“Fill Your Brain with What Can Be”
A few years ago a client of mine, went through financial issues and lost many of his real estate holdings. I meet with him numerous times during this time period and afterwards. He kept telling me that the chatter that was continuing to play in his mind was one of his being a failure. I continued to tell him that what he lost was money not what he knows. He would always say, I wish I could just flip a switch and the negative chatter would stop. I would keep telling him the same thing over and over, “You are the only one that can stop the negative chatter”.
Fast forward a few years and he again owns lots of real estate and the cash flow from the real estate makes a very good living for him and his family. So what changed. He started to change his self-talk and changed his internal messaging.
I have said many times, I am not the greatest fan of Henry Ford, but he said something that was brilliant. “If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are probably right”.
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