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My First Real Estate Experience Felt Like I Signed my Life Away!

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Real Estate Agent with Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch!

My First Real Estate Experience Felt Like I Signed my Life Away!

My first real estate experience took place long before I even thought of the possibility of one day becoming a real estate agent.  In 1991, my husband and I were moving to a small town in Texas right along the Mexican border and we decided to buy our first home.

Key with house by digitalart freedigitalimages.comThis was long before cell phones and the Internet became a common household fixtures so there was no looking online for homes for sale.  We made an appointment with a nice real estate lady who had previously helped one of my husband's collegues - I now know that this is called a referral and it's the best compliment a happy customer can make!  

I don't remember too many of the details but she took us under her wings and guided us through the home buying process including obtaining a mortgage and taking us on home showings according to our ideas of what we wanted in our first home.

We may have looked at five or six or even more homes, again, after all that time, I don't even remember the actual first time we set foot into the home we finally purchased.  However, one particular home did stand out from the rest, not because it was exceptional in style and features but because it was tenant-occupied. 

This was the first time, I experienced first-hand that homes occupied with tenants who are not cooperative are going to be tough showing and selling.  A few young guys were living in this particular home and I remember it being cluttered and unkept, clothing strewn on the floor, one room couldn't be viewed at all because someone was still in bed or taking a shower during the scheduled showing time.  Needless to say, we didn't make an offer on one.

This particular tenant-occupied home may have been one of the reasons though, why we picked the home we did finally make an offer on.   Everything went well with the process until the VA inspector would not pass the roof, apparently, it had sustained some damage from a hail storm - not uncommon in Texas - and the hail had indented the shingles.  A hit a little snag along the way but our Realtor helped getting us back on track and we lucked out.  The seller's insurance covered the damage and our new home got a new roof before closing!

All in all, my first real estate experience was a positive one.  Nevertheless, when it came to closing time and we had to sign the loan and closing documents, it felt like I was signing my life away!  The sales price was $56,000 and I had never spent that much money in my life and I had never been in debt!  Now, I always remember that feeling when I go to closings with any of my buyers and especially first time home buyers! 

As I said, I don't remember too many of the details of the transaction such as inspections, appraisal, survey, paperwork, setting up utilities and all the many details which home buyers often don't realize need to be done.  Our Realtor was doing a great job for us! 

After the sale was done, we received a monthly home magazine from her full with topics and information around the home.  I definitely appreciated getting this magazine and was looking forward to each new issue - she stayed in touch.  We lived in our first home for a little more than four years before it was time to move on again.  Although I was unaware of the value of repeat business then, guess who we called when we were getting to list our home for sale!

 

 

Whether you are looking for your first home or your last home, please let me help you in your home buying process.  Call me at 352-584-7441 or email me and for information about homes for sale in Hernando County, Florida, including Spring Hill visit my website at www.SilviaDukes.com.

 

My First Real Estate Experience Felt Like I Signed my Life Away!

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Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate

Tropic Shores Realty, 3441 Deltona Blvd, Spring Hill, FL 34606

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Comments(44)

Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

You actually saw a successful practice in motion before you personally experienced it. That's a great model to have.

 

Apr 28, 2014 02:18 AM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

Great insightful post on your introduction to Real Estate, Silvia Dukes. I bet your weltanschauung has changed as you've become an experienced Realtor serving Hernando County, Florida. Keep up the regular posts with the Rain!

Apr 28, 2014 02:38 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Your first experience was with a true professionals right down to the follow-up after the sale. That was an excellent example to use as a model

Apr 28, 2014 04:09 AM
Bill Reddington
Re/max By The Sea - Destin, FL
Destin Florida Real Estate

I think Real Estate was a lot easier back then also. Think you had a great experience with a licensed professional. That is how it is supposed to be.

Apr 28, 2014 05:20 AM
Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

Silvia: How great that you found a true pro to take you in hand and make it a great experience. That is what we, who then go into real estate, aspire to. Happy clients.

Apr 28, 2014 06:01 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Joan, thanks, that is true.

Diana, to be honest, I'm not sure anymore whether a second agent was involved or not. 

