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Shriveled plants, weeds, overgrown bushes, peeling paint, or a cracked driveway are problems that sellers must often fix before their house goes on the market. But what if these problems apply to their neighbors' homes?

Most sellers know to groom their homes for the best sale, but it's difficult to counteract the effect of distressed-looking homes that are in close proximity to their property. The cummulative effect of neglected landscapes or homes can give the neighborhood a run down look.

How embarrased was I when a neighbor several houses away recently put her house on the market? A storm had just ripped off one of our shutters and replacements were backordered for weeks. The phone company's lawn reseeding, following extensive digging, and subsequent weed extermination had left a random pattern of brown patches in our yard. The weather wasn't cooperating for new grass growth either!

I was dying of embarrassment and even invested in some yard green plant spray to help the yard look better from a distance. ( It's some kind of vegetable dye that works-to a point)  I really like our neighborhood and neighbors and wanted them to get a good price for their house. Add that to the fact that what I do is help homeowners prep their homes for staging, and here my own curb appeal was sorely lacking.

I share this because I often knock myself out to stage a home inside and out, only to see that the approach to the home or even next door there will be a house that would make only the Addams family happy.  I am at a loss to understand how people can overlook the front of their home unless they come and go in the dark. 

I am a gardener who is married to a non gardener so I understand that there may be forces at work that keep a home from being well maintained all the time.  It's called having a full life and sometimes the weather doesn't cooperate when the time is available.  But when someone on your street is trying to sell a house in a slow market you would think that common sense would spur a person into cleaning up their own property.  After all, it protects everyone's largest investment to keep their own property in good shape.  When it comes time for that person to sell, they will want to get the best price.

 All common sense, right?  So what do you do when your client brings up the problem neighbors with the junky looking yard?  You might say, "Not My Job!" and leave it at that.  What if the property is right next door and your clients don't want to do anything to help curb appeal because of the experimental weed farm their neighbor is harboring? 

You could ignore it and hope that by osmosis or shame the offensive yard will be cleaned up.  You might suggest that the clients contact the neighbors and ask if they minded if their yard service cut their grass so that it will be uniform for the web and brochure photos.  If your clients are smart they will realize that the extra expense will be worth it when buyers come by and stop to come in the house. 

Or if you are extremely personable and tactful you might drop by and introduce yourself.  A well worded introduction just might get you another client and earn the gratitude of your client and realtor.  So what would you say or do?  What if the neighbors aren't home?  Would you leave a specially written brochure about your services?  How would you use your powers of persuasion?

 
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21 Comments on Does the Addams Family Live Next Door to Your Staged Home?

MAR
29
2008
Okay..that was funny, and yes I've been there  :)
5:12pm • #1

They sure live next to my only residential listing!  The weeds are higher than the bottoms of the windows! (AND IT"S NOT EVEN SPRING YET ! )

 

 

5:20pm • #2

Hi Pam --

 Funny reading the blog -- I just got back from a new listing I got this past Thursday. Owners are up north (second home) so I went in to make sure presentable and open shades, etc... so it could show. It is a lovely condo, but the neighbors (who live above.... have 3 kids and the mother-in-law) are just "out-of-context) for this neighborhood. They have bikes parked outside - garage door left open so the kids can plan and grandma sitting in the garage, etc... This doesn't usually happen in Naples, FL - especially with a HOA -- so now I have to speak with them (add on my checklist of more things to do)--- to get them to do what is expected of them.

What will it take to sell this????  

See - we all have these issue's one way or another -

Pat 

5:26pm • #3
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Sarah, I thinkl that it is some kind of cosmic requirement that there has to be at least one nightmare house on Elm Street.  Maybe I should start a contest for the Best Worst House on the Block

Brian,  Maybe those are just spindly shrubs (HA!)  I have seen some weeds next to houses that looked better than the shrubs. Are the homeowners oblivious to the weeds or just not focused?  You probably know not to use the word ROUND-UP to them if they aren't gardeners.  I had a client who nearly killed all of their perennials one Spring because they sprayed everything that was green and the spray drifted onto a few bushes. She thought that it would only kill the weeds! Thank goodness that was done before I came into the picture.  Another reminder of Morticia snipping the roses off of the stems...

6:01pm • #4
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Pat,

HOA's can be a blessing and a curse for homeowners depending on who is running the ARC committee.  I have known of some that would let weeds grow enough to harvest and some that practically measure the blades of grass for the maximum height.  Good luck with them and let us know what measures they take. Hopefully they will be tactful but tact isn't always a requirement for a position on these committees.

