Exclusive Buyer Agency Contracts. Don't Sign Them... Yet.

WHY in the WORLD WOULD A BUYER SIGN THIS?

How could signing ALL YOUR RIGHTS AWAY ever help you, the buyer? Where is the "What's in it for me?" in that proposition?

First of all, what is an "Exclusive Buyer Agency Agreement"?
This is a contract that a buyer is oftentimes asked to sign by a buyer agent Realtor. In part it commits the buyer to use this one agent exclusively for several months.

But, don't you still want to be able to:

  • Use another Realtor if you don't like this one?
  • Buy a FSBO and have no commission be paid!
  • Walk into a New Construction and sign papers, who needs a Realtor for that? I got them down $50k!
  • Have 2 or 3 eager Realtors compete for your business. Each one working their tail off to find you that hidden gem. Doesn't cost you anything, so why not? (just like the Double Agents show, where 2 Realtors compete: see Video)
  • If you find the home, why should he get paid anything?
  • Why sign an "exclusive" agreement, when you can sign a "non-exclusive" agreement?
And that sales pitch is so hoaky sometimes:
  • "My broker requires it before showing you anything."
  • "This is standard."
  • "If you don't sign this, then I am legally working for the seller. If you sign this, it acknowledges that I am working for you, the buyer." (my favorite, as the law reads, it is true, but in reality, it is just a pitch)
What a ton of B.S.

So let me know if I missed anything. All of the above is the typical viewpoint of the buyer right? I know it well. I grew up with it. My mother was the most cynical person and would never sign one of these agreements. She didn't see the "how can this help me." In part it is the Realtor's fault for not explaining the process clearly.

But, and here is the big butt, I have seen the other side! It isn't always as shady as it initially appears and it can help the buyer.

As a Realtor, many newbies feel bad getting their clients to sign these contracts. Sometimes they let it slide, until one day they understand why it protects the Realtor. Then I'll go into how it helps the client.
What? This exclusive contract can help the buyer? How in the world is this going to come around full circle? Ah, the suspense.

  • Background story: I was helping some clients buy a home in 2004. Many buyers might think we are paper pushers, but some of us Realtors go above and beyond. Including once driving to Chantilly to take 100+ photos of the interior of one unit. Why? Because of Sucky Listing Agents. The agent only had 1 photo, and the buyer was out of town, so I created a virtual experience for them. (I do this for all of my buyers, I take about 50-100 photos of EACH place we see together and I create on online private album for them to remember everything. Does your B.A. do this?)

    Anyhow, we put an offer in on one place. We didn't get it. I'm ok with that. I could have talked them into a higher price, and won, but I didn't do that. I worked for their best interest, not mine. Then they found a For Sale By Owner. It was literally 20% overpriced (as many FSBOs are). They had me run the numbers and do a full analysis on the neighborhood etc. I even helped them talk through what they wanted to offer. I warned them no matter how upgraded it was, it was a really high price. It was like buying the best house in the worst neighborhood. They decided to offer anyhow.

    I then get an email the next day saying that my services were no longer needed (You're fired), they had bypassed me and bought the FSBO for $30k over what it should go for. Payment to Frank was $0, (hours wasted). Buyer overpaid $30k. Having some consolation knowing they overpaid= Priceless.


Since then I require my clients to sign an "Exclusive Buyer Agency Agreement" early on. Not before the first showing, like some, but shortly thereafter. I give them enough time to feel me out, but I can't invest a ton of time with a customer that is still shopping around agents and might bolt at any moment. A catch 22 of sorts.

 So, ok, you got screwed, that sucks, help me understand how this helps me, today's buyer?
  1. The contract outlines what the agent gets paid. Mine says 3%. And that means if a listing is offering 2% (only a few homes do), my buyer pays the balance, and if there is a FSBO offering 0%, my buyer pays the full 3%.
Wait a second, that sucks. I've always been told that the "seller pays."
Again, a sales tactic brainwash: "Buyer agents are Free." Don't believe that. Guess who is writing the check/loan for a $400,000 house? Guess where the Realtor fees get drawn from at closing? Correct, that check. You are indirectly paying for all the fees.

