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THE REASON WHY YOU FAIL

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

There is always a story to cover up the real reason as to why something didn't go right or less than expected. We are the first to buy into it. If it is plausible, then fine. However, if it is a reoccurring event or you find yourself the main player every time, chances are YOU are the problem

ADMIT IT OR IT OWNS YOU

It is not easy to admit an error to another. To yourself it even takes some effort if you are a prideful person. That's why we come up with a story to tell ourselves or others as to why this happened and how. Those stories get better and better until they are put down

BRACE YOURSELF

At some point you will be introduced to a very special dynamic in your life that can change the outcome of every single thing you do or believe in. It is the best two words you could ever combine and it takes no prisoners too...Here it comes so hold to something

 

NO EXCUSES

I didn't lose control of my font or color preferences in case anyone is wondering about it. I am making a distinctive life changing point for those that wish to elevate into the high stakes game of living correctly and with purpose. No excuses when mastered allows one to soar and opens every door. It's that powerful!

SPECIAL NOTE

Some of you may have found yourself resenting these two words sort of like an intrusion into your storybook. That's exactly the effect these two little babies have. They go right to work and they really don't care what you think.

RUNNERS UP IN THE SHADOWS

Good intentions may not cut it in this world of DO or DO NOT. Well meaning doesn't score well either. Even your best effort may not be good enough when a specific result is required. This no prisoner type of thinking starting with yourself allows one to fine tune and hone their capabilities

COMMAND THYSELF

You see everyone has gifts, talents and abilities that are extra-ordinary but they employ them as ordinary thereby getting less than effective results or outcomes. You are not running on after burners but afterglow instead. One is full energy and the other is left over energy

CHECK LIST

Assess yourself. Are you spread out and hitting some or all targets but no bulls eyes? Hitting what you specifically aim at is the name of the game and whats on your score card in the end. Near miss or having a good time is only good for after dinner drink conversations. Pour me another?

WHAT TO DO? & WHAT NOT TO DO

Take stock, gather up your strengths, identify your weaknesses and then begin the process to fine tune one and subdue the other into productivity. I share the story of a poor hungry man who was trying to become a stage actor in the early 1900's and was just no good and as a result used to get fresh produce thrown at him every-time he performed. While he was working out his routine to become better, he ate many a thrown salad for dinner every evening. Good he thought. I know how to attract salad fixings...now onward to steak and potatoes.

GET GOOD AT GETTING GOOD

Learn from your mistakes. Learn from others. Realize you cannot make a gain without taken a risk. Stop playing it safe or hoping for the best. Wanting to make it happen will cause it to take place. If it doesn't come right away, that is the final test to see how bad you want it

Stay the course and it will be delivered unto you...unless of course you prefer to be excused?

David Shamansky
US Mortgages - David Shamansky - Highlands Ranch, CO
Creative, Aggressive & 560 FICO - OK, Colorado Mtg

I am in total agreement. I make mistakes, everyone makes mistakes. To be a person of character you admit your defeats or mistakes, Coming clean is FAR better than trying to cover up!

Mar 21, 2014 12:18 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hello David...yes to this point that you make...coming clean if said said slowly and deliberately is actually healing COMING CLEAN

Mar 22, 2014 12:08 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

 

LADIES & GENTLEMAN

We carry both the pain and the pleasure of the life journey. Once one learns how to navigate from within, we can steer towards more of the one and less of the other

Mar 22, 2014 12:11 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Richie, well said. Self-evaluation with a critical (but not condemning) eye takes a lot of strength, but I find that those who are realist with a healthy sense of self-worth want to have that evaluation. 

Jun 25, 2016 02:56 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hello Mike Cooper ...your comment stands tall & thank you Coop

Jun 25, 2016 04:15 AM