Had to laugh at the grandma in the garage visual.  My friend had a family move in across the street and for a year she was treated to the grandfather doing some form of exercises that defy description, every morning and evening in the open garage.  It was his attire, or rather lack of it, that was the icing on the cake...

6:13pm • #5
MAR
30
2008
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I actually mowed the lawn of the next door neighbor (abandoned property).

It's not 'What I did for love......" , It's "What I did for Staging...."

 

8:46am • #6

Yes, have been there Pat.  When we moved into our home, the home behind us had all kinds of plants creeping over our wall into our yard and growing into our junipers.  (CA has walls around all properties, it seems) I just kept cutting them and throwing them back into their yard. Lo and behold there was a gardener at the back property in about 1 week. I felt kind of bad after that but it worked.

Also I hate it when we keep our palms trees trimmed and the neighbors don't.  We did paint out house a couple of summers ago and I think our neighborhood is on a roll of house painting. There have been 4 painted homes since then.  Haven't had to trim hedges for staging yet though.

Thanks for the post.

Diane Concialdi  

10:17am • #7

We have been there - many times!  We have hired clean-up crews to clean the yards and covered the windows with blinds so you can't see it!  And, we have gardened the mailbox strip!  What we did for love/staging - right on!   Margaret Ann

 

10:31am • #8
Pam, I think you are talking about "Pleasantville" when you suggest we should, and our neighbors should, rise to the occassion and help out our nearby home sellers :-)  That kind of neighborhood no longer exists in this country, its all about "me", nevermind who else, living in close proximity, may be struggling with their lives, and in this case trying to lure in buyers.  Its an unfortuante reality.  You make some great points, but I can tell you right now, if I asked the guy behind me to do something with his falling down fence because I was trying to sell my home, he'd probably pull a gun on me and order me off his property.  Thats just the way it goes these days and the only thing we can do is cope )-:
12:05pm • #9

Pam I agree with Terry.  Most, not all, people have gotten so wrapped up in their busy lives they drive into the garage, shut the door and shut out the world around them until its time to get back out there and deal with the struggles the next day brings.  Having said that I have encountered many who take a lot of pride in their property and how it looks, unfortunately the people who do not choose to, or simply do not have the time are also the people who don't care about the people next door trying to sell their home.

2:11pm • #10
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Tom, mowing the lawn in Houston could mean using a threshing machine during the growing season!  Having lived in Dallas for a number of years I know what a job that can be.  Kudos to you for your efforts.  It all pays off in the end.

Margaret, a friend went on midnight commando raids with her mother to pull weeds and cut back a wandering wisteria when her mother was trying to sell her home.  A little flashlight gardening did the trick and we have been laughing about it for years.

 Terry and Kerry, you are right that so many neighbors don't know each other or care.  Their homes are places to sleep, store their things and get mail.  Sometimes they may even make a meal or two there.  You do have to be careful about approaching neighbors about their problem properties.  Your trigger happy neighbor is rather frightening, Terry. 

Yes, I grew up in Pleasantville, I guess, or the modern day equivalent, so my attitudes and expectations are influenced by that experience.  I have been fortunate as an adult to live in areas where most, but not all neighbors cared for their properties and by what other people would think or say if they didn't.  We have had lovely neighbors on our street who were not the best at keeping up their homes.  One couple had health problems and several of us helped from time to time yet still made it seem that they are doing us a favor my letting us divide their perennials or cut the grass since the lawn mower was aready out.  We were sorry when the one couple left.  The new couple learned to garden from the rest of us and their yard is just about the nicest on the street.  It could have gone the other way though. 

Short of becoming the Lawn Ranger, what can you do/say to tactfully get these homes shaped up?

 

4:08pm • #11
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Lawn Ranger, that's funny, Pam! I cannot profess to ever have approached the neighbors on behalf of a staging/selling.  I leave that up to the homeowner who hopefully knows something about those neighbors.  Actually, I have never had the Adams family live next door to a staging either-thank goodness.

