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A SHOE SHINE FOR THE SOUL!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Beam & Branch Realty TREC #547752


A SHOE SHINE FOR THE SOUL!

Shoe Shine

Have you ever met someone during a routine, everyday experience that impacted your life in a powerful way? Recently my husband and I had that kind of experience!  We were at the Waterway Marriott here in The Woodlands at the Conroe ISD Education Foundation Breakfast.

 

My husband was in great need of a shoeshine so we went over to the area where we knew that he could grab a shine.  Mel Dowdy who has worked there in the same spot for about 3 1/2 years greeted us warmly.  His huge and welcoming smile made us immediately connect with him.

 

Over the next 30 minutes we came to know Mel on a much deeper level.  What struck me the most about Mel was the way he took great PRIDE in his work.  He was excited about what he did and was animated in telling us the procedure that he had perfected.

 

It occurred to me that here was a man who we all could learn a lot from.  Not necessarily about shoe shining but rather, "soul" shining!  If more people could adopt Mel's positive outlook and his absolute commitment to his work, amazing things could happen. 

 

Why is it that this type of person is such an anomaly in our society? Our society has become less personal, more hurried and I believe less friendly.  Too many of us miss opportunities to invest in other people because we are too engrossed in our techie devices.   I wonder how many “Mels” I have missed due to being so hurried?

 

When we are blessed to meet a "Mel", they impacted our lives in a powerful way.  We never know how we might impact another life!   Think about how you might impact a life today!  I know I want to find someone today to put a  "shine" in his or her soul!  Will you look for the “Mel” in your life today?

 

 

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Comments(8)

Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Paula this is exactly what I've been posting and talking about.  Slow down, connect and smile at people. These days everyone's looking down at their phone or ipad.....The Mel's of the world have so much to teach and share......bring it on!

Jul 14, 2014 01:41 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

I'm glad you took time to appreciate Mel; making those connections makes life much better.

Jul 14, 2014 02:00 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Anna, it is true - we must miss so much because we are just too distracted.

 

Lottie, he certainly made an impact on my life and taught me a great life lesson.

Jul 14, 2014 02:31 AM
Dana Hollish Hill
Hollish Hill Group, JPAR Stellar Living - Bethesda, MD
REALTOR * Broker * Coach

Those connections can really change your whole outlook on life. How fortunate that you took the time to appreciate Mel. I bet you had a similar impact on him as well. 

Jul 14, 2014 03:38 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Paula,  technology has its place but for many the place is always in their hands and face. It's not for me. I use technology but it will never allow me to connect with other like face to face does. Taking a few moments to just "be" and listen to get to know others is where the real jewels and gifts are.

Jul 14, 2014 04:13 AM
Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

Hi Paula, It's nice to find a person like that, but what is better, is his expectations in life probably have nothing to do with technology, and just you and your husband being there and payng attention to his work, probably made his day.  It may have made his week.

Jul 14, 2014 09:51 AM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

What a great story Paula. If we pay attention it is amazing what we can hear and sell. Mel is the type of man that we can all learn from.

Thank you for commenting on my post.

Jul 14, 2014 10:14 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Paula, there are lots of diamonds out there but we have to "look" for them. Thanks for sharing this experience.

Jul 18, 2014 07:56 AM