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Asking is the Beginning

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Asking is the Beginning

“Asking is the beginning of receiving. Make sure you don’t

go to the ocean with a teaspoon. At least take a bucket

so the kids won’t laugh at you.”

Jim Rohn 1930 - 2009, American Entrepreneur,

Author and Motivational Speaker

 

As I see it . . . . . . .

 

Asking is the beginning

 

People are not mind readers . . . . and they can’t read your mind.

 

If you want something you’re going to have to ask for it. In essences asking is the beginning of receiving.

 

On a listing appointment . . . . you have to ask for the listing . . . .

 

When your working with a buyer . . . . your going to have to ask for the sale . . . . and you may have to ask more than once.

 

Let me share a story with you that happen a few years ago.

 

In meeting the customer for the first time I wanted get some back ground information about their needs and wants in their new home. Also I wanted to qualify their ability to purchase their new home and their urgency in buying.

 

The qualifying process went very well and they shared the information that I needed to help them to buy a new home. In that process I discovered that they had been looking for a home for some time . . . . the amount of time  seemed out of the norm for the buyers in the market.

 

As a nature follow up to their comments about the time they have spent in looking for a new home . . . . I asked them “during that time did you see any homes that your where sorry that you didn’t buy?”

 

The answer was a resounding YES . . .

 

I followed with “why did you make the decision not to buy the home?” They responded with no one asked us to buy.

 

The story is sad but . . . . true.

 

Nothing happens until you ask . . . . Asking in the beginning. That beginning can result in a referral . . . . a sale . . . . a listing . . . . or taking the  next step in the sales process.

 

©2014 Lou Ludwig Motivational Power Quote, Sales and Management Consultant, Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Lou, our job is to be of service and that requires asking the hard questions! Enjoy your day!

Jan 12, 2014 08:39 PM
Broker Patty Da Silva Da Silva
Green Realty Properties® - 954-667-7253 - Cooper City, FL
Top Listing Broker

This is so true Lou. The mistake that agents make during the first call is not asking for an appointment.

Jan 13, 2014 01:32 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

"Ask and thy shall receive."

I was told that for years growing up.

Jan 13, 2014 06:19 AM
Eric Crane -- Your Full Service, Discount Fee Realtor®
DPR Realty LLC - Gilbert, AZ
Greater Metro Phoenix Arizona

thanks for sharing the story -- it is true, that you might get told 'no' a lot, but you might also hear 'yes' a lot more than one imagines

Jan 13, 2014 02:29 PM
John Meussner
Mortgages in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, GA, IN, MD, MN, MT, NC, NJ, NV, OK, OR, PA, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VA, WI - Fair Oaks, CA
#MortgageMadeEasy Fair Oaks, CA 484-680-4852

Great story & points Lou.  We shouldn't expect anyone to know what we want unless we ask!

Jan 15, 2014 05:00 AM