My guiding principles in life and business

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Real Estate Agent with Thompson Company, REALTORS® MD594797
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My personal principles - or Weltanschauung (a German word meaning world view and convictions) that guide me through everyday life are also how I conduct business. For me it is impossible to separate the two. In essence, I treat others the way I want to be treated and teach my children to do the same.

In no particular order here are the main points of my Weltanschauung:

1. Answer the phone with a smile: it's not only part of my blog signature, it is what I do. Whenever the phone rings, I take a deep breath to clear my mind from whatever it is I am doing, I smile and I answer the phone. I am ready to hear good news and bad, if it's the latter, I'm in a better frame of mind to handle it.  

Winding path2. Things are seldom what they appear on the surface: is a lesson I have learned on my personal journey as well as a over the last decade as a REALTOR®. There is always more to a story than first meets the eye. For that reason, we should never be quick to judge.

The driver who just cut in in front of you? He may have just received bad news and is trying to get to the hospital. The REALTOR® who didn't return my call may be in the middle of a family emergency. The neighbor who can't make eye contact and is rarely seen chatting with others, she may be a victim of domestic violence (Know the facts & spot the signs, NOMORE.org)

3. Be kind to others: random acts of kindness are very powerful, they can brighten someone's day, inspire and feed your own soul. Just think about how good it makes you feel when you are the bearer of good news, offer a helping hand or thank someone with flowers, chocolates or a personal note. Now imagine how good it makes them feel!

4. Pay it forward: have you been on the receiving end of a random act of kindness? Remember how it made you smile, warmed your heart or soothed your soul? Pay it forward. Kindness doesn't cost a dime but the rewards are priceless.

5. You can't be everything to everyone: make peace with that thought. It's impossible to please every person in your life. There will be conflicts and there are people who will rub you the wrong way. But you can still be respectful and agree to disagree.... don't be quick to judge, be kind and remember to smile!

How about you? What are your guiding principles in life and/or business? What is your Weltanschauung?

P.S.: Give me a call if you are wondering how to pronounce Weltanschauung ... I speak German!

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ANDREA BEDARD, M.A. ~ THOMPSON COMPANY, REALTORS ~

 

 

   

                                                                                                              

 

Thompson Company, REALTORS
15711 New Hampshire Ave Silver Spring, MD 20905
o: (301) 384-9177 c: (240)593-2860

andreabedard.re@gmail.com

Andrea is a REALTOR® based in Silver Spring, MD. She has enjoyed assisting buyers and sellers since 2004 and focuses on residential Real Estate in  Montgomery and Howard County, MD. Andrea is a proud mom and hobby decorator with a vintage soul. She always answers the phone with a smile, enjoys running and treasure hunting and is addicted to coffee.

 

 All photographs are my own and I'd like to keep it that way. All information is deemed reliable but not guaranteed.

 

 

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Catherine Ulrey
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Congrats on the entry!  Love your comment about answering the phone with a smile, it makes a huge difference!

Apr 04, 2014 09:25 AM #18
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Congratulations on your entry winning, I love your #2 and try to think the same way before passing judgment on others, such an important point.

Apr 04, 2014 09:55 AM #19
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Hello Andrea,

CONGRATULATIONS on your winning entry!

Wishing you and your girls a fabulous weekend!

Apr 04, 2014 09:57 AM #20
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Andrea Bedard
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Thank you Diane!

What a wonderful surprise Jennifer. I can only imagine how difficult it must have been to choose from all the entries. Thank you.

Thank you so much Geri and Congratulations to you, too!

Thank you Cathy.

Thank you for your support & encouragement Pamela.

It really does make a difference Catherine. Thank you!

I don't always succeed John but I try my best every day.

Thank you Lisa!!

Apr 04, 2014 10:03 AM #21
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Hey, Andrea!  Congratulations on being one of the top three!  Nice view of the world!

Apr 04, 2014 10:19 AM #22
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Congrats on being recognized as a winner in Pat's contest.  I can see why.

Apr 04, 2014 10:42 AM #23
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Congratulations to you.   I think you have outlined a pathway to a happy and productive life.

Apr 04, 2014 12:33 PM #24
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Congratulations, Andrea on a well deserved win for your philosophy in life and business. What matters most is 'Pay It Forward'!

Apr 04, 2014 02:01 PM #25
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Andrea, congratulations on a winning post.... well written and I believe in paying it forward as well.

Apr 04, 2014 02:05 PM #26
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Congratulations Andrea! You have put together some excellent ideas here.

Apr 04, 2014 03:36 PM #27
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Andrea,

Congratulations on your winning post!

You have very solid principles for life and business. Thanks for sharing!

Apr 04, 2014 05:48 PM #28
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Andrea, So proud of you and the way you set such good examples for your girls. Glad to know you. Thanks for the texts and phone calls. 

Apr 04, 2014 11:41 PM #29
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Lottie Kendall
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Andrea, you have great guiding principals. I especially like "answer the phone with a smile." So simple, yet not often practiced. Congratulations on the win.

Apr 05, 2014 12:12 AM #30
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Hi Andrea -  you have a wonderful Weltanschauung. :) Congratulations to you.

Apr 05, 2014 01:26 AM #31
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Andrea - Great job on this post! Congratulations on sharing such an awesome Weltanschauung.

Apr 05, 2014 03:21 AM #32
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Hi Andrea! This is beautifully written and very meaningful. Congratulation on being a winner. Just wonderful

Apr 05, 2014 06:39 AM #33
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Congratulations on winning for your personal Weltanschauung!

Apr 05, 2014 01:04 PM #34
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Andrea, number two is my personal favorite on your list. There is no way to know what others are going though, what someone else is thinking, or how they may react to a given situation. Great job!

Apr 05, 2014 04:05 PM #35
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Andrea Bedard
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Thank you Pat! And I am glad I finally got to meet you in person!

Thank you Chris Ann.

I am glad you think so Joan.

I agree Praful.

Thank you Rebecca. I know you do!

Thanks Tom.

Thank you Inna.

You are such an inspiration Margaret. I am so glad to know you!

It makes a big difference Lottie.

Thank you Debb.

Thanks Stacey.

Thank you Jane.

Thank you Evelyn.

Exactly Sharon. When something bad happens we quickly take it personally when, quite often, it has nothing to do with us..

Apr 08, 2014 12:27 PM #36
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Andrea, it is so important to answer your phone with a smile, and the caller can surely hear/see that.

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