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December Day 18 - Putting yourself last and other first

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Managing Real Estate Broker with NCS Premier Real Estate Michigan Broker

The key to real joy is really putting yourself last and others first.

When you're doing something, is it for your gain or to really help someone else?  What is the real benefit of doing what you do and why you're doing it?  That is a question we really should be thinking when we are doing for others and for ourselves.

I've seen too many people only thinking about themselves, when it comes to their work, their home, and even others.  Some people have one motive, "What's in it for me?" That really boils down to a selfish person only thinking about themselves and not really caring for what happens to others.  They're the person, who stays sick, always complaining, nothing goes right no matter what they do or say.

Get out of the negative pool and step into the Pool of Joy!  It's a great way to get stress off of your life and you will be helping those around you in a mighty way.

When we really focus on others, you'll find that all your things will get straightened out in the midst of you doing for others.

My Dad always told me that if you live by the "Golden Rule" good will always come your way, and if you help someone make their dreams come true, then so will yours.

Go out and find someone to help.  Give a good cheer and a great deed, you will feel bless.

Just always remember that to get real JOY -  Put Jesus first, Others second, Yourself last.

 

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Graziella Bruner

NCS Premier Real Estate
Managing Broker

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Comments (4)

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Graziella, I was taught the same ... live by the "Golden Rule." Giving and helping others does create a level of joy and happiness.  For me personally, I must be mindful of those I help.

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Dec 20, 2013 12:45 AM
Graziella Bruner
NCS Premier Real Estate - Detroit, MI
Associate Broker - Serving Wayne & Oakland County

Hello Kathleen;

I do understand, there's just some people who don't want our help and then there are those you have to be careful in helping, (Lechers) - Because those are the ones who are always looking (expecting) for your help, instead of trying to help themselves.

Dec 20, 2013 12:53 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Graziella, Very well put. Especially When we really focus on others, you'll find that all your things will get straightened out in the midst of you doing for others.

I just stopped by to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas!

Dec 20, 2013 04:07 AM
Graziella Bruner
NCS Premier Real Estate - Detroit, MI
Associate Broker - Serving Wayne & Oakland County
Thank you Connie Harvey, wish you the best and Merriest Christmas as well.
Dec 20, 2013 04:18 AM