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Making a Difference: A Helping Hand, Loving Heart and Friendly Smile

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with KD Realty - 408.972.1822 CA DRE#01366594

Making a Difference: A Helping Hand, Loving Heart and Friendly Smile

 

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I see making a difference as a global thing. It may start in our local community but I feel making a difference transcends where it originates and impacts the entire Universe.

I believe the simple things that I do every day make a huge difference locally in my community and beyond.  Some of what I consider to be simple everyday things I do are:

 

 

 

•    Smile and say Hello to strangers – it may be the only smile or voice they hear that day
•    Open and hold doors for people – it is the polite thing to do
•    Say “please” “thank you” and “you are welcome” – these are what we call “manners”
•    Honest in my actions and deeds – at all cost honesty comes first
•    Actively listen to others – this shows respect
•    Offer my help and assistance
•    Do what I say I am going to do when I say I am going to do it
•    Follow up and follow through on my promises and commitments to others
•    Take responsibility for my actions – owning my mistakes and correcting them
•    Hold myself accountable – atone for any misgivings
•    Hold others accountable – this is a challenge
•    Compassionate – kind, caring and considerate
•    Vulnerable – willing to expose myself to imperfections of being human
•    Volunteer at the Human Society
•    Volunteer at the Food Bank
•    Fundraiser for the American Cancer Society – I am a survivor
•    Donate food to the food bank
•    Make financial donations to the Humane Society, Disabled Veterans, Food Bank, American Cancer Society

heartAs a real estate broker listing and selling San Jose Homes my clients receive full service with the best possible care. Their best interests are always to top of mind and close to my heart. I truly do put my heart and soul into taking care of my clients.

I never give up or succumb to the pressures of bully agents who attempt to strong-arm a transaction.  Please don’t be shocked by that statement. It’s a cold hard fact that it happens far too often in this business.

I do not believe we can “measure” the true difference we make when we live by the Golden Rule and treat others with dignity, honor and respect.

This post is an entry into Donna Foerster's challenge to write about how we make a difference in our community.

 

 

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Comments(31)

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Kathleen, I found myself smiling as I read your list of 'goodies' about your community. By the way, I love your new photo, it is stunning!

Jul 30, 2014 06:10 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

It's all so basic and simple, if only everyone tried just a little harder.

Jul 30, 2014 06:26 AM
Juli Vosmik
Dominion Fine Properties - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale/Cave Creek, AZ real estate 480-710-0739

Kathleen, I know you believe what you write - you are such a giving person.  But, I also know you WON'T be bullied.  I think that's because you know your business inside and out and KNOw what's right besides being the great person you are. 

Jul 30, 2014 06:59 AM
John G. Johnston
John G. Johnston & Associates, LLC - Westcliffe, CO
An Exclusive Buyer's Agent ~ Westcliffe, CO

Kathleen  I had to smile when I read "hold others accountable -  this is a challenge".  I have read many of your challenges with others and the frustration you have endured.

I love the way you live your life.  It is not that you attend a service but you live you daily life in service.  Awesome!  You do make me smile - Thanks!

Jul 30, 2014 09:10 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathleen you are write there are many ways we make a difference which may go unnoticed or we take for granted because they are just a part of who we normally are.  Yet these small actions sometimes make a huge difference in someone else's life.

Jul 30, 2014 09:25 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Kathleen,

Another very nice post. Being nice, thoughtful and kind doesn't even have to cost a cent or a charge to a credit card either! It won't higher your credit scores but if you believe in Heaven, I truly believe it will count up there!

Jul 30, 2014 09:49 AM
Bruce Walter
Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana - West Lafayette, IN

Kathleen, all I can say is that it is an HONOR to know you! 

Jul 30, 2014 10:37 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

It truly does seem simple and easy to me. Rude people do push my buttons as do those who are fake and who cheat people. Juli Vosmik - you know me well. I won't be bullied or taken advantage of and will not tolerate anyone attempting to screw with my clients!

Jul 30, 2014 11:16 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kathleen  you are a true shining light each and every day!  Love your post as it rings so true to who and what you're all about.

Jul 30, 2014 11:17 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Kathleen

That is a wonderful list. Imagine if everyone could just do some of these things every day. What a change that could be. And many of these suggestions are so simple - like saying, please, thank you , and your welcome, and with a smile!

Jeff

Jul 30, 2014 03:19 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Kathleen. Your post is outstanding and should be a model for all of us to follow. You are an inspiration to all of us my friend.

Jul 30, 2014 08:05 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathleen,

I like your new photo! Great post..if only more would understand the laws of the universe..you are indeed a remarkable lady!

Jul 30, 2014 09:20 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Using your list would be good advice for any real estate professional.

Best wishes for continued success.

Jul 31, 2014 03:07 AM
Rachel Hernandez
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HomeServices, PINEHURST REALTY GROUP - Pinehurst, NC

Great post Kathleen. The little things truly to make a difference. I am a former CASA worker soon to be Guardian ad Litem. I have always loved this quote: "To the whole world you might be just one person, but to one person you might just be the whole world." Want a tissue? Tugs my heart strings too..

Jul 31, 2014 04:04 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Kathleen, I would very much like to work in the same area as you. You are an agent of integrity and pull your weight. How refreshing to do business with someone like you.

Jul 31, 2014 09:49 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

I totally agree with this and it does make a difference. It makes you feel good and also the person receiving the smile or friendly hello.

Jul 31, 2014 12:06 PM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Kathleen~ Thank you for your entry in the contest and for sharing your thoughts. I agree that what we do has a ripple effect!

Aug 02, 2014 02:39 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

I will re-blog this post today. Have a very special week!

Aug 04, 2014 03:23 AM
The Villages Realty
The Villages Realty - San Jose, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Kathleen, just dropped by to read another good post from you.  Keep up the good work.

Jan 29, 2017 07:02 AM
Eagle Ridge Realty
Eagle Ridge Realty - Gilroy, CA
"Our Performance Will Move You!"

Hi Kathleen.  Just dropped by to see what your latest writings were about.  Good luck.

Jan 30, 2017 06:41 AM