  1. b. Wait it gets better. My exclusive agreement also states that if the buyer compensation exceeds 3%, the rest is rebated to the buyer! See (Shady Realtor Bonuses? 10%!! Free Cruise? Be Aware.") Isn't it great... no... just normal... that you have a contract that outlines what your Realtor is getting paid? Overpayments/bribes go back to the buyer, and there are no behind the scene shenanigans going on. (Buyer benefit 1: The buyer agent's commission is fixed and you aren't pushed into a property that bribes the agent)
  2. The agent can remove the fear in the back of their head that their client will walk, and they can give unbiased advice.Come on, human nature is going to kick in. How can you ask a Realtor "What would be a good deal for this", (a question I don't directly answer, but that is a long story) knowing that if the buyer doesn't buy this place, the buyer still has the right to snatch up another place and fire the agent. How can an agent be aggressive for you if their commission might drop from $10,000 to $0 if they tell you the truth and guide you through a lower bid? It just can't happen. The agent in this situation is NOT WORKING WITH THEIR BUYER, BUT AGAINST THEIR BUYER. This does NOT help the buyer. (Buyer benefit 2: Buyer agent is working FOR the client, not competing against them).
  3. Double their efforts. What Realtor in their right mind is going to go above and beyond and try to find you houses that are off the market or spend too much time on a buyer that doesn't see the process as a team effort? I oftentimes send out letters to entire communities that my buyer likes. And that works. Usually for every 10 MLS places I show, I'll scrounge up 1 or 2 places that are yet to be listed, withdrawns, FSBOs, or another hidden gem. Without that commitment from the buyer, I'd see it as a waste of time, or too risky. (Buyer benefit 3: More time invested in finding you more places equates to a better price or more inventory/options.)
  4. Help you or help another committed buyer? A good buyer agent will be turning away clients, or referring to another good agent, when they get too busy. If you want a new Realtor that has nothing better to do than drive you around forever on the 50/50% chance you will use them, great, but why not use a Realtor that respects your time as well as their own time and puts his foot down and sets guidelines for the work that they perform?

What about non-exclusive buyer agency agreement? I heard some agents will use that. Doesn't that help me while protecting me?

All that does is a) squelch the "I work for the seller" trick and b) outlines how the Realtor gets paid. Both good things, but knowing that the buyer might go buy something after seeing something at an Open House or a new construction without them, the bias will still be there for you to buy quickly and for a higher price.


What about New Constructions, isn't it better if I'm Realtorless?
Almost always the price for the buyer is the same with or without a Realtor (wow a pitch that you might have heard, that is essentially true). But, yes, on a rare occasion the sales office might get a bonus if they sell a unit to you without a Realtor, but who cares? You still don't have anybody working for your best interest. Who cares if you got them to drop $50,000, a good Realtor might be able to say "Wait, in another community across town, they have been dropping $100,000!" or "Don't believe their comps, they are illegally not posting the seller subsidy (see Beware: New Constructions Illegally Not Disclosing Seller Subsidies). Recently I helped a client get a new construction for $10,000 under the price he was initially told was non-negotiable by the sales agent AND I wrote into the contract a clause that allowed him to exit the contract if the prices of the condos continued to drop (a pricing guarantee). That single handedly could save him $40,000. And all you thought we did was show up with a smile and cash our check? What about the Jaguar the money I saved you can buy? Will I get a free ride at least?

Also in one case with an Arlington new condo, is the sales office going to tell you about how the building was almost condemned and slated to be destroyed because it was sinking? Um, I don't think so.

What about these FSBOs, isn't it better if I find one without a Buyer Agent?
Yes. In theory. But those FSBOs tend to be cheapskates. This is fine, but cheapskates (like my mother!!) are notorious for overpricing! Great you "save" on Realtor fees, but you get a horrible deal. With a Realtor who is on the same team as you, can help you evaluate the pros and cons of that unit and also strategize how you can get the seller down. No not just with a low offer, but other ways. I love dealing with FSBOs that think they know it all. My client pays the Realtor fee (wink wink) but then they get the place for $50k under true value.

Again, yes, signing the agreement might preclude you from buying a gem FSBO that is underpriced and not offering Realtor commissions. That is a "risk" that you have to understand and be willing to accept, in trade for the other benefits of having a dedicated Realtor.

Buyer's can't have it both ways. You can't expect an agent to work their tail off for you, offer unbiased data analysis, and offer aggressive negotiations while the agent knows you hold an "out" card. What, is the agent expected to just cross his fingers that his time invested will work out favorably? Is it worth holding onto that out card? That is up to the buyer, and if they see any value in their agent. And it is up to the agent to ask for it if they see a value in their own services.

