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How to build a solid real estate referral base

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How to build a solid referral base... 

 

Referrals are the world's best leads.
 referrals are a springboard to success
They bring you people who are already pre-disposed to like you, trust you, and hire you.
 
They also build your reputation. There's nothing that says "This is an exceptional real estate agent" better than a business in which the majority of customers come from referrals.
 
So how can you get more of them?
 
First, by consistently staying in touch with your sphere of influence and your past clients.
 
As much as your past clients might have liked you, after a year or two has passed they might not remember your name, your phone number, and your email address. They might not even remember what agency you work with.
 
If you haven't stayed in touch with your sphere of influence, they might not realize that you're still in real estate. A whole lot of people left the business during the downturn – how do they know you aren't one of them?
 
So stay in touch. Write or call at least every 2 or 3 months. Use my staying in touch letters or create your own. You can also send market reports, holiday greetings, school sports schedules, and even notices about events for non-profit organizations you support.
 
You can also follow Barbara Todaro's lead and mail just listed, under contract, and just sold postcards to the whole community of people who might need your services. If you recall, Barbara said she mails a minimum of 3,000 postcards per listing. (And guess whose team is #1 in Franklin, MA?)
 
Second, by asking for the referrals.
 
I know, it isn't easy to ask. But change your mindset. Remember that you offer a valuable service – you help people make their dreams come true.
 
So end every correspondence with a request for them to let you know if any friends, family, acquaintances, or co-workers will soon be needing the services of a professional who will help them accomplish their goals.
 
Do remember to ask about those individual groups rather than lumping them together and saying "Do you know anyone?" I believe it was Tom Hopkins who taught that when you ask people "Do you know anyone who..." they "see" the universe and don't see anyone in particular. When you ask "Is there someone on your bowling team..." they see individuals. 
 Say thank you!
Third, by showing real appreciation for the referrals you receive.
 
"Thank you" is so easy to say, and yet so many fail to say it. So make it a point to say it, and say it well.
 
When someone refers a friend to you, thank them, then stay in touch. Let them know that you've gotten in touch with the friend and have an appointment to meet.
 
Then let them know that you are either listing a home or helping their friend search for a new home. Later, let them know when you've been successful. And… when the resulting sale closes, send a thank you note and a gift.  A personal phone call would also be in order. (And it could result in even more leads.)
 
We humans love to be appreciated, so never skimp when it comes to saying thanks. 
 

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Comments(17)

Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Thanks for the mention, Marte..... and thanks so much for the great work you just did for me with Lorraine's bio.... you did a great job, and I can always count on you to get me just what I need.... you're my #1 "go to" person when I need something special written....

Jul 31, 2014 06:40 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Thank you Barbara - You know I appreciate your support. You're fun to write for because you give me the information I need - I don't have to "Play dentist" to get it! 

And... I enjoy our emails back and forth. 

Jul 31, 2014 06:52 AM
Women of Westchester Working Together
Women of Westchester Working Together - West Harrison, NY
Women helping Women get ahead

Super ideas here Marte.  We've been doing some of these, but can be doing even better.  - Debbie

Jul 31, 2014 07:09 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Marte, Building relationships and staying in touch are the magic ingredients. When we stay top of mind the referrals will come. 

Jul 31, 2014 07:20 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Debbie - You're a superior marketer - and I doubt that you let your past clients forget you. 

Debbie - That's it. If you don't stay top of mind, someone else will take your place. 

Jul 31, 2014 07:29 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Marte- you know what... it's so simple.. the 3 things you mentioned and yet, I think we make it harder for ourselves than it needs to be.  

Jul 31, 2014 11:32 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Kathy - We're humans. For some reason we don't understand, we like to complicate things. 

Jul 31, 2014 01:15 PM
Don Sabinske
Don Sabinske, Sabinske & Associates Inc. - Zimmerman, MN
Sabinske & Associates Inc.

I get lots of referrals and repeat business by just staying in touch.  An email once in a while with something I think the former buyers or sellers might be interested in works for me!

Aug 01, 2014 04:00 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Don - Especially if you can make it personal - like sending a link to an article that would interest a specific person.

Aug 01, 2014 05:13 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Aug 02, 2014 10:59 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Thank you Kathy. I so admire you for doing those weekly posts. 

 

Aug 02, 2014 11:39 AM
Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

I remember when I thought that asking for the referral wasn't cool.  I thought it was too pushy and invasive.  Well, not any more!  I realized that after years my confidence grew, and that my clients wanted to help me.  All I had to do was ask.  

Aug 02, 2014 10:15 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Jared - Yes, people do want to help you after you've helped them. I think a lot of being able to ask is in realizing that you really are providing a good service - and that it's one they might not get if they choose a different agent. 

Aug 03, 2014 02:14 PM
Suzanne De Vita
RISMedia
Online Associate Editor

Marte, visiting from Debbie G.'s (Women of Westchester Working Together) reblog. Know your worth and ask for the referral - thanks for offering up this simple, but powerful explanation.

Aug 04, 2014 12:49 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Suzanne - Knowing your worth is the key. You're offering help instead of begging for business. 

Aug 04, 2014 01:15 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Marte~ It's really quite simple to get referrals, however so many do take the steps necessary. 

Aug 04, 2014 02:52 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Donna - I think people are afraid to ask - and I completely understand that kind of bashfulness. 

Aug 04, 2014 02:58 AM