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Your Friend In Bed With Your Wife?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408

Politics is a wonderful subject. Everybody knows everything and nobody really knows anything. It is rarely about the facts, and it is always about perception.

I communicate with quite a number of friends, and former students back in Russia. Everything was fine until Russia annexed the Crimea.What seemed obvious to me was not obvious to my Russian friends. It was a surprise that I was calling it the Anschluss. I tried to explain, but I was hitting the wall. Very quickly I lost some of the followers, and got some good enemies from a few so-so friends :)

Then came the conflict in the Eastern Ukraine. Russia is trying to keep the Ukraine. After all, they were together for centuries. And my Russian pen-friends are surprised, that Ukraine is past the friendship part. Why are they apart now?

I believe the answer is very easy.

Russians consider taking the Crimea the act of historic fairness. Crimea was Russian for a long time, before it was transferred under the jurisdiction of the Ukraine in 1954. So, Russians feel overwhelming pride. The pride obscures everything. Nobody cares about the costs, political ramification...

And yet, they want the Ukraine be as attached to Russia, as it was before.

Ukrainians see it very differently. In 1954 Crimea was pretty much a desert, and now it is a developed area with resorts, industry, etc. After the collapse of the Soviet Union in 1991 Russia agreed not to seek any changes in Ukrainian borders in exchange for Ukraine giving up their rather sizable arsenal of nuclear warheads. Funny, but the guarantors of their borders were US, Great Britain and ... Russia.

Ukraine now does not have the Crimea, and it does not have the nuclear warheads, and the country, that violated their borders was the guarantor. The funny part is that Putin is surprised that there are sanctions. He is a lunatic if he believed that there would be no sanctions. The choice for two other guarantors is to either declare a war, or put pressure on Russia with increasingly tougher sanctions. And that's exactly what they are doing. So, this should have been expected by Putin, but it wasn't. After a war with Georgia, when the world closed their eyes, he was sure he would get away with it easy.

Ukrainians see it as humiliation. And also as an attempt to keep them under Russia's control, where Russia can at any time declare any part of the territory their own, which they are trying to orchestrate in Eastern Ukraine right now.

Imagine that you come home and you see your best friend in bed with your wife. I am sure you lose a friend (and, probably, wife).

Now imagine that this friend wants to be you best friend, because you were friends for a long time. And when you say "hell, no", he is upset and threatens you.

This is what happened in Ukraine. Now Russia is trying to tell Ukraine that they have always been like brother and sister, and should keep it this way.

So wise… But you do not f… your sister.

If Russia really cared about 45-Mil brotherly nation, they shouldn’t have taken Crimea, and then pretend that nothing happened.

Alas, there is no love left… Unless, of course, Russia brings it on the bayonets.

William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hi Jon, I love your take on this and trust your truth about your experience as opposed to how others try and gloss this over or put their own spin on it. 

Aug 10, 2014 03:00 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Jon, it is hard to get a bully to respond when they get a slap on the hand for being abusive.

Aug 10, 2014 04:00 PM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
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Hi Jon: I hate politics but you made me read one today. It may be another case of PCB (power conscious bacteria).

Aug 10, 2014 10:47 PM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Jon, This is troubling political stuff going on i Russia, Ukraine and Crimea. You make several excellent points. I am sure it is difficult for you as you are Russian to see what is happening.  I hope Putin comes to his senses but I am not an expert by any means. 

Aug 11, 2014 04:06 AM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

     When guns are outlawed, only outlaws will have guns.  Go ahead, disarm yourselves, give up your nukes. 

Aug 11, 2014 05:47 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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WILLIAM - turns out pride is a dangerous thing. There is so much pride in Russia, and amidst this Hurray nothing is noticed. This is a one man ideas, and no questioning, no critique... Freaking dangerous

Aug 11, 2014 08:50 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Jon.... I like your explanation and it really seems to be spot on .

Aug 11, 2014 11:17 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Ed - you are right, it really is hard

Aug 12, 2014 08:21 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Maria - power conscious bacteria... hmm, it is cool how you call it :)

Aug 12, 2014 08:22 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Robert - bullies are known to be extraordinary stubborn. this might be the case

Aug 12, 2014 08:23 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Fred - so well said, excellent, thank you

Aug 12, 2014 08:24 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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William - sometimes I would rather be wrong :) this stuff is tough to swallow, but two Slavic nations are fighting, and no love is left... And all because of one stubborn guy, who miscalculated the whole thing, and now can't find the way to pull back... his ego is at stake

Aug 12, 2014 08:25 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Jon, when I was in the service all of it was grouped together as the USSR. Then when the cold war ended I remember Reagan saying' "My Gorbochov, tear down that wall" and soon after that happened. There should be no going back as you and I both agree. I doubt if we had a strong president today that it would be happening.

Aug 13, 2014 08:36 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Mike - I am with you on that. Our foregn policy is riddled with mistakes

Aug 13, 2014 04:04 PM
Dale Bledsoe
Crown Key Realty - Tracy, CA
Realtor in Tracy, California

I think it was simply Putin seeing an opportunity to grab and flip off the U.S. administration. He kicked dirt in Obama's face and Obama said "yes sir may I have another".

Aug 19, 2014 03:43 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I have my family in Ukraine and a lot of friends. I don't watch tv..... my family, friends and clients always tell me what is going on there. Russia has a very powerful PR and media......it is amazing what it does to minds of regular people. The whole situation is tragic.

As you said: Everyone knows everything, but almost no one tells the truth.

Aug 20, 2014 04:40 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Putin and his team do not want to pull back. He will continue to push forward. As last few months proved, no one dares to stop him. It is unbelievable:(

I was sharing the opinion that after murdering 300+ innocent people someone will tell: 'enough is enough!'.

How it is even possible that this crime was so fast forgotten and forgiven?!

Aug 20, 2014 04:44 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Dale - to a point this is true. Politics is what you can do not because you can. but because others would let you by not stopping you

Aug 20, 2014 11:40 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Inna - isn't it mind boggling? No resolve at all? How easy it is to get to the WWIII?

Aug 20, 2014 11:41 PM
Bill Lauler
Chase Realty LLC - McLean, VA
Associate Broker,CIPS,CRB,SRES,GRI

Ho Jon , This is a sad state of affairs on both sides.Putin believes the Ukraine is the bread basket of Russia and thus it is his to take.Especially now that the US has a "paper tiger" at best for a commander in chief. Your post is to the point .

Sep 06, 2014 09:58 PM