To recap: I've put myself in the buyer's shoes. I know where they are coming from and their hesitations. I can understand and respect that initial viewpoint. Now put yourself in the shoes of the agent. How likely is that agent going to be to help you try and fight for an extra $5,000 or $10,000 off? Human nature would kick in and say, "Why should I be aggressive on this offer if they might just go elsewhere if this deal doesn't happen?"


If I sign one, when should I sign it?

  • Wait until you are comfortable with your agent.
  • Even if the agent didn't ask for one, consider signing one before you put in an offer. That way you are saying a) "What are you getting paid?" b) "Don't worry, I will use you, now tell me honestly about the value of this place."

Good luck. Hopefully after reading the rest of this blog that highlights the insider tricks of Realtors, you will better understand why this exclusive buyer agency contract is requested by some and required by others and how it ultimately helps the buyer.

Update: Kelley sums it up perfectly in her recent comment, she stated:  "I have heard clients say that they have "hired" an agent to sell their home, but they are "using" and agent to buy."


- Written by Frank Borges LL0SA- Broker/Owner FranklyRealty.com

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33 Comments on Exclusive Buyer Agency Contracts. Don't Sign Them... Yet.

Boy, you had me going there for a while.  I wasn't sure which side you were on.  Good points on why buyers should ask for an EBAA.

02/12/2007 04:41 PM by Lawrence Kansas Real Estate Rob Lang CRS, GRI, ABR, ePro, Realtor (Realty Executives, Hedges/www.IHaveAddresses.com)


That commercial was one of my very favorites!  It cracks me up that people really do see Realtors like that!  Oh my goodness! 

02/12/2007 04:43 PM by Pascack Valley Real Estate>> Lisa and Robert Hammerstein (Coldwell Banker)


Wow, lots of info here. Echos my beliefs.

Curious if you have gotten questions about how you, as BA, can represent me in the negotiations where you fee is a result of the offering price. The higher the price you suggest we offer the better your commission, or conversely...

How have you responded? Or do you nip it in the bud right off the bat and let them know upfront how you deal with this apparent conflict.

Jeff

02/12/2007 05:33 PM by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Real Estate (RE/MAX Associates)


Great questions Jeff.

If the  buyer is on my side , I can tell them  "look, these guys are desperate and are trying to bribe me with a bonus for a full price offer. I'm going to ignore that bonus and offer what you want me to offer."

If there is a bonus, THE BUYER gets the bonus.

The entire point of the Exclusive contract is that I get 3% regardless. So the  #1 goal is getting the lowest price for my client.

Frank Borges LL0SA- Virginia Broker/ Owner FranklyRealty.com

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02/12/2007 05:53 PM by Northern Virginia Homes - FRANKLY REAL ESTATE Inc


Frank:  I love your graphics.

02/12/2007 06:03 PM by Diane Cipa


Great post! 

Are you REALLY an Exclusive Buyer's Agent?  Never take a listing, never represent a seller?  That's what Exclusive Buyer's Agents do. 

As for rebating the bonus (bribe, although all offers of cooperation could be called bribes if you really think about it), if there is one, I tell my clients about them upfront.  I've never had a client buy a house that had a higher incentive for the buyer's agent than the usual offer, probably because the house needs all the help it can get, including the bribe to the buyer's agent, to get sold!  But if I did, I'd probably offer it to my clients.

02/12/2007 06:17 PM by Buyers Advantage Real Estate of Metro Denver


In the first part of the post, I was ready to ream you.. :)  but I read the rest.

Great post.

 

02/12/2007 06:22 PM by Kansas City North Real Estate :: Fran White 816-682-3897 (North Kansas City Real Estate, Reece and Nichols Residential)


Excellent post, and they are getting to be more and more common.  The way they are written it does protect all parties and the client takes you more seriously.  I have heard clients say that they have "hired" an agent to sell their home, but they are "using" and agent to buy.

02/12/2007 06:32 PM by Kelley Eling (Marin & So. Sonoma Real Estate) (Pacific Union Real Estate)


boy you got me stirred up for a moment- excellent audience catcher! YOu put alot of time and thought into creating a post that sits on the fence and plays out both sides of the story....I Will bookmark and reread as it is full of great pointers. I even love the last sentence after your signature.

 

02/12/2007 07:00 PM by Michele Connors, Broker in Charge (Coldwell Banker First Realty Morehead City)


Great post, Frank.

