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My Personal Weltanschauung, Guiding Principles and Philosophy

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with KD Realty - 408.972.1822 CA DRE#01366594

My Personal Weltanschauung, Guiding Principles and Philosophy

Patricia Kennedy challenged the AR community with writing our own weltanschauung for personal or business, using the Active Rain weltanschauung model as a guide.

When I see the word weltanschauung the first thing that comes to my mind is “What’s your thing?” It may sound silly, but it is nonetheless what comes to my mind.

To put this in perspective let’s look at Active Rain's weltanschauung:

Weltanschauung: the guiding principles and philosophy of an organization; a world view

My personal weltanschauung, guiding principles and philosophy; a world view

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1. Live by The Golden Rule.  “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12.  For me, this means living, being and doing things from my highest spiritual self. I am far from being a Saint. However, I do strive daily to live by The Golden Rule.   That said, I frequently fall when people lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, make promises they fail to keep, blame others for their mistakes, fail to be accountable for their own actions, are unkind/mean to others ....

2. Live Honestly. Be honest with myself and others.  Look honestly into my heart and soul and life my truth.

3. Live Authentically. To thine own self be true. Allow myself the freedom to be me. To live and speak my truth, and stand by it. For me, this means risking exposing my real self and being vulnerable in doing so. Many may not accept me and judge me. That's okay. I know I am not for everyone. I will not stand in another's judgment.  They may not know it but it's not their job to judge me nor is it my job to judge anyone. For me, there is a difference between disapproving one's behavior and judging the person.

4. Be Accountable. Own my mistakes and atone for them. This means making amends and/or restitution for my mistakes. No one should pay for of suffer from my mistakes of misgivings. A heartfelt apology goes a long way.

5. Be Responsible. Do what I say I am going to do when I say I am going to do it.

6. Be Patient. Trust the right things will happen in the right time and know that all is well. I need not push for things to happen when I want and/or expect them to happen.

7. Be compassionate. Have compassion for myself and others. We all stumble and fall. We truly can, and do, make honest mistakes.

8. Be Understanding.  Know that we are all in different places in life. Be willing to walk in someone else's shoes and accept that they are doing the best they can with the tools and resources they have.

9. Be Forgiving. Forgive myself and others. We all make mistakes. We all do things that hurt or disappoint others. Choosing to forgive and move on creates healing and restoration. It is okay to be upset, disappointed and perhaps even angry with situations and people. I speak my truth, forgive, let go and move on.

10. Live in Gratitude. Be grateful for all of the blessings, big and small. No matter what challenges life presents, find ways to be grateful and live with joy for all that is, and all that I perceive is not.  From my highest spiritual self, live from a place of knowing that all is well.

I am human. I falter on my personal weltanschauung every day. I am aware when I falter. I forgive myself, make corrections and move on. It's okay to migrate away from relationships with people that are toxic to me. I choose to surround myself with people who share my personal weltanschauung, guiding principles and philosophy. 

 

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Comments(42)

Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Another great post for Pat's contest.  Congrats on making the top three.

Apr 04, 2014 10:45 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Kathleen!  Congratulations of being one of our winners!  You did a wonderful job of articulating your world view!

Apr 04, 2014 11:24 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

Congratulations -- You ARE a winner.  I really could relate to this:

"I am aware when I falter. I forgive myself, make corrections and move on. It's okay to migrate away from relationships with people that are toxic to me. I choose to surround myself with people who share my personal weltanschauung, guiding principles and philosophy. "

Apr 04, 2014 12:30 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Congratulations, Kathleen - on a well deserved PLACE for your philosophy in life and business. And yes, I love all of them, specially #10! I am grateful for what I have - friends like you, ActiveRain and yes, my family and friends beyond my ActiveRain family.

Apr 04, 2014 02:00 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Kathleen, congratulations on a winning post...wonderfully written!

Apr 04, 2014 02:04 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

Powerful post Kathleen, loved reading it again. Congratulations!

Apr 04, 2014 03:34 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Kathleen,

Congratulations on your winning post!

You have very solid principles. Thanks for sharing!

Apr 04, 2014 05:47 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Well deserved winning post Kathleen.....excellent guiding principles and philosophy.

Apr 04, 2014 09:09 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

How did I miss this before? Great way to live your life, Kathleen. Congratulations on the win.

Apr 05, 2014 12:10 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Kathleen, Congratulations on a well written and well deserved win. 

Apr 05, 2014 12:18 AM
Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

Kathleen: I can see where you were one of three winners of this Activerain contest. Your "Weltanschauung" is truly inspirational and pretty much matches mine. 

Apr 05, 2014 12:37 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Hi Kathleen~ Well said. I really believe in being authentic. How can we really be anything else, but who we are? So many people try to be someone that they are not. Why?

Apr 05, 2014 01:13 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Congratulations Kathleen - your post is a good one and deserves the top 3 spot. It was a pleasure to read all of the entries in the March challenge.

Apr 05, 2014 01:24 AM
Stacey Williams
Alpharetta, GA
Experienced Metro Atlanta Real Estate Agent

Kathleen - Awesome job and so worth the read. Life is so much easier as yourself!

Apr 05, 2014 03:17 AM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

Great perspective on a philosophy of life. The journey we all travel is so much easier when lived by these principles. Congratulation, Kathleen. I have read many of your posts this past year, and yes, I recognize you in this winnin post.

Apr 05, 2014 06:28 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Thanks everyone for your comments and congratulations.  It was a surprise that is for certain. This community rocks!

Apr 05, 2014 06:53 AM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

Kathleen,  this is a list that should be posted on our mirrors and in our offices as a wonderful reminder.

Apr 05, 2014 04:00 PM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

congrats on the win and a very basic (and I mean this in a good way) statement that focus on universal values.

Apr 07, 2014 07:03 AM
The Villages Realty
The Villages Realty - San Jose, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Nice post , I hope some business flows your way as a result!

Jan 23, 2017 06:13 AM
Eagle Ridge Realty
Eagle Ridge Realty - Gilroy, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Kathleen, great post on an interesting topic.  Good luck with your business.

Jan 24, 2017 03:15 AM