Leave everyone on a positive note. Here is the premise. You never know what is going on with the other person that is causing them to not be all they could be. Furthermore, you may never see this person again either. Another thought is that someone may need your talent or skill to help them to their next step. What am I driving at here? If you leave all in a fair and acceptable way, then you will NO have regrets now or later
EVERYWHERE YOU GO...THERE THEY ARE
Human life and the living of it is not to be taken for granted. Yet the pressures and man-made problems that visit with us all day long pull us into another direction. We slowly become obsessed with acquiring wealth, going from point A to point B and not wanting to operate outside our comfort zones
HELP GOT YOU STARTED AND KEPT YOU GOING
Think about this statement I am going to make. No one has got to where they are without the help of someone else. You can start with your birth, then go to kindergarten and from there easily see how tens of thousands of people and events have helped shape your life...
LOOK INTO THIS
If you don't have a heart of joy and giving, so be it until you do. But I ask you not to cause others unnecessary suffering or misfortune by an unkind word or deed if you can help it. I believe you can. Say or do whatever must be said or done, but include some must have dynamics with it:
1. Say what you will but remember what ST. Augustus said. Love first, then do as you will.
2. Use please and thank you even if the other person is not worthy of it. They are but you cannot see or hear it when you are in an emotional state. However they will either in that moment or later on
3. Keep it short. No redundancy. No yelling and finish what you started or don't start it at all
4. Make sure there is no resentment in your demeanor. If there is, then you are not 100% on this
I HATE HAVING TO DO THIS....but
The other day, I had to hold accountable someone who is under criticism from different sources. I told them the truth and their response was personal followed with..I hurt their feelings. I have no doubt that this took place. However, the reason why we were talking is because their "wrong' conduct commanded it. You hurt your own feelings and that of others. Think: Or why are we talking then?
START-OVER...THAT'S ALL
You needed to be reigned in and I had the unpleasant job of doing it. I am sorry sez I, but unless you do something about what everyone is complaining about, they will take it to the next step. Its your choice and then I signed off with...please...Please...PLEASE...take this in for your sake
and off I went...may we all come around for the better when it is our turn to do so
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