What has been your experience with enforcing the BA Agreement?  Unfortunately, my experience has been that the BA agreement isn't worth the paper it's written on. I've seen several cases where buyers have signed one and "fired" the BA later anyways. They've subsequently gone on to mediation/litigation and the buyer has not had to pay any commission to the "BA" for whatever convoluted reason/loophole.

Just curious to know what you and others have seen when it comes to enforcement of the Agreement?

02/12/2007 07:21 PM by Lanette Branch (RE/MAX 1st Advantage Realty, Inc.)


Hello Judith,

No I don't exclusively represent buyers. I also so some listings. What you are referring to is "Exclusive Buyer Agents" this article is on "Exclusive Buyer Agency Agreements" which has to do with JUST that one client, not with your business practice. I think the days of "I won't list a house , and that proves that I'm a more dedicated Buyer Agent" is a thing of the past.

 

Frank Borges LL0SA- Virginia Broker/ Owner FranklyRealty.com

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02/12/2007 07:24 PM by Northern Virginia Homes - FRANKLY REAL ESTATE Inc


Brilliantly put Kelley!

"I have heard clients say that they have "hired" an agent to sell their home, but they are "using" and agent to buy."

 

Frank Borges LL0SA- Virginia Broker/ Owner FranklyRealty.com

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02/12/2007 07:28 PM by Northern Virginia Homes - FRANKLY REAL ESTATE Inc


Hey Lanette Branch,

Great question. You know that example I gave about the buyer running off and buying something else? Well their lawyer claimed that I didn't have anything in writing claiming that they were picking me as their agent. Little did their lawyer know that I had a log of all my instant messages. Before I went out to Chantilly (40 minutes) to take photos, I said to my client "I can only go out there and take these photos only if I know that I am your exclusive agent." He wrote "Yes you are our agent.- His Name"

Legally that is enough to meet the "in writing" clause.  I did sue them, and we settled for a decent amount.

Frank Borges LL0SA- Virginia Broker/ Owner FranklyRealty.com

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02/12/2007 07:37 PM by Northern Virginia Homes - FRANKLY REAL ESTATE Inc


Awesome Post Frank!  I fully agree with you.....EBA is very important to both parties these days.

02/12/2007 07:53 PM by Jennifer K Giraldi, Atlanta REALTOR® Atlanta Real Estate Expert (Solid Source Realty Atlanta)


That's one of the best posts I've read in ages!!!  I have duly bookmarked it and will share it with folks.  Have to say though, I cracked up with the 'priceless' comment...I think that all of us who have worked our fannies off for someone who cut us out have seen the same thing happen-and secretly rejoiced.  =)  Thanks!

02/12/2007 07:55 PM by Leigh Brown Charlotte NC Broker/Owner (RE/MAX Signature Properties)


In Maine, you cannot give any advice for a customer until they sign an Exclusive Buyer Agency Agreement and become a client.  As one of my Real Estate intructors calls it, you are a "monkey with a key."  I will work one day in a customer relationship, but no more;  I can't work that way - it's not fair to either party.  I also detail the "gap" that they may have to make up if the seller does not offer my full fee.  I earn that money and do my best to document the value I bring to the table thus far very successfully.     

02/12/2007 08:48 PM by Rick Beal (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


I am an exclusive buyer's agent and I will only work with a contract.  I never have had any problems with a buyer signing the contract.  Typically, I meet with a prospect for about an hour prior to showing them any properties.  I assess if the prospect will be a good client -- as well as give them a chance to learn about me and the home buying process.  Our contract also allows them (and me) to cancel the contract if they are not satisfied.  This makes the client feel more comfortable.  I think too many real estate agents are afraid to ask for this commitment up front.    Once you get used to sitting down with prospects and building rapport etc. it becomes easy to do and the level of commitment is much higher.

02/12/2007 09:04 PM by Northern Virginia Homes - FRANKLY REAL ESTATE Inc


Hey Rick,

The "monkey with a key" is exactly what I refer to as the excuses that Realtors use to trick their clients to sign with them. Just playing devil's advocate here, couldn't they just sign the "non-exclusive" agreement that I refer to in my post? That way they would be a "client."  I'm not saying that buyers should sign "non-exclusives," I'm just saying that as Realtors, we need to better explain why it helps THEM and why it helps us. None of this monkey business.

 

02/12/2007 09:20 PM by Northern Virginia Homes - FRANKLY REAL ESTATE Inc


Hello Joan,

Yes, getting somebody to sign something with the caveat "you can tear this up at any time" is easy to do. 