Kathy

4:14pm • #12
The house next door was for sale for 2 yrs, it finally sold (before I was a stager).  During that time I gutted my kitchen, trash was piled high for weeks, we tore out a swiming pool, that left a mess.  this was a fixer-uper and the outside is last on my list.  Gee I might have been the Adams Family House!!  Ooops!!
7:32pm • #13
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Becky and Nicole,

Now you know how I felt when my neighbor's house went on the market!  Timing is everything but if it is any consolation, a buyer could also look at the construction as a sign that you cared about the house and were upgrading it.  There, now, don't you feel better?  Rationalization is a wonderful thing.

Kathy, glad you liked the Lawn Ranger.  It's not original, though.  There used to be a group that marched in a parade in Dallas that did a drill with push lawn mowers that called themselves the Lawn Rangers.  It was a sight to behold as you can imagine.

Diane,

I was cracking up at the visual I got of you throwing clippings over the fence.  Talk about a broad hint to your neighbors!  Good thing they weren't like Teri's neighbor.  Did you do it at night like my friend and her mother?  I don't know if I would have the courage to do it then or any other time but good for you.  It worked!  You could start a rumor that untrimmed palms attract fruit rats and see if that gets your neighbors motivated!  HA!

7:48pm • #14
MAR
31
2008
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I had a job with a shared laneway. The property for sale was a lovely victorian on the main street of a small village. everyone's dream come true. except next door was a red tar paper home built in the early 20's that had at least 10 years worth of garbage outside, overgrown weeds growing up the house to the eavestrough etc.

I suggested to my clients that they rent a bin on the Staging day and put it in the shared laneway. When the 85 year old man came out from the property next door to see what was going on, I had my client explain that they were moving and had hired a bin to clear out all their clutter but alas had ordered a bin way too big. If he wanted to throw anything in from his property to feel free. The client offered to do the outside as he had extra time and it was the neighbourly thing to do for the elderly man.

Well it all went as planned and the outside was cleaned up in under 2 hours. The Realtor was ecstatic with the results in the Staged house and overwhelmed by the work accomplished next door.  I also had a gardener spruce up the gardens around the STaged house. The homeowners couldn't believe the transformation in just one day. They said that they had lived there for 10 years and never realized that for $ 150 they could have had their property look like a park. 

 

Michelle Finnamore  CSP    www.advantagestaging.ca 

2:31am • #15
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Pam, your post has been fun to read along with the comments. This is a true problem and there are no easy answers. It is again time to think of the list. Before speaking to the neighbors (whoever does it) it will be good to have a list of ways the neighbor will benefit by CLEANING UP THE SCREAMING MESS!!! It will be less likely to catch fire may be on the list. :) 
8:04am • #16
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Hi Pam -- Funny - I can almost hear the theme song and the snapping!
9:43am • #17
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Michelle, this is exactly the kind of thinking we as stagers need to instill in our clients.  The tactful manipulation of a situation where everyone saves face and everyone wins is the way to go.  Thanks for sharing this idea.  It's one that anyone of us may need at some point.  Would love to see before and after pictures so post them here ,if you can, for us to see. 

 Yvonne, I will be compiling a list of what people have encountered so send yours along.

Julianna, that is one of those theme songs that can stick in yor head for days.  The only way to get rid of it is to hum it to someone and then quickly leave the room.  It is then stuck in THEIR head.  Problem solved.

12:15pm • #18
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Pam, Oh the list I was thinking of was the one which Maureen Henry sometimes speaks about -- you know, the radio station WII FM. (What's In It For Me?) When we can come up with a list to hand to the less than appropriate neighbor explaining the call letters so they know what is in it for them then perhaps it will make the task easier. The sad part is we still may be left with what is in it for them is a midnight hedge trim and a bold stager atop his lawn mower making the appropriate cuts. If there are teens or young people in the offending neighbor's house it is possible that a bribe might be appropriate. Now my head is spinning. :)

Here is another blog about this topic written by Craig Schiller. It is a great reminder that it is important if at all possible to get the neighbors engaged. 

1:10pm • #19

Reading Diane's remarks about throwing her neighbour's weeds back into their yard reminds me of something 'stupid' I did last winter.  Our neighbour's dog had graciously left his poop (more than one!) on my side of our shared lawn - nothing like a snow covered lawn to make those darn things stand out!  So I decided to do the right thing and return them to their rightful owner by kicking them back over....  Well, I thought they were frozen, but nooooo, they were nice and fresh and I ended up with more pieces than when I started!

  

1:39pm • #20
I'm impressed with your thoughtfulness of investing in your own home to help your neighbor sell.  It is amazing how our perspective changes when we become home stagers.
4:03pm • #21

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