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Home Selling Step 2 – Check Your Motivation

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage BRE#01732313

Time, Effort, RewardHow many times have I heard, "But we don't have to sell". A big move usually has origins in other life changes or transitions and can be daunting. The longer you’ve lived in the house, the harder it may be. It can be emotional and stressful. Are you prepared for what's ahead?

Real estate transactions run on time tables, and success in the market often is dependent up market conditions, seasonality of sales and other factors that you can’t control (interest rates for potential buyers for example).

  • Are you ready to let go of your attachment to the place and the memories and focus on what your new future looks like? 
  • Can you commit to a thinning out process, parting or storing excess stuff to allow your house to be the focal point?

Peer into the looking glass – imagine the new things that await you (a larger home for your growing family; a smaller home with less maintenance and lower mortgage payments, a shorter  commute, or better schools for the kids? Visualization will help you do the tough stuff.

Having a time table and a game plan will help you get things done effectively - your agent can help you plan this out. Involve all stakeholders in the process.  Make sure you've chosen an agent whose communication style matches your needs.  Ask them to keep you on task (if deadlines aren't your strong suit.)

Spend some time checking out your competition.  Look at open homes (or at the very least online) for houses in your neighborhood or expected price point. Which homes capture your attention and why?  If you were on the market today, how would your house measure up? Likely, that's what prospective buyers will be doing. This is where honest evaluation (yours and that of your agent) will serve you best. You don't want the market to give you the feedback after the fact.  

  • Will you invest the time, energy and or money to get your house ready for market?
  • Are you ready for potential buyers and their agents to interrupt your off-work time for showings, or are you agreeable to Broker’s Opens and Open Houses to make the property easy to show?
  • Have pets?  Do you have a plan for them to make the house easier to show?

Wrapping your head around the things you will need to do (or not do) to achieve your goals will result in less stress for everyone involved.

This post is Part 2 of a Series – 10 Steps To A Successful Home Sale. Read Part 1.

Anna Hatridge
R Gilliam Real Estate LLC - Farmington, MO
Missouri Realtor with R Gilliam Real Estate LLC

You touched on the most difficult thing sellers have to over-come: Emotional attachment. As their Realtor, I am going to sell their house-not their home. The tender care they have given their house will help the buyers make it their new home.

Apr 05, 2014 10:36 AM
Karen Crowson
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Rancho Bernardo, CA
Your Agent for Change

Anna, two similar words but with an important distinction.

Apr 05, 2014 10:43 AM
Laura Allen, Lake Tahoe - Truckee Real Estate for Sale TahoeLauraRealEstate.com
Coldwell Banker Realty, Tahoe City, CA (530) 414-1260 - Tahoe City, CA
Tahoe Real Estate Agent Helping Buyers and Sellers

Karen - Great post.  Selling a house is far different than selling a home. The process is always hard emotionally, but when it's over, it's great to see that seller smile!

Apr 05, 2014 12:55 PM
Karen Crowson
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Rancho Bernardo, CA
Your Agent for Change

Those moving for reasons of their own choosing, and with a positive bent are usually grinning ear to ear.

Apr 06, 2014 01:04 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

The "we don't have to sell" . . . and how many times have those words come back to haunt the sellers?  The market waits for no one, and I've seen sellers take their time, and then the market shifted.  What they could have gotten, they couldn't get in the shift.  And it does happen!  You impress me as the agent who understands both: markets AND emotions!

Apr 06, 2014 09:00 AM
Karen Crowson
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Rancho Bernardo, CA
Your Agent for Change

No kidding Carla. I have a couple of folks right now who are hoping the market waits for them. I hope it does, but no guarantees.

Apr 07, 2014 06:44 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Sellers who are not serious about selling should not list their homes. If it sits on the market for long buyers will wonder why it did not sell.

Apr 07, 2014 08:22 PM
American Brokers Realty Group
American Brokers Realty Group, Inc - Cape Coral, FL

I really don't know of a standard home.  Each one is unique wouldn't you say?

Apr 08, 2014 08:25 PM