Frank 

02/12/2007 09:23 PM by Northern Virginia Homes - FRANKLY REAL ESTATE Inc


Frank - I guess it's how you look at it.  I'm not tricking them into anything.  I get paid at closing and I'm willing to take some risk if I see the odds are good that I'll get paid.  I am not a non-profit, however.  I need some assurance I'm going to be paid before I choose to work with somebody!

02/12/2007 09:25 PM by Rick Beal (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


Very good post.

I like your idea of taking pictures of all the homes that they see and giving them an album.  I was thinking of taking pictures as we look at homes and then burn them a CD at the end of the day.  Just haven't been able to work the picture taking into the normal routine yet.

02/12/2007 09:27 PM by Tim . (HomeAtlanta.com)


Hoo Boy! Great post! I love using a Buyers rep agreement, it weeds out the people that only want to waste your time, but it is challenging to know when is the right time to put it forward...I like to say before I physically show them properties but it doesn't always work that way.

The double agent video was great! Talk about being on the fast track!

Thanks Frank!

02/12/2007 09:34 PM by Trevella Williams (Local Hawaii Real Estate)


Frank.. this is a great article.. I too will admit I started out ready to leave the pos and then kept  reading. so you got me on that one too!. I will walk away from this post with something.. The idea of anything over 3% get rebated towrds buyer closing costs. thanks.. :)

02/13/2007 08:36 AM by Nick M -Realtor®-Appraiser in West Palm- South Florida Real Estate Appraiser (Certified Residential Appraiser- West Palm Beach Real Estate)


This was a really great blog and I enjoyed it immensly. Nicely written and I love your pics.  If you present the Byer with the knowledge that you can resind the EBA contract at anytime, it makes him/her more comfortable and will usually sign it with that feeling that they can get out of it when they want.  I liken it to a divorce, if you don't want to be with me ~~ then I don't want to be with you!

Patricia Aulson/REALTOR/SEACOAST/NH, ME & MA

URL: www.patricia4realestate.com

02/13/2007 10:57 AM by Patricia Aulson (PRUDENTIAL RUSH REALTY)


Great article. I don't always have a buyer agreement signed.  I must reconsider my value to a buyer. Thanks

02/13/2007 11:00 AM by Ken Nimmo (Coldwell Banker Brothers Realty)


Well laid out post as to content and photos.  I don't use contracts and buyers don't "use" me. 

02/15/2007 11:33 PM by ARDELL DellaLoggia (Sound Realty)


Now thisis a blog!  You kept my attention the whole time.  Very interesting stuff and well written. 

02/21/2007 12:20 PM by Brian Schwind | Chicago REALTOR® (Schwind Realty & Development Inc.)


Wow, the first few paragraphs made me furious, way to suck us in and turn it around.  Those are some great points you make.  Personally as an agent I wouldn't hold someone's feet to the fire.  If they have a legitimate reason for not working with me chances are I feel the same way.  That goes for sellers and buyers.

03/09/2007 07:50 AM by Brian Brumpton, Boise Idaho Real Estate Professional. (Keller Williams Realty of Boise)


The days of "I won't list a house and that proves I'm a more dedicated buyer's agent."  Huh?  I don't think any of us ever say that.  What we DO say is that we DON'T list houses because that eliminates any potential for comflict of interest, and that we SPECIALIZE in serving the best interests of buyers.  When you work only with buyers as a fiduciary you become a specialist and an expert on buying.  That's all we do, all day every day -- act as fiduciaries in representing folks who buy.  We do know how sellers think, because all of us started out working both for buyers and for sellers.  The law requires it.  And so does all the special education we get learning how to serve buyers best.

03/11/2007 12:42 PM by Buyers Advantage Real Estate of Metro Denver


Frank- awesome post; funny, informative and visually titillating! Way to go!

05/01/2007 12:53 PM by Jim Ludes Grundy/Will County, IL REALTOR (Century 21 Coleman-Hornsby)


read and re read and I will need to read again but after talking about it last night too- this is truly a great post!

08/08/2007 12:59 PM by scott montgomery


great article, not to mention if you are working with an agent and you walk into an open house and are interested in it, your buyer Realtor is not going to be able to help you negotiate or anything else if you didn't have it in writing before stepping in that door.

08/12/2007 05:14 PM by Janie Coffey, GRI - Equestrian Real Estate (Janie Coffey and Papillon Real Estate, LLC)


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