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The Content of What You Say

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The Content of What You Say

“The basic rule of human nature is that powerful people speak

slowly and subservient people quickly - -  because if they

don’t speak fast nobody would listen to them.”

Brendan Gill, Author

 

As I see it . . . . . . .

 

The content of what you say

 

Same people talk at a rapid pace . . . . and some people will have a hard time in following what the speaker is saying.

 

Some people speak very slow . . . . and with a purpose.  In both cases the listener can turn out for the speaker based not on the pace of the conversation . . . . but on the content of what the speaker is saying.

 

Here’s the key . . . . people will listen to you when you present them with quality content. No matter if it’s for a speaking presentation . . . . a general conversation . . . . a customer . . . . or on a listing appointment.

 

In every aspect of life professional communicators provide the listener . . . . with quality content to keep the listener engaged in the conversation.

 

Match and mirror your customer’s speech patterns . . . . and the pace at which they’re speaking at. And give the person good content in the conversation and you will find that person is giving you their full attention as they listen to you . . . . In the process you’ll be building rapport with them.

 

It’s the content of what you say . . . . that effectively engages the listener.

 

©2014 Lou Ludwig Motivational Power Quote, Sales and Management Consultant, Success Coach, Speaker, Trainer and Author

 

Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I guess we should all learn to speak a little slower!

Jul 30, 2014 02:17 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Lou, isn't it true, content is the king even when we talk?

Jul 30, 2014 02:18 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Lou. As I read your post, a couple of folks came to mind.

Jul 30, 2014 06:41 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Lou, content is key, but delivery still captivates. There are  some that deliver well and say little that people are captivated with and follow over the edge of the cliff! Enjoy your day!

Jul 30, 2014 07:41 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Lou.... I think "public speaking" should be a required course on the high school level and again in college....there are educated people who do not communicate well....

Jul 30, 2014 08:37 PM
Ritu Desai 703-625-4949
Samson Properties - Chantilly, VA
Northern Virginia,Washington DC & Maryland Realtor

Good Morning Lou, this is very insipiring for everyone. In our industry we are talking frequently from real estate industry to general topics. Very wise advise to speak with content.

Jul 30, 2014 09:34 PM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

Lou, great thought for those who want to be successful. It does not matter how good a speaker you are, you have to have content people want to hear. When you have the content then focus on how you speak.

Great message.

Jul 30, 2014 09:56 PM
Donald Urschalitz
Lubeck Realty Group - Jupiter, FL
P.A. Realtor ABR RSPS North Palm Beach County

Perfect sometimes we talk just to hear ourselves but that does not work for effective communications.

Jul 30, 2014 09:58 PM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I do not know this author, but I sure do agree with what she has to say!

Jul 31, 2014 12:14 AM