Debbie, oh no! Glad you survived!  I think that it's only logical to do business with someone who has done a good job for you before.

Laura, don't we all! And we are the professionals, buyers and sellers do get overwhelmed sometimes.

Debbie, I'm glad it did!

Rod, that is really is a shame.

 

Apr 28, 2014 06:05 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Christine, it's good to sometimes have been in the same situations as our buyers and sellers are now.

Chris, thank you, I sure but I think in the course of moving several times, the original paperwork from this purchase did get thrown out at some time.

Tammy, you are right. Our first home was a nice 3/2/2 ranch with brick facade and a large yard.  What great price it was in retrospect!

Laura, I imagine no one ever forgets their first own home! 

Conrad, it sure does.  Thank you!

Gary, thank you and thanks for the reblog as well!

 

 

Apr 28, 2014 06:16 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Joe, thanks and same to you!

Kat, I have to agree!  As I was writing this, I realized what a professional our Realtor was!

Michael, very true!

Maria, I think it's unsettling even when you do it for the second or third time!  :-)

Joe, things were done a lot differently back then and they took longer as well!

Richie, thanks!  :-)

Joan, probably not!  It seems every year there is more and more paperwork, disclosures, addenda, and who-knows-what!

Doug, believe it or not, but it was Del Rio, Texas!  Three hour drive to San Antonio and five minutes to Mexico!  Small world!  

 

 

Apr 28, 2014 06:21 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Jerry, that's exactly it!  Thanks.

Jill, it sure is.  This Realtor has probably long retired but her legacy lives on.

Will, thank you, we should always thrive to learn from the best, right?

Ed, it sure is and it showed that it worked back then and it will work now.

Bill, we were lucky to have found this Realtor who took her profession seriously and had our best interest at heart.

Hella, I so agree, it's something to live and strive for!

Apr 28, 2014 06:27 AM
Kevin Mackessy
Blue Olive Properties, LLC - Highlands Ranch, CO
Dedicated. Qualified. Local.

Always great when you have a positive first experience and an agent who goes above and beyond for you.  

Apr 28, 2014 09:52 AM
Women of Westchester Working Together
Women of Westchester Working Together - West Harrison, NY
Women helping Women get ahead

It's great to reflect on people/services you have used multiple times and learn from what they did well.  - Debbie

Apr 28, 2014 12:37 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Silvia, true, it makes a big difference who you are working with when you are buying your first home.

Apr 28, 2014 01:13 PM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Kevin, sure is and hopefully, all our customers feel that way as well!

Debbie, there are so many people who serve as role models throughout our lives without even knowing it!

Praful, thank you.

Apr 28, 2014 09:16 PM
Sophia Lin
Intero Real Estate Services - Sunnyvale, CA
Sunnyvale CA Real Estate Specialist

Hi Silvia, glad your first experience was a good one!  I know for a first time buyer it can be so scarey as every thing sounds so foreign and there's tons of paperwork.  Having a great agent to help guide you through the process makes all that difference in the world.

Apr 29, 2014 02:16 AM
John & Shannon Cox
CALL REALTY - Mesa, AZ
THE COX TEAM

Good lesson learned about uncooperative tenants, too! On listing appointments, when the sellers wonder if we should wait until the tenants move out before we list, I almost always say, "YES!" So much easier!

Apr 29, 2014 06:25 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Sophia, the paperwork involved seems to grow every time we turn around!

John and Shannon, definitely, sometimes there is no other way, but it's definitely preferable to not have the property rented while in the selling process.

Apr 30, 2014 12:45 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I also remember how scary it was to sign my life away for my first place, a condo I bought for about $65K.  

Apr 30, 2014 11:51 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

It is indeed scary buying your first home. I remember my first home it was a townhouse and really loved it.

Apr 30, 2014 12:50 PM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Chris, don't we wish to have the chance of that first deal again?

Rebecca, I'm glad you have such fond memories of your first home!

May 01, 2014 12:31 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks for sharing your first home purchase experience. Having a caring real estate professional to take care of you makes a world of difference in the experience.

Mar 11, 2015 09:56 PM