silly me over reacting again....must be my urban upbringing

(one had to be quick to "watch ya back" in the ghetto if one wanted to stay alive!) lol

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Diane - I know this is Jeff's post but I have to cut in here and tell you that you are the ENTERTAINER OF THE DAY! winner. Hugs
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((((((((((SHERON))))))))) !!!!!  Girl, you helped me!....i was a bit worried....thanks for all the L U V!
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got nuthin' but love for ya baby
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This is a luvin place!!!! Jeff I love your slide show!!! Diane...you rock keep it up!
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awwwwwwwwww!!!!  blush blush......keep it coming ........
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Jeff, The show was truly awesome. Now I get it! Very well done.

Diane, You can "express yourself" around me anyday:) Being yourself is what life is all about. And of course, respecting other's right to do the same. And you did both. 

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awwwwww Bryant, & Monika, and Sheron, & Jeff......y'all gonna have me "jes a sniffin" in the rain.... guess that attests that  Active Rain REALLY IS working!
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Jeff,

Well you already know that I think you are the AR MAN!  This post just sealed the deal.  Great post Jeff.

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Thanks, Ray.

"My continuing passion is to part a curtain,
that invisible shadow that falls between people,
the veil of indifference to each other's perspective,
each other's wonder,
each other's human plight."

- Eudora Welty

6:45pm • #47
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Jeff,

I know this may seem off topic, but it's really not.  What just enthralls me about quantum physics is the "quark". It moves with your thought.  As you study it, it studies you.  How enthralling.  The quark is the smallest (to date) structure found.  Of course special instruments are needed to observe, but none the less the revelation is just remarkable.  It changes the way we think of the universe, man and our relationships to each other.

Enter a room and you change the dynamics forever without saying a word.  To me that's what is wonderful about AR.

I'm out to buy the book.

Great post.  You always teach me. :)

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You're gonna love it, Roberta. Guaranteed!
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Jeff,

Thanks for the post. Terrific analysis. I can truly appreciate the process of acclimating to change, especially here at AR and in general, when I see it in relationship to your analogy. Stepping outside of my comfort zone to be challenged to grow and using the open organizational concept, when seeking to initiate change within an organization. This should be the preface to all development updates on localism and activerain.

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:) William... comfort zones are for thermostats to control. 
1:00pm • #51
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Jeff,

I couldn't agree more with what you said to William.  Some of the old edicts are so true and becoming even more true as we understand ourselves and our universe.  "As I think so am I.' "As a man thinkest so he is." "Where you put your mind so you too will be."  I guess I could go on but I won't.  What I'm trying to point up here is that AR will be as the majority wants it to be.  All the Do's and Don't in the world won't make that happen.  It's where our mind is about AR that makes it what the majority wants it to be.  Just my opinion and it's worth what you paid for it. :)

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"To my mind there must be, at the bottom of it all, not an equation, but an utterly simple idea. And to me that idea, when we finally discover it, will be so compelling, so inevitable, that we will say to one another, "Oh, how beautiful. How could it have been otherwise?"

- John Archibald Wheeler 

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"He taught with enthusiasm, inspiration, and imagination."

Just making sure you knew that I read it :)

TLW...ROAR!

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:) I knew you would.
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I just left a listing appointment.  The woman had tears in her eyes that someone cared enough to really help them and figure them out. I think the bottom line is, you didn't feel like the guy cared a rat's ass about you and your family.  Not even enough to know when you were actually moving.

 

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I remember when in the midst of my metaphysical training that our greatest hope would be that science and religion would somehow meet in the middle and become mainstream. Sometimes it felt like it would take a miracle. Now Oprah has splattered its' evidence to the mainstream. I am watching Oprah this week with a panel of The Secret Trainers telling the world what I used to listen to in church 34 years ago as an outcast of society. The world can change completely in a split second. That is what I know.
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Jeff T,

I so do agree with what you just wrote.  Thank you for saying it.

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Ardell, this time you nailed it. :)

Sheron, that is the beauty of the world. It is ever changing.

Robeta, I need to hear it too! I forget. And then, something happens to make me remember. I'm saying it to remember.

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Jeff,

I do that too. It does help doesn't it? :)

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Yes it does! :)
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It's amazing how much we want to cling to something stable when in reality we have very little control over anything. We certainly can't predict how other people will act, and their actions are going to impact us. We have to be constantly adapting. I guess it's less tiring when we let go and just roll with it.

Lisa Hill

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I need to rewrite this.

5:16pm • #64
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Why not just copy and paste it as a new post? :)

6:35pm • #65

Or delete it.

Jeff Turner
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