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Why Sellers Shouldn't Be Present During Home Showings

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Real Estate Agent with Real Estate Brokers of Alaska 907-720-4663 17724

Why Sellers Shouldn't Be Present During Home Showings

Anchorage Real Estate 

 

This may sound like a no brainer but SELLERS SHOULD NOT BE PRESENT AT HOME SHOWINGS. Just the other day I was showing houses to one of my buyers and the seller was there. He was as helpful as could be and wanted to showcase the best aspects of the home, he was always within an ears length away in case we had any questions and he had such a cheerful demeanor... You would think that by him being there, my buyers would instantly jump at the thought of making an offer but NO!!! It was just the opposite.

The seller's presence set off a certain kind of vibe that made my buyer uncomfortable. And how can you blame him? He wanted to be able to look at the house with ease, take his time and maybe even critique some of the things about the home that he didn't like. How could he possibly do that with the seller right there? 

Just a few reasons why sellers shouldn't be present during showings:

1. Sellers tend to talk too much. This is understandable. They're excited! They want to tell you all about the new floors, marble countertops and heated garage.. oh, and don't forget the school right down the street that their children attended.  

 

2. The buyer(s) will feel awkward. Homebuyers want to envision themselves living in the house when they are house hunting. They want to be able to open closets, the pantry and yes, even the refrigerator. When the seller is present, buyers spend more time being cautious than actually exploring and enjoying the home showing. 

 

3. The buyer may want to critique or criticize some aspects of the home. With the seller there, the buyers feel more like they are invading someone's space than looking at their potential home. Buyers should be able to voice their opinions and concerns to their agents without feeling afraid that they may be huritng the seller's feelings.

 

As much as the seller loves the his/her home and wants to shout from the mountain tops how great the house is, it would be more advantageous to leave notes around the home pointing buyers to the wonderful details in the house. Once sellers put their house on the market, it's time to treat the house as a piece of real estate rather than a home that they are emotionally attached to. It's not always easy but it's important to keep the end goal in mind.  =)

 

Happy House Selling or House Hunting! 

Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Good afternoon Vanna,

It is like anything else you can make them useful with the right questions.

Make yourself a great day.

Apr 04, 2014 06:46 AM
Vanna Siackhasone
Real Estate Brokers of Alaska 907-720-4663 - Anchorage, AK
Anchorage Real Estate 907-720-4663

Good afternoon Raymond,

The right questions can help but if they have an agent representing them, I try not to overstep any boundaries. =) I have found that sometimes buyers can ask the right questions in order to get a good deal but 99% of the time, buyers prefer to look at the house in peace. =)

Apr 04, 2014 06:51 AM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

     Buyers don't want Sellers giving them explanations, apologies, or a sales pitch.  Get out of the house and get out of the way, please.    

Apr 04, 2014 01:04 PM
Vanna Siackhasone
Real Estate Brokers of Alaska 907-720-4663 - Anchorage, AK
Anchorage Real Estate 907-720-4663

Fred, that's true as well. Buyers want to be able to come up with their own opinions and thoughts regarding the house. 

Apr 05, 2014 02:39 AM
AJ Heidmann ~ CRS
McEnearney Associates, Inc. - Alexandria, VA
YOUR Alexandria & Arlington, VA Real Estate Expert

Vanna - Sellers think that they are being helpful, but as you said it is just too uncomfortable and buyers don't feel free to talk while in the home.  At a minimum, the seller should go onto a patio or garage so that the showing can be productive.

Apr 05, 2014 03:53 AM
Vanna Siackhasone
Real Estate Brokers of Alaska 907-720-4663 - Anchorage, AK
Anchorage Real Estate 907-720-4663

AJ, I agree that sellers think they are being helpful. =) 

Apr 08, 2014 03:09 AM
Claude Labbe
RLAH / @properties - Washington, DC
Realty for Your Busy Life

I've always instructed my sellers to get out...get out...get out.

Recently, a seller somehow was home early and the potential buyers were late, and so, everyone met.  After the showing, the seller was happy because the buyers just loved, loved the house.  All the things she showed them and told them worked well for them.  Good to know.

Until I followed up with the buyer agent, and it became clear.  The buyers didn't like the house, they had lots of issues with it.

Now, can I blame them? Would I have, as the buyer, told the owner I didn't like the home? No.

It made my giving that particular piece of showing feedback even more difficult.

Aug 23, 2014 03:42 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Sellers need to understand that vacating their house allows buyers to imagine the home as their own. Some sellers who lived in the house for a very long time are often too emotional about their homes and feel that the agent will not be able to provide all ''valuable'' information to visitors....but they should be reminded that next homeowners are looking to create their own memories in their next home. 

Sep 02, 2017 11:04 PM