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My Favorite Client - Millennial Woman - First Time Home Buyer

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Real Estate Agent with Platinum Realty SP00229578 2007027091

Trying to choose only one person from this sociological group was not easy but we're going with Suzie because we had so much fun together. (Suzie is not her real name as this was a recent transaction and we want to protect her identity.)

Suzie, like all Millennials I've met, called me after doing her research online. She had questions. Lots of questions. Intelligent questions. After our conversation, I sent her my Buyer Slide-show, pdf on the Buying Process, pertinent MLS stats, a Username and Password for access to my professional home search site, copy of the Buyer Agency Agreement to read, contact info for a reputable local lender, and some other information via email. Once she'd digested all of the material I sent her and integrated it with the information she'd gotten from other sources, she called back to say she had her Pre-Approval Letter and was ready to meet IRL. 

Our initial consultation lasted nearly 2 hours. This is not unusual for people who have a lot of questions. My niece was born in the 90's and some of my clients remind me of her in the way they request and process information. Some may process faster than others but all seem to need to have a good overall understanding of what's going to happen before moving forward. A little bit of silence as they process doesn't hurt either.  I'm good with that. I'm comfortable in silence and I believe well-informed people are capable of making wise decisions.  

Once we'd formulated our plan of action from the office, we scheduled a showing trip for the following day. She was on time and ready to go! As we went through each home, I would point out anything I saw as far as condition and value; she'd voice what she liked and didn't like and write it down in her notepad. There is nothing like witnessing someone's honest, unfiltered reaction to a home.

Touring homes, as you know, is emotionally draining for the buyer. By the time we had seen all of the homes scheduled for that day, she had worked up an appetite so we decided to get some lunch. The meals are probably what did it for me. We each knew of restaurants that the other had not been to so every showing trip included a gastronomic experience. As thin as she is, you wouldn't think that she could eat as much as she does. (I remember that metabolism!) Allowing for her vacation and only going out once or twice a week, it took us a couple of months to find the right house and negotiate a good deal for her first home so we had several good meals together. 

When it came time for writing the offer and negotiating, there were a few tough moments. Suzie did great though! She called me anytime she felt apprehension getting the better of her and we'd talk it out. Most of the time, these were things we'd already gone over so as soon as I'd say one word, she'd say "Oh yeah! I remember now!" Sometimes, Suzie would have a remodeling idea for her new home so she'd call and I'd share with her different ways she might do such a thing. One day we stopped by my house to pick something up so she got to see the pergola my brother and I were building. (It's not real fancy but Mom uses it for her Stroke recovery exercises so it serves it's purpose and doesn't look half-bad.) Naturally, she had questions and suggestions and it gave her even more ideas for her new back yard.--

Best part of this transaction? Suzie and I still meet for lunch occasionally. 

What did I learn from this experience? I enjoy being around bright young people with loads of energy. And I can learn from them. Technologically, I'm smarter than the average bear but I remember the time when it took a whole room to hold a computer. I share information about real estate and life but, if I listen, these people who've grown up with smartphones in their pockets can teach me things I do not know.  

Also see My Favorite Client - The Marine - Military Relocation 

and My Favorite Client - Senior Citizen - Elders 

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Comments(7)

Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Maria,

We learn from all that we meet - if we take the time, as you did, to listen!

Feb 16, 2014 12:58 AM
Rekha Vyas
Keller Williams Realty of Brevard - Melbourne, FL

I love working with first time home buyers. They are well prepared and have plenty of questions. It is great that you took time to listen to and bond with your client.

Feb 16, 2014 03:03 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

That's a great experience from the young, bright buyer!  Relying on someone is very important, and I'm glad they had you!  Also nice that you have lunch even after the deal is done!  

Feb 16, 2014 04:09 AM
Diana Zaccaro Broker Associate
ZOOM Realty Group - Cocoa Beach, FL
"The Accidental Blogger" Cocoa Beach, Florida

Susie was lucky to be working with you and it sounds like you did a great job for her. Isn't it great to work with someone who is intelligent, informed and cooperative? The fact that you still meet for lunch speaks volumes about the relationship you formed.

 

Feb 20, 2014 01:49 PM
Regina P. Brown
MBA Broker Consultants - Carlsbad, CA
M.B.A., Broker, Instructor

It's very rewarding to work with first time homebuyers.  Learning is both ways.  The best part of working with buyers and sellers is when we build a good working relationship with them.

Feb 27, 2014 01:21 PM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

     The enthusiasm of Youth!   Congratulations on your new friend... "Suzie"
sounds like a fascinating individual.

Mar 08, 2014 08:14 AM
Petra Norris
Lakeland Real Estate Group, Inc. - Lakeland, FL
Realtor, Lakeland FL Homes for Sale

I think its a great achievement to work with first time buyer. Its soo much fun! You learn so much from them and vice versa. Great post here! 

May 04, 2014 05:09 PM