#1

What situation or person do you feel unforgiveness towards?

#2

Describe the situation with as much honesty as you can, and your feelings about it. (Be transparent)

#3

What was their part of the problem that resulted from wounding me?

#4

Have you accepted and acknowledged this situation to be a train wreck?

#5 Accountability regarding your train wrecks:

A) What part did you play in the hurt or wounding, or situation in general?

B) Were you in unforgiveness over a similar situation prior to this one?

C) Were there red flags that you missed? Was there incongruency? (Contrast between the spoken word and action)

D) Since this took place,

• Have you forgiven parties involved? Yourself? God?
• Have you spoken blessings or cursing over them? Over yourself?
• Promoted the story or the glory?
• Sowed positive in their lives and into yours?

E) Is there a pattern of similar situations and/or types of persons which
circle through your life, repeating the pattern?

#6

In what ways do you exhibit the symptoms of unforgiveness?

#7

In what ways has this kept you in the past? What results have you seen from your unforgiveness?