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Things that make you go hmm… I am on my soapbox

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Real Estate Agent with The Laurie Satushek Team DRE 103821 NWMLS 81640

Things that make you go hmm…? On my soapbox!

‘Sorry, I’m just always late.’

‘Sorry, I didn’t see your email.’

‘Sorry, I forgot about our appointment.’

‘Sorry, I’m not finished yet.’

 Communication.jpg is key to your success AND reputation!

 

We’ve all heard all those excuses before; but in this day and age, there are NO EXCUSES for being late, missing an email or forgetting an appointment. You can’t be sorry for something that you do over and over again. 

You don’t even have to be techy to use some tools to make sure that you are not ‘one of those people’. This idea came to me as I sat waiting for an appointment I had with another agent. I waited for 20 minutes without any communication. I was thinking about all the things I could have done with the extra 20 minutes… extra sleep, a walk, call a friend, balance my checkbook, hey, even write a blog!

I have four particular rules that come to my mind, whether it’s real estate, family, friends, volunteer work or any other appointments:

Rule #1: Be on Time!

My first example is about being on time. Why is okay for folks to say “Sorry, I’m just always late”? Huh? What? Really? You’re just always late? Then set an earlier alarm. If you know that you’re’ always late’, start earlier. Your time is no more valuable than anyone else’s time. I will never waste your time or make your day longer waiting for me!

I promise, if we have a meeting that I will not be late (unless there’s an emergency, and if there is, I promise to communicate with you).

Set an alarm (extra early), do something to change this nasty late habit! Not sure how long it takes to get somewhere? Google it! There is no excuse for non-emergency tardiness!

 

Rule #2: Answer Every Single Email!

My second pet-peeve is regarding email communication. The other day I needed to turn in some paperwork via email. I called the person and he gave me his email over the phone. I emailed the paperwork and… nothing. No reply, nothing, no… “I got it, thank you,” which would literally take about 30 seconds to write.

So I’m left wondering, did he get my email? Should I email and ask him? Should I call him to follow-up? Even if it is a simple, “I will get back to you” or “Got it” or “Thank you”. Email something so they know you got it, it is two-way communication and it’s the polite (and right) thing to do!

How do I make sure that no email gets through my inbox without a reply? I use a flagging (or starring) tool, every email that comes into my inbox is flagged until I reply or finish the item. Most email programs have some kind-of rule’s or filters that you can set to make sure that you start organizing and replying to all emails!

One last thing... as a realtor, I recommend you check your junk mail every single day.

 

Rule #3: Add Appointments to a Calendar!

My third thought for this communication blog is about using a calendar. How many people have told you that they forgot about the meeting or your party or that they promised to help you?

Every single time you make a promise or an appointment, add it to you calendar! Whether it’s a paper calendar or a web based calendar. And set-aside 5 minutes every morning to look it over. Or maybe you could have your web-based calendar send you reminders via email, text or pop-ups. There are many internet based, free calendars that you can use. There is no excuse to forgetting appointments.

 

Rule #4: Complete Tasks on Time!

Hey, if you have to do the assignment or task anyway—why not do it on time? Completing tasks on time saves you stress, time and even money. Why not complete on time and look good instead of turning it in late, getting less credit and looking bad. We all have tasks that we don’t like to do, but if it has to be done anyway… do it on time.  A perfect example is with real estate transactions!  Add the earnest money check due date, inspection response due date and any other due dates to your calendar so that you don’t forget important deadlines.

 

Tools of the trade!

People often ask me what I use to help me stay organized and on top of tasks.

·       Map It: If I don’t know how long it will take to get somewhere I map it (online) and add 15 min (or so depending how far away it is), I work really hard to make sure I leave on time!  If I ever have an emergency, I communicate my reason and approximate delay.

·       Calendar:  I like Gmail, only because it is online and easily shared with a group.  It is also compatible with other applications like Outlook or iCal. I can also customize my reminders.

·       To Do List: I use the free Nozbe account (but there are many great apps to choose from) because it adds my list to my Gmail calendar and helps to keep me task-oriented and reminded of things that are due.  Nozbe also allows repeated events, for daily, weekly, or monthly tasks. I usually put tasks a day or two ahead of the due date so that I give myself time to complete them ON TIME.

·       Email: I have many email accounts.  I use Gmail and added filters to ALL my outgoing AND incoming emails so that they are starred.  I only clear the star if I rec’d the response or answered the request on my end.  I also have used Outlook and had ‘rules’ for emails as above.

Written by Heather Stevenson

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Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I'm smiling at Elizabeth's #13 comment.  I will say however, that being late, especially habitually late, is an off the charts annoyance for me. 

Feb 08, 2014 06:26 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

I am an on-time person.  When I get to a 6am yoga class, I don't appreciate it when the instructor says, "let's just wait a few minutes for the latecomers to arrive."

NOT!  If I could get up at 5:15 to get there on time and you can't, I shouldn't have to wait on you.  But I see this all the time and not just at an early yoga class.

