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My wife's first transaction and lessons we both learned.

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Managing Real Estate Broker with LoKation Real Estate

My wife's first transaction and lessons we both learned. I like to network with lenders and other Ironic first imageaffiliate partners and I am a person that believes what people tell me to be the truth, I am gullible that way. I apologize but I tend to believe people when they tell me something, I guess stupid is as stupid does. I figure I am always telling the truth so I expect every one else to do the same (ok that was a lie, there is no tooth fairy).

Anyway, another blog sparked my memory on this one lender in particular that I used several years ago, I had just left a brokerage to venture out on my own and to find some "partners" that we could help one another with business. So I was open to lenders that wanted to help my clients. One in particular stood out, with his persistence so I gave him a couple refi's and then a couple buyers and before you know it we were working together fairly often, I think I referred hin 15-18 clients over the course of a year.

My wife was my partner and we were getting very busy, so busy that we were not able to go along with each other on every appointment and she had her very first solo transaction, a young couple that were referred to us by a chain of previous transactions. My wife went over the top to take care of these first time home buyers and make sure that every step had been meticulously handled fo a very simple experience in home buying.

ChoicesThe day after loan conditions deadline, the lender called my wife and told her he was going on a 3-week vacation to Europe and the buyers are not able to qualify for the loan and he was sorry but there was really nothing he could do about it. "SORRY! are you kidding me, why didn't you tell me they could not qualify the past 4 weeks we had been working with them, especially when I called you two days before loan conditions deadline to make sure they were not jeopardizing their earnest money!"Sorry, was the only response and away he flew to enjoy 3 weeks in Europe.

My wife asked me frantically, what to do. I said lets get the other agent on the phone and figure out a solution, the agent understood our situation and introduced us to her preferred lender and he was able to put the piece's back together and we successfully closed a week later than planned thanks to cooperation between agents putting their heads together.

Lessons learned-

  1. Thoroughly check out all of the people you refer to your clients, ask for references
  2. Ask for feedback from all clients on the people you refer them to (we went back and asked the clients we referred to this lender and none of them gave him rave reviews, we should have done this from the beginning and would have had much less stress in our lives
  3. Co-operate, that is why it is called a cooperating agent, and that agents are willing to pay a cooperative fee, put your heads together when issues arise to solve them, we are all in this to help or clients, the more we understand that the better we become.Could not resist this one

 

 

 

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John Marshall -Fore!

Low-Maintenance Golf Course Living

I have been involved in the Golf Communities through-out Colorado for the past several years. As a contributing writer for Colorado Golf Magazine I write articles regarding new course development and their surrounding communities.

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Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

Well your deep thought has me laughing out loud. That is so funny.

I like that the other agent in this transaction worked with you. So many times I've seen agents get defensive or uncooperative for apparently no reason other than to make themselves feel good. I'm glad this worked out, and I bet those buyers have become clients for life.

Apr 29, 2014 08:26 AM
David Shamansky
US Mortgages - David Shamansky - Highlands Ranch, CO
Creative, Aggressive & 560 FICO - OK, Colorado Mtg

LMAO - if nothing else your deep thought for the day is a flat RIOT!

Next, shame on you... when you run into an issue DONT bail or give up, call me or email me!!! I save MANY a loan file and get referrals from other LO's who cant close a loan simply to save face with the Realtor and buyer!!!
Dont be a stranger

Apr 29, 2014 12:30 PM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Debbie - it is nice when we all cooperate, and yes that thought of the day made me smile so much I had to share.

David - If I had known you back then this never would have happened! and I always like to look on the bright side of life and find humor whenever possible, the thought of the day was my thought when this lender walked away.

Apr 29, 2014 10:40 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

John, There IS a tooth fairy.  We all know who it is ... a close relative of Santa Claus. That slinky does the trick every time.

Seriously, life is about cooperation and collaboration. We need to find ways to get things done not excuses for why we can't. It is what defines us.

Apr 30, 2014 12:29 PM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Kathleen -  I sure hope there were no little ones reading this post, I would hate to have them stop believing because of something I wrote. 

We as parents and Realtors must help one another, after all, we are all on this great big journey together!

May 01, 2014 01:07 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Knowing your referral partners is a must.  Title companies, inspectors and lenders.  

May 02, 2014 09:55 AM
Tessa Skeens
Hampton ReDesign, Home Staging and Redesign - Grand Junction, CO
Staging For Realtors, Builders & Investors

Referrals are the life blood of real estate John. I wouldn't be surprised if that lender can no longer afford to spend three weeks in Europe!

May 06, 2014 01:12 AM