Feb 08, 2014 07:42 AM
Peter Pfann @ eXp Realty Pfanntastic Properties in Victoria, Since 1986.
eXp Realty, Victoria BC www.pfanntastic.com - Victoria, BC
Talk To or Text Peter 250-213-9490

HI Ladies,

To be honest I am a bit of a freak about these type of things, and yes it annoys me to no end if and when somebody dis-respects me and or my efforts to be of assistance to others..

If you can't handle the common and appropriate business practices and courtesies, either get out of the rain or fix it, thanks.

Feb 08, 2014 07:44 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

Sometimes it's not your fault you are late.  There are things that happen out of the blue, like an accident in front of you.  Trains stopping traffic, even dual trains that hold up train tracks for extended periods of time, even though they are not suppose to. After saying that, being habitually late is another thing.  It is poor business practices, but to say flat out there is no excuse is not true, in my opinion.

Feb 08, 2014 10:07 AM
Laurie Satushek
The Laurie Satushek Team - Bellingham, WA
Realtor & Team Founder, Educate - Empower - Enrich

I agree Evelyn, that's why I sad non-emergency tardiness is rude. I totally agree there are good excuses but I would also say that I would hope to be notified if someone is going to be late (if possible). Obviously, if you are in a car accident on the way to an appt and were knocked on conscious then, you'd have a pretty darn good excuse not to call. :)

Feb 08, 2014 10:59 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I think I must be way more forgiving and patient than you.

Feb 08, 2014 12:19 PM
Rosie Crow
Serving Sugar Land, Richmond, Rosenberg, Missouri City - Sugar Land, TX
Exceeding Expectations. Delivering Results

I agree. Promptness and email/phone etiquette are important. It's important to return calls and emails, and if you are going to be late, let the other party know in advance rather than leaving them hanging.

Feb 08, 2014 12:31 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

 

Hi, Laurie,

 

What I have to say is that I agree totally with what you say although I that I am too often an offender. I hate being late even more that have people be late to meet with me. Yet…I will get wrapped up trying to finish something and let that get in the way of leaving on time in order to arrive on time. Sometimes I have to give myself a mental kick in the rear.

Feb 08, 2014 01:07 PM
Kim Norton
CREATIV Real Estate Solutions - Bentonville, AR
Selling Northwest Arkansas

Laurie,

AMEN SISTER!  7 years ago I received the incredible gift of attending Rapport Leadership International's Leadership Breakthrough 1 and Leadership Breakthrough 2.  Those 2 weekends radically and profoundly changed my life including but not limited to the way I handle my husband, family, friends, career and clients.  I learned if something is worth doing, it's worth doing well! Communication (constant and timely) is the foundation of any customer driven business.  If you arrive on time...you are late.  If you arrive 10 minutes early...you are on time.  When you respond to communication whether phone message, email, social media or text in a timely manner, it shows the person on the other end that they matter.  

Thanks for reminding me again today of the importance of quick, consice and constant communication!

 

Feb 08, 2014 01:19 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Laurie, these are basics for sure - and I must admit, I am guilty of one of these items at times, if not always. Just trying to change habits and getting better at it.

Feb 08, 2014 02:21 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

If you say nothing, sometimes it never gets done. I agree!

Feb 08, 2014 03:11 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I'm sure we all have rules to make us more efficient and effective. Being on time is one of my big pains. Seems everyone has an excuse in LA: traffic.

Feb 08, 2014 04:12 PM
Jack O'Neal
HomeSmart Elite Group - Gilbert, AZ

Laurie, great tips on staying organized and I agree that communication is huge, no matter what field you work in.  It is especially crucial for agents to be on top of communicating or else they won't earn the trust of their peers or their clients.

Feb 08, 2014 05:03 PM
Eve Alexander
Buyers Broker of Florida - Tampa, FL
Exclusively Representing ONLY Tampa Home Buyers

I like the blog because it comfirmed that I do good communication and if I can't, I leave no one wondering what happened...

Eve in Orlando

Feb 08, 2014 08:44 PM
Dennis Swartz
Full Circle Property Management - Columbus, OH
MBA, GRI...experience counts!

I agree. My own staff doesn't even email me back when I email them, and they work for me! Can you say thanks or I got it? Is that so hard?

Feb 08, 2014 09:17 PM
Scott Seaton Jr. SLS Home Insp
SLS Home Inspections-Kankakee Will Iroquois Grundy Counties - Bourbonnais, IL
The Home Inspector With a Heart!

You should read The One Thing by Gary Keller. Great book. 

 

Feb 08, 2014 09:50 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

A wonderful blog on being professional and courteous to those with whom we interact.

Feb 08, 2014 10:18 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Laurie, I think a hearty "AMEN" would be appropriate for this one. You really hit on a few pet peeves that a lot of us share.

Feb 08, 2014 10:54 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

I have a tenant now who is sorry every-time the rent is late...Why not skip sorry and just pay the rent?

Feb 08, 2014 11:30 PM
Marnie Matarese
DWELL REAL ESTATE - Sarasota, FL
Showing you the best of Sarasota!

Pretty sad when we can no longer count on professionals to be professional.  And the chronic offenders always act as if it is the first time they have made the mistake!

Feb 09, 2014 11:17 AM